[Jameson]

(10-27-2014 10:42 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

(10-27-2014 09:58 PM)Jameson Wrote:  

I am incredibly young, 24, live in LA. I’m 6’2, in shape, and have hooked up with well over 50 girls in the past couple years.

Can I help you?

[poutsara]

My initial reaction is 6 months is too short and you are too young...Also, consider the following checklist:

- cooking skills: really important (under appreciated), even if you are a great chef she should know how to cook and enjoy it.
- health: does she eat well? exercise? is this a part of her daily routines?
- history: history of partying? how many sex partners approximately? Less is better obviously.
- cleaning/ household maintenance skills: she should not see this as a chore rather as part of life.
- interest and skills in child rearing: she should want them and have some idea how to raise them. Extra points if her parents did a good job.
- interest in your family, culture, and religion, better yet, should be same as yours if possible
- she should be younger than you

- main question: is she going to make your life easier or harder? Are you going to be more successful in your life and career with her? Is she a liability or an asset for your future?

And she should be the one pushing for marriage not you.

[The Lizard of Oz]

Somewhat relevant:

(10-27-2014 06:41 PM)nycxoxo Wrote:  

SUCCESS RATE
-5 years in the game: 123 girls. Approx. 24/year or one every 2 weeks (also countless makeouts and near successes, but not including those here).
-17 years before being in the game: 71 girls .Approx. 4/year or one every 3 months.

Between these two soon-to-be-married super-studs, we're starting to talk some real numbers here. LOL.

[komatiite]

Dude you have got to list out what exactly your arts degrees are in. Six degrees at 24 is a better pace than this dude. My guess is that you are exaggerating. What majors offered in the Faculty of Home Economics did you pursue? It shouldn't count if you took separate AAs in Vacuuming, Toilet Cleaning, Sewing and Laundry (minor in Ironing). That counts as a single BA in Housekeeping in my opinion.

[Jameson]

(10-27-2014 10:53 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

Somewhat relevant:

(10-27-2014 06:41 PM)nycxoxo Wrote:  

SUCCESS RATE
-5 years in the game: 123 girls. Approx. 24/year or one every 2 weeks (also countless makeouts and near successes, but not including those here).
-17 years before being in the game: 71 girls .Approx. 4/year or one every 3 months.

Between these two soon-to-be-married super-studs, we're starting to talk some real numbers here. LOL.

I don't know his circumstances, but for me

California State Schools have stupid high girl:guy ratios

Every sorority has 150 girls, every fraternity has 50 guys

Go out 3 times a week for 3 years = 450 nights out

50 girls for 450 nights out = 1/9 nights I pulled, with a solid ratio at every gathering.

If anything, my numbers blow. I'm a 7, but still, I could've done better tbh

[Jameson]

(10-27-2014 10:54 PM)komatiite Wrote:  

Dude you have got to list out what exactly your arts degrees are in. Six degrees at 24 is a better pace than this dude. My guess is that you are exaggerating. What majors offered in the Faculty of Home Economics did you pursue? It shouldn't count if you took separate AAs in Vacuuming, Toilet Cleaning, Sewing and Laundry (minor in Ironing). That counts as a single BA in Housekeeping in my opinion.

Liberal Studies
Political Science
Latin American Studies
Humanities
Global Studies
Social and Behavioral Sciences

It's really not that hard, take 45 units a year for 4.5 years = 200 units

A solo BA is 120 units

[Merenguero]

The original post screams female troll, but I'll give this person the benefit of the doubt, at least for now.

Have the two of you lived together yet? If not, do that, see how it goes, and report back (without having gotten engaged) in a few months.

The hooking up with fifty girls in a couple years part is interesting in light of the fact that you said that you had a relationship of four years. Were you single when you hooked up with these girls? If not, you definitely don't want to get married, because you will in all likelihood, go do the same thiing again and it will almost certainly destroy your marriage.

If you do get married, get a prenup prepared by a competent lawyer. It doesn't matter if you don't have much now. You can never do too much to protect yourself.

Regardless of whether or not you marry her, make absolute sure she never gets a DUI. A DUI can seriously screw you if you have a nursing license, more than almost any other profession. I learned that the hard way recently.

[Atlantic]

(10-27-2014 11:03 PM)Jameson Wrote:  

If anything, my numbers blow. I'm a 7, but still, I could've done better tbh

Again this is written by someone who knows this person.

[The Lizard of Oz]

(10-27-2014 11:03 PM)Jameson Wrote:  

If anything, my numbers blow.

But your troll game is right on target.

[Jameson]

(10-27-2014 10:52 PM)poutsara Wrote:  

My initial reaction is 6 months is too short and you are too young...Also, consider the following checklist:

- cooking skills: really important (under appreciated), even if you are a great chef she should know how to cook and enjoy it.
- health: does she eat well? exercise? is this a part of her daily routines?
- history: history of partying? how many sex partners approximately? Less is better obviously.
- cleaning/ household maintenance skills: she should not see this as a chore rather as part of life.
- interest and skills in child rearing: she should want them and have some idea how to raise them. Extra points if her parents did a good job.
- interest in your family, culture, and religion, better yet, should be same as yours if possible
- she should be younger than you

- main question: is she going to make your life easier or harder? Are you going to be more successful in your life and career with her? Is she a liability or an asset for your future?

And she should be the one pushing for marriage not you.

