[BostonBMW]

Fellas, its been too long. I've been on the grind at the job and on some heavy goals shit. With the weather warming up and the girls coming out (here in the Bean anyways), I am looking start a discussion on meeting that girl to bounce back to the spot for the bang.

Now I've done my homework and even escalated in the field, however no particular formula has emerged. I had been avoiding going out friday nights (due to the 'woo girls' factor), but even that's on the table. My one night deals have been mostly chance situations, however I have noticed a few things:

- They have happened after the clubs/bars have closed (post 2 AM) with the girl(s) being more sober than most.

- I have been successful in luring them back to my (or my friends) spot..the reasons have ranged from legit (more drinks) to straight up wack (see my teddy bear collection?)

- The progression has been -> girl enters the apartment -> chills in the living room (movies, music) -> takes off her shoes (YES this is relevant) -> I get her to my room to show her "something"

Now thats been my experience. I wanted to see if any of the other fellas have had any luck identifying the right girl(s) and whether any particular moves lubricated the swoop?

I am not looking for one or two stories but rather an actual pattern, like my girls taking off their shoes deal - can't explain it but I'm batting 100% IF I get them to that point.

[maestrobaires]

watch the movies till colors melt down

[CJ]

I'm not sure there is an actual pattern. My SNLs have varied from house parties, to bars, to weekends to weekdays (although never on a Wednesday, yet). Usually later at night, but not always all the way til after the bar/venue closes.

If I had to pick from those though, I'd say I've had higher success at weekend house parties. This just makes sense as you share mutual friends, so her guard isn't as high. However, this could just be because I've gone to more of those, than going out on weekdays.

I really think it just comes down to putting yourself in the right spot at the right time. That's not to say it's all luck, as there's gonna be X number of girls out every night that are DTF, you just have to hope you come across them, and use your game so they're DTF you.

I will agree that if you get a DTF girl back to your/her place chances are very high you'll close the deal.

[Gmac]

Most of my SNL's were after finding a girl alone at a bar and just getting into (following her into) a cab to her place. Swish bang boom.

[Chad Daring]

(04-27-2011 12:19 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Most of my SNL's were after finding a girl alone at a bar and just getting into (following her into) a cab to her place. Swish bang boom.

What exactly do you do on the drive? Is it just mad escalation till you're shooting an HBO special? Or just conversation? Also what do you say if she calls you out on why you got into the cab?

[Gmac]

(04-27-2011 04:57 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  

(04-27-2011 12:19 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Most of my SNL's were after finding a girl alone at a bar and just getting into (following her into) a cab to her place. Swish bang boom.

What exactly do you do on the drive? Is it just mad escalation till you're shooting an HBO special? Or just conversation? Also what do you say if she calls you out on why you got into the cab?

Usually continue whatever conversation you were having or make some observation about what was going on before.

If she let you get in the cab, she (almost always) knows what's going on. You just eventually have to subtly give her a reason to justify it (i.e. to just "hang out", "show you her place", "can't stay long", etc.). Hell, I've had girls who didn't ask me why I got into the cab until after I banged them.

Once I told a girl "oh it's cool I live nearby" only to say "whoops my bad" and have her drive me home in the morning. Your game still needs to be tight to get inside of course.

[HD668B]

Glass of water.

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[FretDancer]

(04-27-2011 12:19 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Most of my SNL's were after finding a girl alone at a bar and just getting into (following her into) a cab to her place. Swish bang boom.

Do you usually bring up the idea on taking things to her place or do you wait for her to bring it up?