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jealousy
04-11-2011, 03:02 AM
I have a major problem in my game: girls that I meet or date often try to make me jealous, by flirting with other guys, dancing with other guys, drawing my attention to other guys trying to hit on them, etc.
What's the remedy? Should I ignore the girls, try to make them jealous in their turn, or actively block out the guys they try to interact with. (I suppose it all depends on how you do it, that you are relaxed and confident.) Do the girls need more comfort at some point in the game? What's your experience?
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jealousy
04-11-2011, 09:04 AM
Never ever, ever, ever, care about a girl, ever. Unless she has given you children. Problem solved.
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jealousy
04-11-2011, 10:51 AM
I slept during your complain, can you say it again?
If I was awake in the beggining, the girl is a whore okay? The thing is you are picking the roat apples. But don't feel bad, it happens to girls too.
What to do? walk away. Go find another.
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jealousy
04-11-2011, 04:02 PM
I'm no expert, but I've had this happen a few times with random girls I've chatted up in the bar. They'll go off and have some guy intercept them on the way back from the bathroom, they'll start dancing and what not. All I did was keep chill, same "fuck it" kinda smirk and kept on keepin on.
One girl was with a couple friends and one of her friends said "hey she's your girl, he's giving her the attention she wants, that should be you down there"
My response:
"When she's had enough mindless attention she'll come back to me"
Sho nuff, ten minutes later my arm, her waist.
Maybe it was just an isolated incident, maybe not.
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jealousy
04-12-2011, 06:20 PM
If she's doing all that before she's fucked you, she's not interested and you should move on.
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jealousy
04-12-2011, 08:02 PM
Quote: (04-12-2011 06:20 PM)Roosh Wrote:
If she's doing all that before she's fucked you, she's not interested and you should move on.
Ding Ding Ding.
This is the sign of an attention whore.
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jealousy
04-12-2011, 10:28 PM
My old fuck buddy, Dag, used to bring dudes with her when I had a party at my apt. I'm pretty sure she was trying to make me jealous. She also would talk about how she had model shots for victorias secret, which had to be a crock of shit. I thought I had erectile disfunction for a while. When in reality she just didn't pass the Boner test
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jealousy
07-06-2011, 08:46 AM
uncontrolled jealousy is your worst enemy. controlled jealousy your best ally.
This quote from Roissy is helping me A LOT.
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jealousy
07-06-2011, 09:25 AM
Quote: (04-12-2011 06:20 PM)Roosh Wrote:
If she's doing all that before she's fucked you, she's not interested and you should move on.
good one.
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jealousy
07-06-2011, 10:31 AM
The problem is you're putting the pussy on a pedestal. How would you feel if some random girl was flirting with a guy? You wouldn't give a shit. That's exactly how you should feel about these girls. It only bothers you because the girls are important to you.
Stop looking at these girls like they're something special. They're no better than a million other random girls you've never met.
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