[iknowexactly]

I had a stressful USA job before I left-the source of the money that allows me to stay here.

When I got to the Philippines, I gradually realized that I had some diseases, much like someone from the 17th century might not realize that the constant pain they had in their teeth was called "toothache", and that one did not have to suffer from it if they knew how to obtain treatment.

First I realized, I was tense all the time, and relaxing took days and days.

Then after having young attractive women available to me more or less whenever I wanted, I recognized the emotional state I was used to as the norm in America --loneliness--was something I did not have to suffer from.

I was Insane on Arrival.

Better than Dead on Arrival anyway.

I won't accept being lonely , or anxious over things any more.

It's my life and I'll do what I want.

Hoping for some hate guys-- my dinner date tonight; 40 years younger than me:

I highly recommend AA Barbecue in Cebu, cheap, I didn't get sick and a relaxed semi-outdoor setting with open sky, music not harshly blaring, and decent open acoustics so everyone's talk doesn't echo in on itself.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(09-14-2014 09:53 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

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It's my life and I'll do what I want.

Hoping for some hate guys-- my dinner date tonight; 40 years younger than me:

I highly recommend AA Barbecue in Cebu, cheap, I didn't get sick and a relaxed semi-outdoor setting with open sky, music not harshly blaring, and decent open acoustics so everyone's talk doesn't echo in on itself.

Reminds me of Bukowski, but probably with less alcohol and nicer women:

   

Either way - have fun and enjoy.

[Sp5]

Is that it for you in the USA except for visits, IKE?

Hope the breeding program is coming along.

[Brodiaga]

Keep the posts coming, ike. To all those who think that game doesn't work for older guys, just read ike's posts. Game is not just about cold approaches and text messaging tricks. It involves long term planning, changing your career, and making enough money to become location independent.

[iknowexactly]

(09-14-2014 11:59 AM)Sp5 Wrote:  

Is that it for you in the USA except for visits, IKE?

Hope the breeding program is coming along.

I try to look at location as being another element of life which should be subordinate to my goals. Here's great essay I found contrasting Sun Tzu, Clausewitz, and Machiavelli on locations.

v Use of Location in Strategy

I see myself as having done _badly_ overall in life in maximizing geo-arbitrage, spent most of my life in the sexually harsh USA. .

I'm doing well now, but spent most of my early life not "attacking" nearly enough when I was in favorable circumstances -I was young and adequately good looking to get over in the USA-- where aggression and youth are what is valued. I did not use the tactic of aggression ( game) enough.

Now I look at the USA as a good fallback position when and if I suffer a financial defeat. My position in Asia is tenuous, but the spoils are great.

The insane family court system in the USA is an aberration in a society that functions very well otherwise compared to most. For example, breath the air in Manila vs. the air in "decadent" San Francisco and tell me which society is more advanced.

USA also a great place to find proactive collaborators who are risk tolerant, creative and very quick and smart. There's a reason the USA is the world leader in technology, genetics, warfare, and certain forms of modern art- the people are very smart due to a one time freak confluence of events-- discovery of a new continent by Europeans with subsequent selection for daring and innovativeness in immigrants while it was hard to get to the USA.

I don't buy that the USA is a has-been creative leader in decline at all for now.Certainly the .001% are skimming like crazy in an unbalanced way, but that's been the norm through most of history I think, and the egalitarian post-WW2 boom where the working man could own a home and support a family was a positive historical aberration. Now the USA is just such a (unequally) wealthy place the women have become demanding as hell, which seems to me a sign of overall success not collapse. The middle class girls in the college town I was living in were not very obese-- they've caught on to the anti-carb approach, and if you were young enough I think you could have more sex than you could handle.

The breeding program -- no success yet. Girls in the USA are not nearly as smart as they think they are, but the poverty of the third world limits the intellectual development of women even more than inherent female cerebral inferiority.

A big reason to "get out" of the USA early (by 40-45), or become location independent, is so you can have kids in a less male-hostile environment.

But "getting out" means a lot of things. It might be easier to develop a profession where you can work half on-half off ( welder, ER doc) and have a good life all through adulthood developing a family in a foreign country than what I did, which was slog along saving in the USA until I had a passive income from there.

And slogging along in the USA has the occupational hazard of chronic anxiety and sexual alienation just as living in the boondocks of the Phils has of Malaria and Dengue. ( Go to a travel medicine clinic before living int he tropics.)

