It happened to me today. I wasn't too happy as it's been an "approach opportunity" poor weekend.
I don't mean stalking as in a long term stalker for a girl you have oneitis for. I mean, following her before the approach.
I finally see a hot girl worthy of approach who, from an attraction standpoint, generated that primal need to approach. A solid 8 with a tight body. I'd been in the bookstore two days waiting for something like this and I fuck it up.
I don't know what it is about this bookstore...but all the hot women who come in here usually walk at a sprinter's pace straight to the rest room, use it, then leave. It's as if they're too hot to be interested in books. I never see any uggos in here strictly coming in for the rest room. Anyway...
My plan was to exit the bookstore just as she did and either hold the door open for her...or she would hold it open for me. Then, I would make some comment.
I follow her to the bathroom and then wait behind a book rack. When she walks out, she's walking toward me and I kind of duck behind the books. Pretty sure she saw me do this. My goal was to exit the store as the same time as her. As I'm following her out....slightly at her 7 o clock position. She glances at me and our eyes lock. I knew I was busted. So, I continue walking to the door. She veers hard left away from the door as I've no doubt she was creeped out by this point. I just go ahead and leave the store. Obviously, I'm not a dangerous person, but for all she knows I am.
I think I need to move to NY or some big city where I see multiple hotties like this every day in an approachable situation and not one every 48 hours or so in my area.
I know about the 3 second rule but it didn't really apply here as she immediately bolted for the bathroom as soon as she entered the bookstore.
Ever get busted following a girl pre approach and creep her out?
Any of you playas ever recover from something like that in terms of actually turning it into a positive approach?
I don't mean stalking as in a long term stalker for a girl you have oneitis for. I mean, following her before the approach.
I finally see a hot girl worthy of approach who, from an attraction standpoint, generated that primal need to approach. A solid 8 with a tight body. I'd been in the bookstore two days waiting for something like this and I fuck it up.
I don't know what it is about this bookstore...but all the hot women who come in here usually walk at a sprinter's pace straight to the rest room, use it, then leave. It's as if they're too hot to be interested in books. I never see any uggos in here strictly coming in for the rest room. Anyway...
My plan was to exit the bookstore just as she did and either hold the door open for her...or she would hold it open for me. Then, I would make some comment.
I follow her to the bathroom and then wait behind a book rack. When she walks out, she's walking toward me and I kind of duck behind the books. Pretty sure she saw me do this. My goal was to exit the store as the same time as her. As I'm following her out....slightly at her 7 o clock position. She glances at me and our eyes lock. I knew I was busted. So, I continue walking to the door. She veers hard left away from the door as I've no doubt she was creeped out by this point. I just go ahead and leave the store. Obviously, I'm not a dangerous person, but for all she knows I am.
I think I need to move to NY or some big city where I see multiple hotties like this every day in an approachable situation and not one every 48 hours or so in my area.
I know about the 3 second rule but it didn't really apply here as she immediately bolted for the bathroom as soon as she entered the bookstore.
Ever get busted following a girl pre approach and creep her out?
Any of you playas ever recover from something like that in terms of actually turning it into a positive approach?
- One planet orbiting a star. Billions of stars in the galaxy. Billions of galaxies in the universe. Approach.
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