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01-26-2015, 01:39 PM
Here's the situation, I got invited to a party, ended up hitting on a whole bunch of girls there. I danced with a brazilian girl, and kissed her, and suddenly got hit by her boyfriend or male friend. After that I knocked him out and he was on the floor, and I got kicked out of the party.
The next day I go to the school gym, and 3 separate groups of people there recognize me, yet I don't know who they are. They come up to me and say I drank too much last night while laughing, and I try to laugh it off. But inside I'm kind of psyched out, I had no idea the fallout would be this big. I'm planning to lay low for a while and keep under the radar. Any suggestions?
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01-26-2015, 02:51 PM
What fallout? You kissed a chick, got sucker punched, and won. In my youth that was every other weekend for me.You don't think this gets vaginas wet? It does. Don't duck and hide unless you think this guy will come back with a crew. Keep your head up, and keep gaming.
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If you are the type that gets aggressive when you've been drinking, then tone down the drinking. Otherwise, it's all good.
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01-26-2015, 02:58 PM
Sounds like this increased your social capital. Act accordingly
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01-26-2015, 03:18 PM
edtf "the knockout artist" - Chicks dig it.
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01-26-2015, 03:22 PM
Exactly, you knocked a pussy out who sucker punched you. Sounds like your social status is elevated.
-You kissed a girl at a party.
-You proved your manhood and wont the fight.
-These new groups recognized you and laughed.
-You have another good story to tell.
Seems like everything good came from this incident, keep playing it cool and laugh about it. Use it to your advantage.
But like Vin said, if you think you'll get jumped or be harmed by his friends, then chill out.
Other than that, it's a badge of courage and pride, rock it !
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01-27-2015, 12:29 AM
Yeah dude what all the vets said. Similar situation happened to me once. Surprisingly drove the girls wild in my circle. I didn't brag or boast about it. Just smirked when someone mentioned it and went on about my day.
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01-27-2015, 01:28 AM
Thanks guys, I see the light now. I thought I had f'ed up really bad, but it seems pretty good now that you guys have explained it this way.
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01-27-2015, 05:52 PM
How do you outright knock someone out, by the way? I assume you hit him in the head, but I've been told by multiple people that risks breaking your hand?
(never been in a fight)
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01-27-2015, 06:00 PM
You already proved yourself, like kaotic said. If anyone else says anything, make it clear that you didn't intend to hurt anyone. That should diffuse any return fire.
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01-27-2015, 07:11 PM
You're conditioned to feel bad about what happened. It's all in your head. Don't worry about it.
Parties are big beta bro-fests. You out bro'd them and got what you wanted. Fuck them.
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01-28-2015, 05:08 AM
they now know that you ain't one to be messing with. Like previous poster said do not act shy about what happend and use it to get people on your goodside if they come up to you. Explain why you fought and then it's all a charming operation!
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01-28-2015, 07:24 AM
Don't brag about the night in question but start using your social skills to infiltrate all of these groups. Be the cool guy, by refusing to go into detail about that night, you'll come off as cool, maybe a bit mysterious if they didnt know you from before.
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02-06-2015, 02:32 PM
Something I took to heart from 48 laws of power is that any "problem" created with audacity can be fixed with more audacity. Just play it off like the smooth, cool guy who hits on attractive women who can handle himself in a fight, if need be.