Women hold the title for tellers of half-truths. I think we can all agree that "Just be yourself" is the worst advice that a woman can give to a man, mostly because what if being yourself isn't what she wants, because as you are, she doesn't want you.
With that being said, I ask you to think about "Just be yourself", the remixed version. You actually should just be yourself, but you should be the best version of whoever it is that you are.
Think about who you are, there's no doubt in my mind, you have some good qualities. You actually could bring value to some woman's life. Now think about what you would like to improve upon. When you can add on to your foundation, you're on your way to being the best you that you can be.
When you present yourself to women, stop trying to be some sort of character, like the perfect guy who appears in some rom-com. You know that guy, he's jacked, he's handsome -- no homo -- he has money, status, an interesting lifestyle, he's just the coolest of cool motherfuckers who has all of the desirable traits you've been programmed to believe that you need to possess just to get some ass.
Look, we're not all going to be able to get dimes, we're not all going to be cool motherfuckers, on the surface. Even if we can get into character and snatch one, getting her is one thing, keeping her around is a whole different animal, and don't tell me you just want to one night stand a dime -- real dimes are worth the time, you can do real shit with a dime.
A lot of guys who learn game will succumb to their natural failings after a certain period of time, just like women do. Everyone tries to put their best foot forward at the beginning of the interaction, and then it's a race to see who stops trying first.
This is simply because again, you're not improving who you already are, you're just feigning to be someone entirely different, you're just an actor, do you think you're going to be able to play a role and read from scripts forever?
To quote Timbaland, "that shit ain't gonna work".
I implore you to be the best you that you can be, and then put that man on display for the women you encounter, either they're going to be down or they're not. At the end of the day, you can be the coolest dude, and you can like her more than anyone else ever has, but that doesn't mean anything, she still may not want you for any reason, even one that may have nothing to do with you.
So next time you hear someone, somewhere say "Just be yourself", understand what it really means, you'll find yourself winning more than you are losing, and you'll be happier with who you are as a man.
In the long run, self-acceptance is more valuable than another's validation because you're always going to have to love, trust, and believe in yourself, while she, whoever she may be, is more likely than not just passing through anyway.
With that being said, I ask you to think about "Just be yourself", the remixed version. You actually should just be yourself, but you should be the best version of whoever it is that you are.
Think about who you are, there's no doubt in my mind, you have some good qualities. You actually could bring value to some woman's life. Now think about what you would like to improve upon. When you can add on to your foundation, you're on your way to being the best you that you can be.
When you present yourself to women, stop trying to be some sort of character, like the perfect guy who appears in some rom-com. You know that guy, he's jacked, he's handsome -- no homo -- he has money, status, an interesting lifestyle, he's just the coolest of cool motherfuckers who has all of the desirable traits you've been programmed to believe that you need to possess just to get some ass.
Look, we're not all going to be able to get dimes, we're not all going to be cool motherfuckers, on the surface. Even if we can get into character and snatch one, getting her is one thing, keeping her around is a whole different animal, and don't tell me you just want to one night stand a dime -- real dimes are worth the time, you can do real shit with a dime.
A lot of guys who learn game will succumb to their natural failings after a certain period of time, just like women do. Everyone tries to put their best foot forward at the beginning of the interaction, and then it's a race to see who stops trying first.
This is simply because again, you're not improving who you already are, you're just feigning to be someone entirely different, you're just an actor, do you think you're going to be able to play a role and read from scripts forever?
To quote Timbaland, "that shit ain't gonna work".
I implore you to be the best you that you can be, and then put that man on display for the women you encounter, either they're going to be down or they're not. At the end of the day, you can be the coolest dude, and you can like her more than anyone else ever has, but that doesn't mean anything, she still may not want you for any reason, even one that may have nothing to do with you.
So next time you hear someone, somewhere say "Just be yourself", understand what it really means, you'll find yourself winning more than you are losing, and you'll be happier with who you are as a man.
In the long run, self-acceptance is more valuable than another's validation because you're always going to have to love, trust, and believe in yourself, while she, whoever she may be, is more likely than not just passing through anyway.