Now I am old enough fertility may be a problem and extinction is forever, not that the universe needs my genes particularly lol.

[Vacancier Permanent]

Very inspiring IKE!
Keep us updated on your adventures and progress.
For girls with higher IQ and EQ, target the educated middle to upper middle classes in MNL or Cebu and Davao. Plenty of good educated girls with good values and smart get still sweet and feminine.

[Sp5]

(09-14-2014 03:51 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(09-14-2014 11:59 AM)Sp5 Wrote:  

Is that it for you in the USA except for visits, IKE?

Hope the breeding program is coming along.

I try to look at location as being another element of life which should be subordinate to my goals. Here's great essay I found contrasting Sun Tzu, Clausewitz, and Machiavelli on locations.

v Use of Location in Strategy

I see myself as having done _badly_ overall in life in maximizing geo-arbitrage, spent most of my life in the sexually harsh USA. .

I'm doing well now, but spent most of my early life not "attacking" nearly enough when I was in favorable circumstances -I was young and adequately good looking to get over in the USA-- where aggression and youth are what is valued. I did not use the tactic of aggression ( game) enough.

Now I look at the USA as a good fallback position when and if I suffer a financial defeat. My position in Asia is tenuous, but the spoils are great.

The insane family court system in the USA is an aberration in a society that functions very well otherwise compared to most. For example, breath the air in Manila vs. the air in "decadent" San Francisco and tell me which society is more advanced.

USA also a great place to find proactive collaborators who are risk tolerant, creative and very quick and smart. There's a reason the USA is the world leader in technology, genetics, warfare, and certain forms of modern art- the people are very smart due to a one time freak confluence of events-- discovery of a new continent by Europeans with subsequent selection for daring and innovativeness in immigrants while it was hard to get to the USA.

I don't buy that the USA is a has-been creative leader in decline at all for now.Certainly the .001% are skimming like crazy in an unbalanced way, but that's been the norm through most of history I think, and the egalitarian post-WW2 boom where the working man could own a home and support a family was a positive historical aberration. Now the USA is just such a (unequally) wealthy place the women have become demanding as hell, which seems to me a sign of overall success not collapse. The middle class girls in the college town I was living in were not very obese-- they've caught on to the anti-carb approach, and if you were young enough I think you could have more sex than you could handle.

The breeding program -- no success yet. Girls in the USA are not nearly as smart as they think they are, but the poverty of the third world limits the intellectual development of women even more than inherent female cerebral inferiority.

A big reason to "get out" of the USA early (by 40-45), or become location independent, is so you can have kids in a less male-hostile environment.

But "getting out" means a lot of things. It might be easier to develop a profession where you can work half on-half off ( welder, ER doc) and have a good life all through adulthood developing a family in a foreign country than what I did, which was slog along saving in the USA until I had a passive income from there.

And slogging along in the USA has the occupational hazard of chronic anxiety and sexual alienation just as living in the boondocks of the Phils has of Malaria and Dengue. ( Go to a travel medicine clinic before living int he tropics.)

Now I am old enough fertility may be a problem and extinction is forever, not that the universe needs my genes particularly lol.

I agree with your perspective and share your experience. If we knew then what we know now . . .

I don't have the gloomy view of potential mothers, though. Yes, we know that Filipinas (and Thais) are mostly addicted to insipid pop culture and feel-good religious belief, but they could grow in partnership with you, and the child is a new product with unlimited possibilities. As long as she's average or above in basic cognitive ability, she does not have to be an intellectual. I've given up on finding a female who could really share your inner life.

I could see taking one to the USA, under carefully considered conditions, including a prenup which would at least give her concerns that she'd be out and broke if she misbehaved.

[iknowexactly]

(09-18-2014 03:36 AM)Sp5 Wrote:  

I've given up on finding a female who could really share your inner life.

I could see taking one to the USA, under carefully considered conditions, including a prenup which would at least give her concerns that she'd be out and broke if she misbehaved.

About the bringing one to the USA, I try to look at it from a near worst case scenario:
First, if you bring her here with a kid, she's less appealing unless she's a 9 ...
Second, if you wait until the kid is 3-6 years old to move to USA, it will take her a couple years to dump you, so your child support sentence will only be maybe 10 years.
If you go to a more controlled environment with less millionaires and more prying eyes (Bozeman VS. Brooklyn) opportunities will be WAY less for her to wander.

