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my brothers betanes pains me
05-02-2011, 11:04 PM
My older bro brought the baby over today. She was wearing a shirt that said "daddy and I agree, mommys the boss!"
Do you guys have siblings like this ? Do you find it difficult to talk to them?
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my brothers betanes pains me
05-03-2011, 01:53 AM
Quote: (05-02-2011 11:04 PM)kickboxer Wrote:
My older bro brought the baby over today. She was wearing a shirt that said "daddy and I agree, mommys the boss!"
Do you guys have siblings like this ? Do you find it difficult to talk to them?
My sister is into all sorts of Wiccan/Pagan-related crap, don't get me started.
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my brothers betanes pains me
05-03-2011, 11:31 AM
I have two younger brothers (twins,) both of whom are horribly emasculated. I think a lot of it has to do with being "mommy's favorite" - if the sibling idolizes her they end up listening to her bad advice about how to treat women. Because of my role as the family scapegoat, they were spoiled and pampered to no end. As far as I know, neither of them has ever even had a girl express interest in them. They don't really seem to care much, though...
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my brothers betanes pains me
05-03-2011, 12:45 PM
My younger brother has some pretty beta attitudes. I've tried to tell him about game in the past but he's told me he thinks doing anything to try and get a girl in the sack is "manipulative" and getting with a girl should "just happen naturally" when "both of you are ready." Whenever he's interested in a girl he goes over the top to show how excited he is to be talking to her, with predictable results. He's only 18 though so there's hope for him yet. He just got a really hot chick to go to prom with him and the other day we had a great conversation about how he can get laid on prom night. I think all I can do is be a good role model and give advice, and hopefully he'll learn by experience what women respond to.
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my brothers betanes pains me
05-03-2011, 03:12 PM
Quote: (05-03-2011 12:45 PM)gringochileno Wrote:
My younger brother has some pretty beta attitudes. I've tried to tell him about game in the past but he's told me he thinks doing anything to try and get a girl in the sack is "manipulative" and getting with a girl should "just happen naturally" when "both of you are ready." Whenever he's interested in a girl he goes over the top to show how excited he is to be talking to her, with predictable results. He's only 18 though so there's hope for him yet. He just got a really hot chick to go to prom with him
How the heck did he manage that? Is he really good looking? Something does not add up here.
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my brothers betanes pains me
05-03-2011, 03:17 PM
beta guys can get dates easy. Especially in high school to bullshit like the prom. they just don't know what to do once they are on them.
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my brothers betanes pains me
05-03-2011, 03:53 PM
Quote: (05-03-2011 03:17 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:
beta guys can get dates easy. Especially in high school to bullshit like the prom. they just don't know what to do once they are on them.
As a beta, that's news to me. (The don't know what to do part is very true, though.) Then again, most betas don't have "issues"...
Expect the worst for your brother. The only way he's going to get laid at this point is the same way I did: the girl does all the work. The magnitude of our incompetence is staggering - I hate to say it but it's true. If there is a way to fuck up a good thing we will find it.
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my brothers betanes pains me
05-08-2011, 03:16 AM
Two younger sisters. I was surrounded by estrogen my entire life until the day the ex moved out. Too much!
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my brothers betanes pains me
05-11-2011, 10:11 PM
It's not exactly a sibling, but I do have someone I've known for a long time who's hardcore beta. His girl overpowers him. She's got a s***load of jewelry (thanks to him). He bought her a car. He buys her clothes. Her buys her expensive makeup and perfume. She doesn't even look good because she puts on way too much makeup in the first place. She constantly nags him. Whenever he comes home, she yells at him and questions what he's done and why he's five minutes late to home. She wants to know exactly what he's been doing outside of home. She barely cooks. She makes him wash the dishes half of the time.
She believes that she is a queen and has ultimate power. I have actually heard her say when eating in a group.
I really don't know what tell him or try to help him. I'm thinking about taking him into shock therapy, because it seems that's the only way.
But, perhaps, ometimes, as they say, Ignorance is bliss.
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my brothers betanes pains me
05-11-2011, 10:15 PM
Why people ignore inner game when you talk about it to them?