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10-11-2014, 01:45 PM
Finally got a good lead last night. Cute, athletic, early 20's girl at gym who I had a Roosh-style daygame type conversation with. When she asked my age I figured she was interested. I made her guess but eventually told her (late 30's) and she was cool about it. As we were leaving I said "wanna hang out?" And she said "sure."
It was late and I had to get the number since I had already agreed to give another guy (who she is friends with) a ride home.
He told me that when I went to my car and left them, she accused him of "cockblocking."
Basically, I think I just have to run "don't fuck up" "game" now?
Note: There is a logistics issue because I live about an hour away.
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10-25-2014, 12:57 PM
Quote: (10-11-2014 01:45 PM)RexImperator Wrote:
Basically, I think I just have to run "don't fuck up" "game" now?
...Aaaaaaaand I fucked it up.
Basically, among other things I failed to escalate because I didn't realize how fast these things could turn on a dime. I thought I had to get this girl out on a date, all that stuff, and at one point when I confronted her she was giving me the eyes like she wanted to make out right outside the gym. That hadn't even entered into my mind as a possibility at that point.
Sucks, but it was a good learning lesson I suppose.
Would it be worth doing an after-action analysis here to see all he things I did wrong?
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10-29-2014, 10:05 AM
I'm confused. You had just finished a workout and promised to give a buddy a ride home, so you got her number and told her you'd like to hang out sometime. That all sounds like standard procedure.
There's a two-week gap between your OP and your follow up. You didn't mention what happened-did you get her out on a date?
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10-29-2014, 01:13 PM
Quote: (10-29-2014 10:05 AM)Isaac Jordan Wrote:
I'm confused. You had just finished a workout and promised to give a buddy a ride home, so you got her number and told her you'd like to hang out sometime. That all sounds like standard procedure.
There's a two-week gap between your OP and your follow up. You didn't mention what happened-did you get her out on a date?
No. I never did get her out. It went bad after I texted suggesting a meetup and then turned into a several week long slow motion train wreck. I've been trying to forget about it, but perhaps posting a summary would be therapeutic and useful for understanding my mistakes.
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