If you just delay abandonment until the kid is 15 or so, it doesn't really matter a HUGE amount, the kids' personality is formed by then.
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It's really true both the older you get and the more highly educated you get the more distant women become from being able to understand your abstract musings.


However, just tonight with a 19 YO in my rotation (see below) I found we had a great time with me doing humor. They have an intuition that you can link up with them with.

I did an impression of an American's life:
--for a few seconds I aped a very tense man driving at high speed with his eyes wide open with fear.
--Then I collapsed my upper body and head on the table of the McDonalds like someone who had just passed out from exhaustion.
--Then I suddenly woke up and was "driving" like a maniac again.

I went through the cycle a few times, explaining that that was what life was like in America: Work at breakneck pace interspersed with exhaustion.

She was not really bright, but she sensed what I was talking about and really laughed. It was a great moment.

So I think the things to share are the funny, emotional things that they can understand.

but I finally realized:

THE FEMINISTS ARE RIGHT.
18 year olds are too immature compared to strong, independent women.

So I started hanging out with this 19 year old.

[el mechanico]

How long are you staying this time? I'd really stop posting those pictures due to white knight haters.

Yes you'll finally get the hate you wanted so badly

[jimukr104]

Quote:

About the bringing one to the USA, I try to look at it from a near worst case scenario:
First, if you bring her here with a kid, she's less appealing unless she's a 9 ...
Second, if you wait until the kid is 3-6 years old to move to USA, it will take her a couple years to dump you, so your child support sentence will only be maybe 10 years.
If you go to a more controlled environment with less millionaires and more prying eyes (Bozeman VS. Brooklyn) opportunities will be WAY less for her to wander.

Sounds like a personal CRACK lol. Although Brooklyn is the 2nd most expensive US county after Manhattan (3 out of the 10 most expensive counties is in Nyc), immigrant communities are imho actually the best since they don't get home sick and nothing unique about your situation because of the diversity. In Montana less opportunity but other issues.

My understanding is that most of your assets are made before marriage so if it isn't marital property and you DON'T adopt anyone else's child , then you are only liable for child support on your kid.

But you are still obligated for 10 years based on the Federal affidavit that you sign for benefits she uses(unless they got rid of that??).

Lets be honest..she might be using A LOT of benefits. As of 10 years ago I never heard of ONE case where court enforced it at the Fed level tbh. But I have heard of local courts enforcing some form of alimony since the women are raising children.


Solution might be to live on Mexican border in Mexican jurisdiction. Than you can visit SD whenever.

[Sp5]

You have made me consider more possibilities, IKE. My range in the last 2 years has been from age 28 - up to a fading Singapore Chinese beauty my own age.

I am going to try getting down to the early 20s my next time in Asia.

I pretty much swear by Rollo's SMV graph, though. In that, we match up with women in their late 30's. I think when you reach below that, you are getting more mercenary motives in women and less true desire. Of course, you can push it down below the line with more game, better-than-average looks, and different cultural attitudes of women around the world, but generally biology can't be repealed.

http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/fi...g-the-smp/

[iknowexactly]

(09-19-2014 04:36 AM)Sp5 Wrote:  

You have made me consider more possibilities, IKE. My range in the last 2 years has been from age 28 - up to a fading Singapore Chinese beauty my own age.

..........

we match up with women in their late 30's. I think when you reach below that, you are getting more mercenary motives in women

Thanks for the input. I'm generally told i am unusually young looking; I still have a full head of really nice wavy hair, but I don't get much attention from 9-10s and most 8s. I look very much like the singer Robert Plant looked when younger.
I've definitely not YoungTallCool and am obviously soft but not bloated around the middle. 5'9".

And as far as women having mercenary motives..

I'm shocked, I tell you, shocked!!!

I just bitched out my second GF so far because she asked for a T-shirt.

But a week ago I paid for the first dental cleaning she's had in a decade; $15 and it benefits me too-- sweeter breath. This is a nice way to do something for a girl that doesn't end when/if you leave. The working class here _never_ has the extra money for dental visits from most of my contacts. Both girls had the start of bad dental problems and I at least got them so they should not be getting into real problems for a couple years. Less than $50 total each for basic procedures.

