[gringoed]

I realized in the other thread about what counts as a notch, that different guys on here have different end games. In other words, different guys have different goals when it comes to women.

When I was a little younger, the goal was to collect notches with hot girls. Now it seems that a notch has no inherent value or meaning to me and my goals are more customized to what makes ME happy and satisfied.

My goals right now are:

1. being in complete harmony with my inner man, living in my own world, and exercising my own true will.
2. continuously being in multiple relationships with amazing women that make me satisfied and make me grow.

I'm curious what some younger guys say and what the older guys say. Is it finding an amazing wife? Is it collecting as many flags as possible? Is it being comfortable approaching?

What are your goals right now?

[gringochileno]

Have sex with lots of different hot girls, travel the world, and over the long term improve my game so that when a really exceptional girl comes along that I want to date exclusively I can get her.

[Kickb]

In the first few months that began learning game i would write out many goals that i wanted to accomplish each month. It was effective at first but after a few months i began obsessing over the goals and got mad when i didnt accomplish them. it seemed like i was taking this too serious so i stopped writing out goals for myself and instead just told myself that i should focus on a couple main goals instead of specific goals such as "invite five girls back to my place this month" or "take a shower with a chick". The main goals that i focus on now are similar to your goals.

1. Do what makes me happy without fear of judgment
2. Talk to girls that enter my orbit and progress from there.
3. Dont make girls my mission. (i stole that from roosh or mixx)

So far i have been alot happier with how things are going. I still fuck up everynow and then, but i dont go too hard on myself because i dont have a list of failed goals staring me in the face. That and im not forcing things or trying to hard to accomplish goals.

[CupCake]

At first, I wanted to just bang as many women as I could to get my notch count up but I don't really want that anymore. I am focusing on quality rather than quantity. I want to meet women who I can learn from and have some positive experiences with. I'm not interested in one-nighters as I am in getting a lot of casual relationships.

I gotta admit that gathering flags is a fun hobby too. I'd like to at least get most of the asian flags before I settle down.

Learning how to handle women is a goal that can help with other self-improvement goals. It helps improve the social skills and generally encourages you to live a more interesting and fulfilling life. I think any newbie should keep that in mind.

My main goal now is getting comfortable with rejection and I'm getting lots of practice!

[Chad Daring]

Simple. Be happy.

What that entails, that part I'm still trying to figure out, though this past month has shown me game is definitely in there somewhere.

[FretDancer]

Hey gringoed, I read somewhere that you're more of a relationship kind of guy. Im curious, by multiple relationships you mean having them at the same time?

[Screwston]

(04-15-2011 02:11 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

Have sex with lots of different hot girls, travel the world, and over the long term improve my game so that when a really exceptional girl comes along that I want to date exclusively I can get her.

All this but I don't think ill ever be able to truly trust a girl and let her get close to me.

[Imthattypeofguy]

(04-16-2011 12:08 AM)houston Wrote:  

(04-15-2011 02:11 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

Have sex with lots of different hot girls, travel the world, and over the long term improve my game so that when a really exceptional girl comes along that I want to date exclusively I can get her.

All this but I don't think ill ever be able to truly trust a girl and let her get close to me.

I agree - d*mn love. I'm out for lust!

[Walderschmidt]

I have two main goals:

1. To bang as many girls from as many different countries as I can
2. To marry a girl from a country that doesn't speak English as a mother tongue, has father friendly laws, and raises its daughters to value the family. Like an Italian girl maybe.

In theory, with all the experience I will gain from my first goal, I will be able to discern which girls are quality and which are not, if I still want to marry and start a family in 10-15 years.

[Chad Daring]

In addition, I wouldn't mind being this guy

[Mrs. Chocolate]

My goal is travel around the world, meet people, be sucessful.

[Excelsior]

(04-15-2011 02:11 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

Have sex with lots of different hot girls, travel the world, and over the long term improve my game so that when a really exceptional girl comes along that I want to date exclusively I can get her.

Basically this.

[Invictus]

Add genuine value to the lives of those around me (friends in particular), develop my self-awareness and self-management (almost the same), financial and physical indepedence, good physical shape, consistently meet and bang hot women, and consistently produce work/whatever of real value, materially and personally, to me and others.

[gringoed]

(04-15-2011 07:47 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

Hey gringoed, I read somewhere that you're more of a relationship kind of guy. Im curious, by multiple relationships you mean having them at the same time?

Yup. It's something that I'm experimenting with in my time in the USA. The idea is that it's the benefits of being in a relationship without the boredom, or having to hunt all the time for girls to cheat with. I'll eventually write a post on it.

[thecrazyfool]

Perhaps these could be summed up by the statement "gain control of your life." Do the things that you enjoy, not what other people or society dictates that you should do. My goal is to improve my life through actions of my own, such as having sex/a relationship with a girl who I am actually interested in, and working in the job of my choosing. Other people likely have more ambitious goals, but everyone has things they'd like to improve. I think we can all agree on "the pursuit of happiness" - that is the ultimate goal of life.

[Giovonny]

I have 2 goals right now...

1. Take a girl home from her school. I meet girls on college campuses. I have gotten make outs, bangs on 3rd and 4th dates, and even a girlfriend. But, I'm trying to meet a girl on her campus and get her to my house or get into her dorm room within an hour or 2.

2. Take a girl home from the mall. This is a fun one. Shopping is sexy. Numbers and little dates are easy. I want to go from the mall to the bed in less then 2 hours.

[Tuthmosis]

(04-16-2011 02:47 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

(04-15-2011 02:11 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

Have sex with lots of different hot girls, travel the world, and over the long term improve my game so that when a really exceptional girl comes along that I want to date exclusively I can get her.

Basically this.

To never stop improving myself and, along the way, bang lots of hot chicks, meet interesting people, learn new things, and, at some point, impact humanity in a positive--albeit infinitesimal--way.

And, sufficiently improve myself than when the very rare exceptional girl does come along, I have the skills to capture her, comfortably check out of the game for a while, and enjoy her for a little longer.