I looked through the forum search function to see if there was a thread dedicated to this subject already but didn't find any, and I figure that's its a topic that's worth its own discussion.
You've all seen those instances when you've been wheeling girls at a bar or club - maybe you'll have just finished telling them some awesome story, and while they're laughing it up you'll see some girl and guy absolutely going at it against a wall or on a couch somewhere nearby. Hands all over each other, sucking face like no one's watching, etc..
What I'm wondering is - do most of you guys think that this increases your likelihood of same-night pulling, or decreases it? I think there are arguments to be made for both sides - on the one hand, you can get her really turned on sexually if you're good at it, and let's be honest, I can't imagine many people really don't like the drunken makeout with a chick shortly after meeting her. On the other hand, it could also mean lowering sexual tension since you're basically showing your hand as to your immediate intentions.
For my part I'm starting to move towards "Team No-Makeout" versus "Team Makeout" since it seems like you build sexual tension better without it - which I think for our purposes is more important. But there is a reasonable argument to be made for the other side.
I've had instances where going for the makeout before pulling has gotten me the bang, and instances where in retrospect, I think it likely led to me losing the bang. What are your thoughts? Is there any sort of hard-and-fast rule that you play by, or is it on a case-by-case basis, or do you just do whatever you feel like?
HSLD
You've all seen those instances when you've been wheeling girls at a bar or club - maybe you'll have just finished telling them some awesome story, and while they're laughing it up you'll see some girl and guy absolutely going at it against a wall or on a couch somewhere nearby. Hands all over each other, sucking face like no one's watching, etc..
What I'm wondering is - do most of you guys think that this increases your likelihood of same-night pulling, or decreases it? I think there are arguments to be made for both sides - on the one hand, you can get her really turned on sexually if you're good at it, and let's be honest, I can't imagine many people really don't like the drunken makeout with a chick shortly after meeting her. On the other hand, it could also mean lowering sexual tension since you're basically showing your hand as to your immediate intentions.
For my part I'm starting to move towards "Team No-Makeout" versus "Team Makeout" since it seems like you build sexual tension better without it - which I think for our purposes is more important. But there is a reasonable argument to be made for the other side.
I've had instances where going for the makeout before pulling has gotten me the bang, and instances where in retrospect, I think it likely led to me losing the bang. What are your thoughts? Is there any sort of hard-and-fast rule that you play by, or is it on a case-by-case basis, or do you just do whatever you feel like?
HSLD
HSLD