Hello. Whenever i go to a nightclub, i always see a tall, dark, and quite handsome guy being groped by hot girls, although i think he has nothing special and does not even use game(he just smiles and girls dance with him). Interestingly enough, blonde or ethnic guys never have that same sucess. What does that guy have that is so pussy magnet?
What does the tall,dark man has that special?
Ebola.
Bitches love it.
Bitches love it.
"Men willingly believe what they wish." - Julius Caesar, De Bello Gallico, Book III, Ch. 18
Lol, I was serious.
I am not of an European/ American culture, so I don't get it exactly. Where was the concept popularized?
I am not of an European/ American culture, so I don't get it exactly. Where was the concept popularized?
When you say dark, do you mean African dark, or a relatively tan white person, like Spanish dark?
When girls, well white girls, say tall dark and handsome I think they mean tan white people. Of course they may also mean black people, or any person who is dark, but I think the original meaning came from a white millieu.
Why is it appealing? Peter Frost has an entire theory about how women are naturally lighter than men, and thus skin tone is a sexual signal that we are attuned to. Women are called "the fairer" sex for literal reasons of skin tone. Males, even in small isolated villages of homogenous ethnicity, have more hemoglobin in their blood which leads to a "ruddier" slightly darker color than women have. If I recall, analysis of areas such as the underarm and inner thigh show these differences are not related to tanning, but inborn.
His research has shown that women in fact are more likely to have lighter skin, hair, and eyes than men. He postulates that this is sexual signalling from women mimicking neoteny, as children are well known to have lighter skin, hair and eye colors that darken over time.
So a darker man is really just a sign of masculinity like a strong jaw or muscles. Here is his work on the subject, complete with lots of references to classical texts and texts from many world cultures showing, what he believes, is a near global phoenomenon of men being darker and women being lighter.
http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.10...90)90178-H
When girls, well white girls, say tall dark and handsome I think they mean tan white people. Of course they may also mean black people, or any person who is dark, but I think the original meaning came from a white millieu.
Why is it appealing? Peter Frost has an entire theory about how women are naturally lighter than men, and thus skin tone is a sexual signal that we are attuned to. Women are called "the fairer" sex for literal reasons of skin tone. Males, even in small isolated villages of homogenous ethnicity, have more hemoglobin in their blood which leads to a "ruddier" slightly darker color than women have. If I recall, analysis of areas such as the underarm and inner thigh show these differences are not related to tanning, but inborn.
His research has shown that women in fact are more likely to have lighter skin, hair, and eyes than men. He postulates that this is sexual signalling from women mimicking neoteny, as children are well known to have lighter skin, hair and eye colors that darken over time.
So a darker man is really just a sign of masculinity like a strong jaw or muscles. Here is his work on the subject, complete with lots of references to classical texts and texts from many world cultures showing, what he believes, is a near global phoenomenon of men being darker and women being lighter.
http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.10...90)90178-H
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White dudes are becoming dinosaurs these days...
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