-Her cooking is mediocre, but she's very willing to it

-She loves cleaning

-She never partied and has a slight aversion to drinking (it makes her face flush because she's asian)

-Her parents did an excellent job, I'm more worried about her changing her mind about when she wants kids

-She's younger, within a year

-Same religion, she's part asian, but that's not exactly a bad culture to have on the side. She doesn't speak Chinese, and neither do her siblings or white father.

-In the short term, she'll make my life much easier. Long term is less certain, but I believe it'll be easier.

-She brings it up often, and tells me she wants to marry me daily.

[Atlantic]

^ she loves writing on forums and thinks about me all the time, maybe too much.

She found some game material and a saved RVF bookmark on my laptop

She is now worried about future marriage plans she had

[Peregrine]

Quote:

This reads like it was written by someone with knowledge of the situation but not by the guy in the story.
Probably to gain insight into the way a guy thinks.

My guess is the nurse or the last girl before her.

I second this.

[Suits]

Looks like your mind is already made up.

We'll be here in 4 years when you need help decompressing from the divorce rape.

[OnlyMarryInTajikistan]

OP believes the girl is traditional because she is Asian-American.

I'm sure some American players on here will happily burn that notion to the ground.

[Vacancier Permanent]

So 6 degrees and only making 45-50k/year? I'm not a finance guy, but that even to me, seems like the absolute worst ROI ever!

Out of curiosity, how much did these 6 degrees cost you?

With all respect due, all pretty much useless degrees. Want a degree that's worth it? Engineering. Preferably petroleum. Or learn a trade. And hit the energy sector in the oil fields.

Or heck, you'd have a much better ROI by taking just one degree and the rest of the money, travelling and experiencing the world.

Listen buddy, you need to start making better decisions. And ASAP! And right now, you're on the verge of making the worst decision of all.

[Jameson]

(10-27-2014 11:09 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

The original post screams female troll, but I'll give this person the benefit of the doubt, at least for now.

Have the two of you lived together yet? If not, do that, see how it goes, and report back (without having gotten engaged) in a few months.

The hooking up with fifty girls in a couple years part is interesting in light of the fact that you said that you had a relationship of four years. Were you single when you hooked up with these girls? If not, you definitely don't want to get married, because you will in all likelihood, go do the same thiing again and it will almost certainly destroy your marriage.

If you do get married, get a prenup prepared by a competent lawyer. It doesn't matter if you don't have much now. You can never do too much to protect yourself.

Regardless of whether or not you marry her, make absolute sure she never gets a DUI. A DUI can seriously screw you if you have a nursing license, more than almost any other profession. I learned that the hard way recently.

Had girlfriend until over halfway through college, broke up with her at notch count 1.

Had a couple years to bring that up to over 50+

I haven't lived with her, but it would be frowned upon if I did, though I can travel with her for as long as I like without any social/religious backlash.

She's very aware of the DUI component, she never drives if she's had a sip.

and for those doubting me- I'd be more than happy to link you to my FB if you'd like haha

[El Chinito loco]

(10-27-2014 11:16 PM)OnlyMarryInTajikistan Wrote:  

OP believes the girl is traditional because she is Asian-American.

I'm sure some American players on here will happily burn that notion to the ground.

This was kind of a red flag for me too.

From my own experiences.. half-asian (hapa) girls raised in america don't come from very traditional families for the most part. Also, usually one or more parents is a headcase. It's a very common scenario.

[Jameson]

(10-27-2014 11:16 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  

So 6 degrees and only making 45-50k/year? I'm not a finance guy, but that even to me, seems like the absolute worst ROI ever!

Out of curiosity, how much did these 6 degrees cost you?

With all respect due, all pretty much useless degrees. Want a degree that's worth it? Engineering. Preferably petroleum. Or learn a trade. And hit the energy sector in the oil fields.

Or heck, you'd have a much better ROI by taking just one degree and the rest of the money, travelling and experiencing the world.

Listen buddy, you need to start making better decisions. And ASAP! And right now, you're on the verge of making the worst decision of all.

15k total, state schools are cheap, and I actually received a ton of grants for my tuition, so it was almost a wash. It was just less time available to work/pay for life

[rebootman]

Marriage at 24 and after 6 months - Totally whipped. She makes $110+k - Get ready for cuckoldry

[Jameson]

(10-27-2014 11:23 PM)rebootman Wrote:  

Marriage at 24 and after 6 months - Totally whipped

Definitely hasty

However, realize it'll be 18 months by the time we're married

I tried dating for 4 years and that was fruitless, and I'm not trying to put in that much time to not get anything out of it

[Peregrine]

[Jameson]

(10-27-2014 11:15 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Looks like your mind is already made up.

We'll be here in 4 years when you need help decompressing from the divorce rape.

Not at all, it's just currently what I'm definitely leaning towards

I'm definitely worried about being discontent and married. Being single is definitely freeing and enjoyable, but in this situation, being married is very practical.

Being single opens me up to some potentially negative life changing consequences, eg knocking up a random, STD, rape charge, etc

Being married would come with a lot more stability, though a possibility of ugly divorce later on

[Jameson]

(10-27-2014 11:30 PM)Peregrine Wrote:  

Would you like to me to link you? Haha

[The_CEO]

(10-27-2014 10:45 PM)Atlantic Wrote:  

This reads like it was written by someone with knowledge of the situation but not by the guy in the story.
Probably to gain insight into the way a guy thinks.

My guess is the nurse or the last girl before her.

who knows if it means anything but it's funny because most RFV'ers have a moniker of some sort vs. an ordinary guy's name (that a female might choose when she joins).

[Peregrine]

You write like a girl. What's a link going to prove? Unless you change your profile pic to the rooshv logo.