I noticed there's not much of a "pick-up" community in countries such as Italy, France, and Brazil, since it is more culturally acceptable for men to be aggressive, approach, and escalate quickly. For people who have lived in countries with more "alpha" culture, have you noticed your game becoming more solid? And would you recommend living in such a country for a while in order to better your game?
Has living in "alpha" countries changed your game?
I'm not sure if France or Italy is alpha, but obviously people here are a lot more common sense and matter of fact about sexuality. French guys can be pretty damn gay, most are tall and lanky. The sportive are few but those are usually the most alpha guys.
All I can say is, I learned game in US but almost all of my success and growth happen in France.
French girls can be pretty annoying but Jesus fuck are they beautiful, and most are pretty pleasant to be around if they like you. One thing for certain is that they are much much better socially calibrated, so much to the point where I can say that all cute French girls have game.
I haven't been on a ton of dates with US girls so I can't make comparison, but overall French girls are pretty damn more feminine IF they like you. US girls even if they like you, the best thing they can do is send you nude selfie or oral sex. Here you can expect a personal baker, massages, lingerie model, food gourmet etc.
They love being chased and chasing and are a lot better at this than US girls I think and this can make gaming insanely frustrating or rewarding depending on how you see it. In France however reputation is critical for girls so drama is everywhere with backstabbing and under-dealing in social circles.
It's hard to play the tough guy in France in a direct way like in US because the guys here are fucking bitchy. They will call you on your shit and instead of settling it in a manly way they would drag it out in verbal dicking contest and make a public mess. And damn they are annoyingly persistent.
Girls here see through bullshit and bravado much more quickly because they actually do have a life that doesn't involve feminist campaigning or twitter. All classic game theory still work wonders but you gotta be much more subtle.
Italian guys I know look effeminate as fuck but also are the most alpha. At a party "wow that girl is hot" "she has a boyfriend" "really? Not tonight she doesn't"
I'm certainly enjoying my time here and I think if you like the "hunting" and "seducing" part of the game that requires a lot of grace and patience, do by all means come to France or Italy. Good thing is that, due to EU Paris has a fuck huge concentration of high caliber girls from Poland, Italy and whatever. I always tell myself if I can daygame in the subway I would be a pimp by now.
Also, rape accusation is a no-problem in France. French girls are smart enough to understand that if a girl cry rape she only has herself to blame.
All I can say is, I learned game in US but almost all of my success and growth happen in France.
French girls can be pretty annoying but Jesus fuck are they beautiful, and most are pretty pleasant to be around if they like you. One thing for certain is that they are much much better socially calibrated, so much to the point where I can say that all cute French girls have game.
I haven't been on a ton of dates with US girls so I can't make comparison, but overall French girls are pretty damn more feminine IF they like you. US girls even if they like you, the best thing they can do is send you nude selfie or oral sex. Here you can expect a personal baker, massages, lingerie model, food gourmet etc.
They love being chased and chasing and are a lot better at this than US girls I think and this can make gaming insanely frustrating or rewarding depending on how you see it. In France however reputation is critical for girls so drama is everywhere with backstabbing and under-dealing in social circles.
It's hard to play the tough guy in France in a direct way like in US because the guys here are fucking bitchy. They will call you on your shit and instead of settling it in a manly way they would drag it out in verbal dicking contest and make a public mess. And damn they are annoyingly persistent.
Girls here see through bullshit and bravado much more quickly because they actually do have a life that doesn't involve feminist campaigning or twitter. All classic game theory still work wonders but you gotta be much more subtle.
Italian guys I know look effeminate as fuck but also are the most alpha. At a party "wow that girl is hot" "she has a boyfriend" "really? Not tonight she doesn't"
I'm certainly enjoying my time here and I think if you like the "hunting" and "seducing" part of the game that requires a lot of grace and patience, do by all means come to France or Italy. Good thing is that, due to EU Paris has a fuck huge concentration of high caliber girls from Poland, Italy and whatever. I always tell myself if I can daygame in the subway I would be a pimp by now.
Also, rape accusation is a no-problem in France. French girls are smart enough to understand that if a girl cry rape she only has herself to blame.
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I think Turkey is pretty much an Alpha country.
I have no game tho, like 0 game, but I'm definitely not a beta. It's a very strange combination.
I have no game tho, like 0 game, but I'm definitely not a beta. It's a very strange combination.
Quote: (11-23-2014 06:53 PM)el mechanico Wrote:
Quote: (11-23-2014 06:46 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:How would you consider that alpha? Aggressive? Yes but bad aggressive is not good
I think Turkey is pretty much an Alpha country.
I have no game tho, like 0 game, but I'm definitely not a beta. It's a very strange combination.
I have a I dont give a fuck attitude. A lot of girls became attached to me because I neglected them. But this wasnt because I read it in some book, its my natural personality. If you ask me to approach a girl in a club, I cant, I'm not good at opening random people, a very bad talker.I'm a shy guy.
Quote: (11-23-2014 06:58 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:You're kidding?
Quote: (11-23-2014 06:53 PM)el mechanico Wrote:
Quote: (11-23-2014 06:46 PM)CimbomluBkk Wrote:How would you consider that alpha? Aggressive? Yes but bad aggressive is not good
I think Turkey is pretty much an Alpha country.
I have no game tho, like 0 game, but I'm definitely not a beta. It's a very strange combination.
I have a I dont give a fuck attitude. A lot of girls became attached to me because I neglected them. But this wasnt because I read it in some book, its my natural personality. If you ask me to approach a girl in a club, I cant, I'm not good at opening random people, a very bad talker.I'm a shy guy.
France you have to be aggressive and you can seduce girls in bars/by dancing/talking well...Quebec is different though. Very very feminist.
However, online game is very difficult in cities that are smaller than Lyon and Paris.
However, online game is very difficult in cities that are smaller than Lyon and Paris.
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