[almohajem]

One day I was approached by a women (27) and she was computer illiterate enough to keep her Facebook account logged in my laptop. When meeting new people, they try hard to show you that they are high value and hide shameful things of their past.

Knowing their past or their actual thoughts is key. As I has access to her fb account, I was able to know a lot about her:

1. She asks guys that seems she is banging frequently to pay her a $2 coffee (==> she's very cheap)

2. she's negotiating with an older man to setup a small business for her and how much sex he'll get (the actual discussion was with another friend of her)

3. She doesn't have money to pay rent.

4. She's looking for a marriage material men (another discussion with a friend of her)

As a first date, I had a rather good/average/neutral idea about the women. After checking her messages, I just found out how much she is fucked up.

Another one. I was dating an asian chick. She was "crazy" in love about me and she claimed she had no male friends ever. while we are together her phone died and she asked me to borrow my phone to check something on her fb. As she forgot to log out, i found out she is actively messaging at least a dozen other guys (can't understand what they are talking about though).

So my question is: What methods do you use to get inside someone head?

What I can think of:

1. Facebook, texts (what about ethics and privacy?)

2. You know someone that knows that person personally and can give you information about him.

3. Her Facebook/Foursquare feed or Internet legacy (photos or stuff she put online and forgot about it)

[Windom Earle]

Relevant

Personally, I'd be leaving personal information well alone - ignorance is bliss so they say.

[kinjutsu]

It's a terrible idea...
I just let them do there own thing if i feel they aren't trustworthy.
Going through someone else's personal stuff can lead to things you might not wanna find out at the very least something you could have lived the rest of your life not knowing.

[AntiTrace]

She have an iphone?

Tansee iphone program, don't know the exact name.

You plug an iphone in, the text messages pop up in the program and you can save them an access them later. You don't even need to know her passcode, it works without it. The only drawback is that if she has a lot of shit on her phone, like she has had the phone for a couple years and never deleted anything, then it will take hours before its finished.

But yes man, ignorance is bliss. It truly is pandoras box that you are talking about opening.

Althouh I feel like every man should do it at least once, get fully inside the head of female. It's truly an eye opening experience.