[ryder]

Obviously in the long run it's better to NOT to let your LTR spend the night with you every night or you'll get stuck limiting your gaming to daytime fucks only. My question is, how do you manage to get out of letting your girl sleep with you every night? How do you keep it to certain number of nights only without raising suspicion? The scheduled nights/week thing would still raise suspicion and the "why" always comes up. How many weeks a night seems to be good enough for those of you out there doing this? I find that with girls you can always give more but can never give less than what you once gave so it's better to think ahead for the long term game plan.
Another side question. Let's say your LTR already spends the night every night, what are some good excuses if you want to bang your side game one night instead. besides the typical guys night out excuse where they always want to meet up at the end of the night anyway.

[truedat]

Tell her you dont want to live with her, so if she is staying over every night its basically the same thing and that 2 nights a week maximum should be sufficient. If she doesent like it tell her she is being to needy and you should take some time off.

TD

[Gmac]

(05-06-2011 09:19 PM)ryder Wrote:  

Obviously in the long run it's better to NOT to let your LTR spend the night with you every night or you'll get stuck limiting your gaming to daytime fucks only. My question is, how do you manage to get out of letting your girl sleep with you every night? How do you keep it to certain number of nights only without raising suspicion? The scheduled nights/week thing would still raise suspicion and the "why" always comes up. How many weeks a night seems to be good enough for those of you out there doing this? I find that with girls you can always give more but can never give less than what you once gave so it's better to think ahead for the long term game plan.
Another side question. Let's say your LTR already spends the night every night, what are some good excuses if you want to bang your side game one night instead. besides the typical guys night out excuse where they always want to meet up at the end of the night anyway.

Don't sleep with her every night to begin with. Limit her to 2 days (or nights) a week, one week night and one weekend night. You'll have to ween her off it if you're already seeing her 7 days a week. Doesn't matter why, you're "busy" with work or whatever -- or you can tell her you're feeling a little smothered. On a particularly slow week, throw in an extra day for her as a "treat." I play the independent man card myself.

[ryder]

(05-07-2011 07:30 AM)Gmac Wrote:  

(05-06-2011 09:19 PM)ryder Wrote:  

Obviously in the long run it's better to NOT to let your LTR spend the night with you every night or you'll get stuck limiting your gaming to daytime fucks only. My question is, how do you manage to get out of letting your girl sleep with you every night? How do you keep it to certain number of nights only without raising suspicion? The scheduled nights/week thing would still raise suspicion and the "why" always comes up. How many weeks a night seems to be good enough for those of you out there doing this? I find that with girls you can always give more but can never give less than what you once gave so it's better to think ahead for the long term game plan.
Another side question. Let's say your LTR already spends the night every night, what are some good excuses if you want to bang your side game one night instead. besides the typical guys night out excuse where they always want to meet up at the end of the night anyway.

Don't sleep with her every night to begin with. Limit her to 2 days (or nights) a week, one week night and one weekend night. You'll have to ween her off it if you're already seeing her 7 days a week. Doesn't matter why, you're "busy" with work or whatever -- or you can tell her you're feeling a little smothered. On a particularly slow week, throw in an extra day for her as a "treat." I play the independent man card myself.

Thanks man, I like the independent man card. Never occurred to me to just make it a personal character thing so specific excuses are unnecessary.

[ryder]

(05-06-2011 10:40 PM)truedat Wrote:  

Tell her you dont want to live with her, so if she is staying over every night its basically the same thing and that 2 nights a week maximum should be sufficient. If she doesent like it tell her she is being to needy and you should take some time off.

TD

Thanks man. I like the idea of a deflection of putting it on her by saying she's being needy. Looks like the consensus so far is that two nights a weeks is optimal.