Quote: (01-19-2015 01:55 PM)colombiano972 Wrote:
I've had this problem lately with professional chicks that tend to have busy professional and social lives. I've read in other parts that these type of chicks are time wasters and that I should look elsewhere (something that I don't have problem with at all). I get the feeling that this is an indirect way that women use to say "I'm not interested".
But I feel like there is something missing in this equation that I could possibly do better to get these chicks to actually break away from their flaky nature.
If I told you that you'd win a billion US dollars if you met me @ 8 pm on a Friday night, would you go?
Of course you would. You'd leave your computer right now, shoot a meter maid in the face, eat a mayonnaise and toothpaste sandwich and camp out for that billion dollars
When a chick meets, "That guy" aka "Mr. Big" aka "The one who drives her wild", that's the equivalent of her winning the lottery.
So when a chick says she's too busy to meet with you
1) it says that she's not interested
but it also says
2) you're not interesting enough to break her pre-determined schedule.
You can mitigate that fact by thinking to yourself, you're not interesting enough TO HER, not that you're not a cool dude with shit going on. Probably ease the pain when you realize that she rarely meets "that dude", and women rarely meet "that dude".
I say you need to aspire higher than just being one of the few guys who can get her #.
You want to be the guy that every chick drops what they're doing to be with you.
That doesn't mean become famous, super-rich, or politically powerful.
It means when you meet chicks in real life, you have to utterly destroy their ideas of what it's like to be with a MAN.
The easy part is eating right, dressing well, working out, and all that surface shit.
The hard part is rocking her world.
In your mind you're already thinking take this chick on an elaborate date, roller coasters and bank robberies.
That's not exactly what I'm talking about.
Next time you pull a chick out for a date, instead of yammering on about commonalities and what she likes to do when the lights go down - blow her world up.
"what the fuck are you talking about? What are we doing here? Is this some sort of bullshit script that you do with all of your dates?"
Break her out of her social robot ways.
Cats really not talking about game anymore. it's a lot of going through the motions and online photo profile tweaking.
WIA