[UroboricForms]

I just broke a depressing year long dry spell thanks to places like this and the advice of the people who post on them. To sum it up from the notch thread:

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Just broke my dry spell of over a year, technically a year and a half (it was 1.5 yrs since I properly fucked/finished with a girl). Easily the hottest chick I've had to date. Big fuck off tits and a superb booty. I tried to put as much of what I've been reading here and ROK the last few months into practice, lead the interaction as much as possible etc...well, it worked. I almost surprised myself with my own confidence. Funny how things can turn around so quick! Feel better about myself than I have done in ages. This stuff really works!

I just want to say how glad I am that this place and others like it exist. A year ago I was depressed, lost, and wouldn't have known what to do had I found myself in the situation described above, at that point in time. I probably would have been a fool and blown it, and be kicking myself hard by now. Things were pretty bad in my head. It feels like I've regained some faith in my own abilities which has been sorely lacking for a long time. Things can only get better now. It may sound silly but this is a big deal for me obviously. So thanks to all of you for your words of support, whether direct or that I saw in response to someone else and took on board! Keep spreading the good word Onwards!

[Harbinger]

(10-29-2014 04:34 PM)UroboricForms Wrote:  

I just broke a depressing year long dry spell thanks to places like this and the advice of the people who post on them. To sum it up from the notch thread:

Quote:

Just broke my dry spell of over a year, technically a year and a half (it was 1.5 yrs since I properly fucked/finished with a girl). Easily the hottest chick I've had to date. Big fuck off tits and a superb booty. I tried to put as much of what I've been reading here and ROK the last few months into practice, lead the interaction as much as possible etc...well, it worked. I almost surprised myself with my own confidence. Funny how things can turn around so quick! Feel better about myself than I have done in ages. This stuff really works!

I just want to say how glad I am that this place and others like it exist. A year ago I was depressed, lost, and wouldn't have known what to do had I found myself in the situation described above, at that point in time. I probably would have been a fool and blown it, and be kicking myself hard by now. Things were pretty bad in my head. It feels like I've regained some faith in my own abilities which has been sorely lacking for a long time. Things can only get better now. It may sound silly but this is a big deal for me obviously. So thanks to all of you for your words of support, whether direct or that I saw in response to someone else and took on board! Keep spreading the good word Onwards!

Yeah,we're nearlly all beginners on here i'm 43 so keep it,up forums are great but this is easily the best

[Phoenix]

What specific things did you do? What problems did you address and what traits did you improve?

[BadgerHut]

Nice job friend!

"I tried to put as much of what I've been reading here and ROK the last few months into practice, lead the interaction as much as possible etc...well, it worked. I almost surprised myself with my own confidence."

Heard a great phrase, "women don't want to win, they want a winner." It's amazing how well women respond to a really confident attitude with the right sexual/escalation chemistry mied in. We do get this impression that you gotta be a perfect guy to get girls sweating you ($, fitness, read books, dress well etc), but you don't need to impress every woman, you just need to impress enough to give you a steady supply of company, and so you don't need every tool in the toolbox every time.

[UroboricForms]

(11-01-2014 07:33 PM)Phoenix Wrote:  

What specific things did you do? What problems did you address and what traits did you improve?

I just gave it full on confidence and escalation from the word "go", and within literally minutes of meeting up with her it was all gravy. I've always had a bit of trouble asserting myself with chicks and the last couple of years in particular have been quite difficult in this regard: I had a couple of flings (with largely not so great girls) that failed and left me feeling worse about myself cause my personal circumstances at the time stopped me from getting the most out of it. This time however things went perfectly. If that day had happened a year or so ago (when I was beginning to open my eyes to this red pill stuff and make sense of it), or indeed before then when I was largely ignorant to it all, I doubt I would have gotten anywhere. She said I'm her "type" so its pretty likely that I had it easy from the beginning, but I doubt she would have dug it as much if I had just coasted through the interaction, instead of taking control right off the bat. That's what I feel that ROK/RV forum has taught me over the last few months. With that interaction I felt (finally) like I had regained some "spark" that was missing for some time, and regained some faith in my own confidence and abilities. Like I was finally punching on/above the waist again, at a talent level more approximate to my own.