[Sensei Creation]

Okay so after 83 approaches documented on this thread (http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-42914.html ) I’ve finally managed to net myself my first game aware date tomorrow.

However there’s a affair amount of obstacles I’ll have to surmount if I am to achieve my first game aware bang with this one.

Firstly there is a possibility that she will flake, I’ve already accepted this and should it occur I’d definitely be disappointed but I’d bounce back on the number farm immediately. If there’s one thing I’ve internalised so far in my quest to change my life it’s an abundance mentality.

If she does show, there is a problem, firstly, I have no idea where to take her. I’m not really a bar guy , and I haven’t really done the footwork to find any places that have the laid back vibe that I’m looking for .

There is this one bar that I went to a couple times with some co-workers that has a very discreet and cool atmosphere ( It has comfortable sofas and the way it is laid out ensures there is maximum privacy ) . However I don’t know it’s opening hours and I have to be open to the possibility that it may not be open during the daytime.

Can anyone recommend types of venues that offer this laid back, discreet atmosphere during afternoons?

I’ve been on many dates before but this will be my first game aware date , I’ll feel abit comfortable running my material in a bustling starbucks within direct earshot of curious on-lookers . I know I should have a IDGAF mentality but again , I’m a beginner , I’d like a more comfortable venue where I’d be able to escalate in peace .

Secondly there’s logistics , this girl cannot come home with me . Okay technically she can , but it’s not very feasible . I live in a small house with numerous family members . I’ve had girlfriends in the past but I was in boarding school in a different country . I’ve never had to bring a girl home . They aren't opposed to me bringing girls home , but sex is a taboo subject in my household .
Based on the times of the date , by the time I bring her home the whole family will be back from school/work . This wouldn't be a problem if I had my own room but I share a room with my brother .

To make a long story short, she can come back home but we won’t be able to bang so I’ve ruled that out .

From what I’ve heard, she also lives with her mother , I started a thread here (http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-43773.html ) about getting into a girls home during night game and I think the advice given is relevant here , but if anyone has anymore advice please don’t hesitate to share .

Lastly , please don’t hesitate to point me to any first date routines I can add to my material . I’ve heard Carlos mention the “love test” which seems interesting to me . If anyone has any more please don’t hesitate to share .

I’ve added our text conversation below for context :

* Yoo it’s Sensei did I text the right number ?
- Aha yeah you did lol
* Why you got two numbers tho , im sure you’ve got a double life I don’t know about
* On some 007 shit
- Not even looool
- No I don’t honestly
* Whatever you say mrs bond
* Aye lets hang out later this week
- Yeah thats cool
* This weekend kinda crazy tho.. slide through for drinks on Monday , I got some new recipes I wanna try
- Lol okay
- That’s cool
* I’ll text you Sunday to send a time so don’t go on any top secret missions until then
- Looool
- What are you doing
* Summoning raindows and chasing leprechauns
- Lol
- U smoke weed init
* I used to smoke everyday I don’t blaze too often now
- Lol are you serious

Blah blah blah

* Hang out tomorrow around 1 ?
- Got class
- Till 3
* Ite I’ll see you after class around 3.30, I might be a few minutes late tho
- Yeah thats okay
* ***** Station
- okay

[Sensei Creation]

I apologise for the double post , I've tried to delete one of the threads but it says I don't have the right to

[eradicator]

couple of things, assuming this is real. Talk to your brother and make sure you have access to the room to try and bang. If your frame is solid enough, you can definitely bang this girl in your room while your family is there, just don't talk to them about it, if sex is an off limits subject, if they bring it up, you can say "hey I am a grown man and have needs, we are 2 consenting adults, and you certainly never told me to not have sex in this house". or better yet come up with your own version.

call the bar you like with the couches and make sure they are open. take your girl there. have fun. i would suggest taking her to a nearby cafe first and then go for a venue change. you can do routines if you want, but my god, it is a lot more fun to be in the moment and enjoy what is going on in that moment than use some sort of canned routine like palm reading or whatever. I know it works for some guys here so I won't shit on it, I don't know what will work for you.

[Sensei Creation]

My brother is very young . I feel a bit uneasy possibly banging a girl on the bed we share together . Maybe it's just my mind creating excuses in order to complicate my situation more however If it's the only way to end this dry spell.. I'll bite the bullet and try and keep my frame tight and invite her over .

The ideal situation for me would be a tactical retreat : Escalate as much as I can during the date and tell her to come over at a date when I know my family will not be in the house . That would be the ideal situation for me . But in that case I run the risk of losing the bang , so I'm definitely considering biting the bullet and inviting her over . It's going to be a huge test of frame for me as I have literally never invited a girl home before .

I appreciate the cafe suggestion but i'd prefer a more discreet laid back location , not a bustling city cafe where i'm escalating in front of nosy onlookers .

It is more fun to be in the moment , I agree with you there . However i'd feel more confident if I had some tried and tested solid game material to fall back on should I have trouble vibing with her .

[LINUX]

When I was your age, I was banging girls in the brush at the park. Take her to a swing set, push her on the swing, rub her shoulders, push her ass with your hands, wrap your arms around her and kiss her neck. The options are endless. You have a better chance since you're both young. When you're in your 30's, it's not that exciting anymore because everyone's already banged at the park numerous times.