But when they view me as an ATM for trinkets and frivolous shit, I lower the boom and say in my culture only cheap, low class girls ask for gifts. I say there's a different type of guy they can get who'll do that. I actively VOLUNTEER that guys who put in 25-30 years on the treadmill have much, much more money than me, and not to expect a middle class home, or moving to America-- only MAYBE Italy after they have my kids. I do sometimes dangle moving to Europe because divorce takes 7 years in Italy.

I openly state that 1st world wealth is corrupting and I am not going to expose them to it because it will change them increasing the risk they'll leave me. They see right away there's little opportunity for a pump, skim, and dump with me. And honestly, I don't care that much because there's 55 million more where she came from and she knows it.

The fact is, I can get another one that WON'T wheedle money in 2-3 days max and they know it.

Women only respect power; they're like children. I don't expect anything more.

Do you get mad when a kid asks for an ice cream cone? It's just a kid. Similarly, it's just a girl.

They're for the most part interchangeable unless they give you a kid, now THAT gets some respect from me-- it means she risked her life carrying on your genes.

Everything else is just a Friday night party.

For the majority of us who had loving mothers, it is a sad truth that there will never be a woman that loves us the way our mothers did. It's important to face that.

[iknowexactly]

(09-18-2014 09:44 AM)jimukr104 Wrote:  

Sounds like a personal CRACK lol. Although Brooklyn is the 2nd most expensive US county after Manhattan (3 out of the 10 most expensive counties is in Nyc), immigrant communities are imho actually the best since they don't get home sick and nothing unique about your situation because of the diversity. In Montana less opportunity but other issues.

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Solution might be to live on Mexican border in Mexican jurisdiction. Than you can visit SD whenever.

Good points I didn't think of-- can isolating her out of paranoia make everything worse? Maybe she'll stay with you but be depressed as hell.

I wouldn't want to do that to someone.

[jimukr104]

(10-05-2014 05:18 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(09-18-2014 09:44 AM)jimukr104 Wrote:  

Sounds like a personal CRACK lol. Although Brooklyn is the 2nd most expensive US county after Manhattan (3 out of the 10 most expensive counties is in Nyc), immigrant communities are imho actually the best since they don't get home sick and nothing unique about your situation because of the diversity. In Montana less opportunity but other issues.

....
Solution might be to live on Mexican border in Mexican jurisdiction. Than you can visit SD whenever.

Good points I didn't think of-- can isolating her out of paranoia make everything worse? Maybe she'll stay with you but be depressed as hell.

I wouldn't want to do that to someone.

It isn't even just homesickness. That obviously will become an issue later on. But think about it. In most of these so called ISOLATED COMMUNITIES.... you as a couple will stick out like a sore thumb. That means others will judge , etc. You may not care but be sure some of your neighbors will become nosy and might influence her. They might even attempt to school her and cockblock you. To survive she will assimilate. Immigrant community= SLOW assimilation.

3rd country (Mexico, DR) means homesickness but NO Alphas that can overthrow your rule.

[Sp5]

(10-05-2014 01:12 PM)jimukr104 Wrote:  

(10-05-2014 05:18 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(09-18-2014 09:44 AM)jimukr104 Wrote:  

Sounds like a personal CRACK lol. Although Brooklyn is the 2nd most expensive US county after Manhattan (3 out of the 10 most expensive counties is in Nyc), immigrant communities are imho actually the best since they don't get home sick and nothing unique about your situation because of the diversity. In Montana less opportunity but other issues.

....
Solution might be to live on Mexican border in Mexican jurisdiction. Than you can visit SD whenever.

Good points I didn't think of-- can isolating her out of paranoia make everything worse? Maybe she'll stay with you but be depressed as hell.

I wouldn't want to do that to someone.

It isn't even just homesickness. That obviously will become an issue later on. But think about it. In most of these so called ISOLATED COMMUNITIES.... you as a couple will stick out like a sore thumb. That means others will judge , etc. You may not care but be sure some of your neighbors will become nosy and might influence her. They might even attempt to school her and cockblock you. To survive she will assimilate. Immigrant community= SLOW assimilation.

3rd country (Mexico, DR) means homesickness but NO Alphas that can overthrow your rule.

IKE mentioned living in Italy, there are Filipinos there as there are in most other places. There used to be a big congregation of them hanging out in a park in front of Roma Termini on Sunday afternoons, nowadays I bet you can find a lot of community news on the internet.

OK, I won the bet: http://www.pinoyitalia.com/ That's out of date, though.

but see https://www.facebook.com/pages/Pinoy-Fas...5380779881