[h5757]

For some women who I message, they take a few days to respond to one of my messages (and sometimes longer). This always happens early on (usually their 3rd message). Some of them apologize and tell me that they’ve been really busy. Some of them give me a long response and some sign their name at the end. Some even ask me a question in their response to keep the conversation going. Assuming that she gives a long response and also apologizes, does it mean that she isn’t into me very much? Does it mean that she’s just looking for attention? Should I continue to pursue her or should I just stop messaging her? What are signs that she’s actually interested and what are signs that she’s not interested? How should I approach this?

[UroboricForms]

You can never tell for sure (we all get busy) but it always raises a little red flag. Purely because logic dictates that if they're really into me, they would go out of their way to talk.

[kaotic]

You shouldn't even be waiting around for girls to respond to you.

If they response fast and mirror your time of reply, strike while the iron is hot and get that number asap.

If some girls don't respond, just follow up and keep it moving. Don't ever wait.

Plenty of those girls are just thirsty for validation and want all guys messaging them, then they'll pic out who is the cream of their crop.

[Dr. Howard]

ask a chick to show your her inbox count on ok cupid and you will have your answer.