A few years ago, I met this girl online thru a friend. We messaged a bit back and forth and arranged a meet. She ended up flaking because she was too tired (I called and she was incomprehensible) and later apologized. We never rescheduled because I was going on a long vacation. When I came back, we lost contact and a few months later, she got a boyfriend. Sometime later that year, he randomly messaged me to stop talking to her because shes his.
Fast forward about two years and one night I messaged her about a band I thought she liked that I was going to see. We got to talking and flirting (she still had the same boyfriend) and I remembered she had an iPhone, so I could text her from my iPod, and we switched to that. We flirted and I teased some more and she said randomly that she hadnt seen her boyfriend in 2-3 weeks. It was clear she wanted to see me, but stupid me set it up for a few days later. To be fair, it was late at night in November and I didnt have a car (however, I wouldnt use that excuse nowadays). She ended up flaking because she finally saw boyfriend the night before we were supposed to meet up.
A couple weeks later, my family went to dinner at the restaurant she works at. I tried to get her to stop by several times, and the message never got thru (our waiter was incompetent, so Im not sure if it was him or her). Finally, at the end, my family went outside and I went up to the host girls to ask if she was around. They said yes and let her know, and finally she shows up, regards me from the kitchen, the bar, and slowly walks up to me, and embraces me. Ive never met this girl before in my life in person and she opens with a hug and says sorry about not meeting up and I say dont worry, well make it happen. We talk real close to each other, and of course Im an idiot so I dont think to arrange the meetup then and there. I break off and go home, and contact ceases.
A few months later, I message her that I had seen the band I thought she had liked (she just liked one song) and she asks how Ive been and noted that I dropped off the Earth (I stopped using facebook for awhile). Nothing happens. Then fast forward to about a month ago, I notice she and her boyfriend broke up. This kind of pissed me off because I wanted to get the cheat. A few days later, she posts one of those emoticon stickers like that gray cat thing on a random post from like two or three months prior, which means she was digging thru my profile. And I think she mainly accesses facebook from her phone, so that means she was hardcore digging and waiting for the 4G to load. I wisely took a screenshot of it, and messaged her a few hours later "Hey there" or something. No response. I checked back a few days later and lo and behold, the comment is gone. So I messaged her teasing about deleting it and letting her know she cant hide it. No response.
Im amazed shes given me this many chances and apparently still wants to try, but I have no idea what to do now. She gave me her number awhile ago and I know where she works. I have VOIP, so I can call, but not text. Im not in contact with any mutual friends, so the way I see it is as long as she hasnt blocked me, I can still go for the gold. I am just not sure which course of action would be best: calling or going in person, and then what to do for each.
Fast forward about two years and one night I messaged her about a band I thought she liked that I was going to see. We got to talking and flirting (she still had the same boyfriend) and I remembered she had an iPhone, so I could text her from my iPod, and we switched to that. We flirted and I teased some more and she said randomly that she hadnt seen her boyfriend in 2-3 weeks. It was clear she wanted to see me, but stupid me set it up for a few days later. To be fair, it was late at night in November and I didnt have a car (however, I wouldnt use that excuse nowadays). She ended up flaking because she finally saw boyfriend the night before we were supposed to meet up.
A couple weeks later, my family went to dinner at the restaurant she works at. I tried to get her to stop by several times, and the message never got thru (our waiter was incompetent, so Im not sure if it was him or her). Finally, at the end, my family went outside and I went up to the host girls to ask if she was around. They said yes and let her know, and finally she shows up, regards me from the kitchen, the bar, and slowly walks up to me, and embraces me. Ive never met this girl before in my life in person and she opens with a hug and says sorry about not meeting up and I say dont worry, well make it happen. We talk real close to each other, and of course Im an idiot so I dont think to arrange the meetup then and there. I break off and go home, and contact ceases.
A few months later, I message her that I had seen the band I thought she had liked (she just liked one song) and she asks how Ive been and noted that I dropped off the Earth (I stopped using facebook for awhile). Nothing happens. Then fast forward to about a month ago, I notice she and her boyfriend broke up. This kind of pissed me off because I wanted to get the cheat. A few days later, she posts one of those emoticon stickers like that gray cat thing on a random post from like two or three months prior, which means she was digging thru my profile. And I think she mainly accesses facebook from her phone, so that means she was hardcore digging and waiting for the 4G to load. I wisely took a screenshot of it, and messaged her a few hours later "Hey there" or something. No response. I checked back a few days later and lo and behold, the comment is gone. So I messaged her teasing about deleting it and letting her know she cant hide it. No response.
Im amazed shes given me this many chances and apparently still wants to try, but I have no idea what to do now. She gave me her number awhile ago and I know where she works. I have VOIP, so I can call, but not text. Im not in contact with any mutual friends, so the way I see it is as long as she hasnt blocked me, I can still go for the gold. I am just not sure which course of action would be best: calling or going in person, and then what to do for each.
