[Sonoma]

^Jefe, what exactly do you do with those social groups? What do you do by yourself?

I do a lot of outdoor activity so pictures come easy-

My last 5 pictures
Waves in Malibu
Snorkeling in Laguna Beach (taken by someone else)
The sunrise before surfing in Santa Monica
A picture of my beer and a carton of Ben&Jerrys at my desk
A picture of Yosemite

Its a bit easier since I spend so much time outside, (I'm also not very photogenic, so it's better for me to have a few good photos and just leave it at that)

I also use snapchat a lot for things I won't post publicly about (drinking, partying, etc)

[mastauser]

Would you guys use a surfing action picture as cover photo (no overhead but the wave is pretty good)? I think girls like it but friends come with "how is it going with profiling yourself as a surfer".

[heavy]

I've put some thought into this before. In my experience (over 30 yr old)...

Facebook is an accessory to your real life presence. If you're a social leader, it will marginally help you. If you aren't, it can only hurt you.

Facebook is the quintessential and purest form of a social network It has all the rigidity, and the wheat (top 10% socially dominant) and chaff (everybody else) are easily recognized.

If Facebook is getting you bangs, you're probably already doing just fine anyway. You're gaming and/or building your status in real life, and Facebook is simply a picture of that.

Congrats, sounds like it's working. 10 bangs from 2.5 yrs of passive pussy is always nice.

[Driesinator]

(05-14-2015 01:12 PM)heavy Wrote:  

I've put some thought into this before. In my experience (over 30 yr old)...

Facebook is an accessory to your real life presence. If you're a social leader, it will marginally help you. If you aren't, it can only hurt you.

This.

I moved around alot in my youth and never really had that set social circle of childhood friends, for someone like me, it makes more sense to keep more of a low profile on social media, otherwise i would shoot myself in the foot.

Since i'm moving and starting life anew in a new country at the start of July, i'm starting to wonder if i should spend more time on it when i start making friends there.

I do have an account with a good profile picture but i use it only for Tinder, family and one lifelong friend, other than that it's completely locked down. I never add others.

I don't really give a fuck anyway. It makes me more intriguing and mysterious as i have that 'bad boy' look and attitude about me.