Quote: (01-13-2015 07:50 PM)Merenguero Wrote:
I'm surprised nobody stated what to me is very obvious. They really aren't interested, but give IOIs so that you will approach them for validation purposes. Another thing which happens, although less frequently than the validation thing, is that if you are a guy with tons of confidence, they may get intimated once you start talking to them. Regardless, if they give you IOIs, buy all means approach and more good things will happen than bad.
Quote: (01-12-2015 04:55 AM)ElBorrachoInfamoso Wrote:
Often, IOIs are involuntary and/or unconscious. Not every girl is a cheating whore. Some girls will give you IOIs unconsciously but then shut you down when you talk to them because they have a boyfriend.
I agree with this too.
^ I think this is what happened to me today. It's actually the girl who semi-inspired this thread
Saw her at whole foods sitting outside studying. She's a college girl with 10/10 legs and ass...a track runner....truly boner inspiring. Her face is probably a 7ish. Smaller girl...probably 5.3 ish.
When I saw her about two weeks ago, at this same grocery, she was smiling and looking at me multiple times. I didn't approach on that day because she had previously smiled and given IOIs in a coffee shop but when I chatted her up ( this was last year) she seemed abrupt and non engaging.
So today, I see her as I'm coming out sitting there and say fuck it. I go direct.
I walk up to her as she's sitting studying organic chemistry.
Me> Excuse me
Her - takes out headphones
Me; How are you? ( she kind of smiles and recognizes me ) I know this is random but I noticed you as I was leaving with my lunch. I thought you were cute and wanted to say hello. ( Her smile widens just a little ) I'm robreke ( extending my hand)
Her: I'm Melinda ( we shake hands)
She seems a little meek and unsure...
Me: I know it's so rude of me to interrupt while you're studying. but I saw you and just wanted to say hello.
Her: Oh, you're fine.
Me: So what are you up to today?
Her: studying for test tomorrow.
Me: It's chemistry.
Her: Yes siii ( she almost says "sir" but seems to refrain from saying it ) ...organic chemistry.
Me: Oh I see, you must be pre med.
She nods.
Me: Yeah, a good friend of mine just got into med school at UMC she had a real tough time with the MCAT.
The whole time she's looking at me meekly with a meek grin. She has semi-cowering body language as if she's a dog expecting to get swatted by its master. I was standing the whole time and I'm 6'3 so I was obviously towering over her. I thought about sitting but her rather unreceptive body language and on-off eye contact told me it probably wouldn't work.
She really isn't offering anything.
Me: I work right up the street and come here for lunch pretty often.
She smiles a little and nods.
Me: well, I'll let you get back to studying...I hope the test goes well.
Her: OK...Thanks
Me: Let me text you sometime we could grab a coffee or something.
Her: Well, I'm really very busy with school just starting I wouldn't have time.
Me: I understand....good luck.
Her: Thank you. Nice meeting you! ( only thing she said with much enthusiasm)
Oh well, I won't waste any more time on this IOI giving/ non number giving gal. NEXT!