[HankRearden]

Everyone loves birthdays: they are a once-a-year opportunity to be reckless and to blame your behaviour on that special day.

That being said, my birthday is coming up in a few weeks and I've run into a problem - the very same one I faced last year.

It is therefore time to make a thread.

My problem is that of the invitees, there are 2 girls I have previously gotten with and 2 more that I want to get with. If I don't invite them they will all be offended, as their friends will be attending; and of course, I can only go back with 1 of them.

Last year, by some birthday miracle, I managed to get with 2 girls I knew in the club and bring back a different one I liked the most. It was a fluke and if I wasn't so drunk it would have been stressful.

This year I don't particularly like any of them the most, but I want to fuck all of them.

Girl #1) Currently has a boyfriend but was the best bang of my life. She's scared to meet up with me because she cheats a lot and knows she will with me (which her friend told me). She is around a 6

Girl #2) My first girlfriend who I'm on good terms with and is openly down to restart things, who is moving to England the weekend before. Around a 7/7.5. If I play things right with her I could have regular, commitment-free sex for the year.

Girl #3) New girl who is really keen to go for drinks and told her friend she thinks I'm hot. Is the smartest girl of the group and seems like an actually decent person. Around a 6.

Girl #4) Girl in my course who always flirts with me and whom I think is down but not entirely sure. She is the best looking of the group (8.5).

All suggestions are welcome.

[SpiderKing]

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but I want to fuck all of them.

fuck all of them.
write up orgy data sheet.

[Nascimento]

I'd say invite all of them and play things by ear. I wouldn't be outcome dependent in this situation.. In other words don't expect to get laid at the end of the night.

Enjoy the time with your good buddies and whatever girls around you.

At worst you'd have a fun story to retell in the future. There is a chance this situation with the girls could go to shit as in your chances with any of them but that would probably make for a good story. And as long as you don't make a big deal of it (or even bring any past history up) they won't either.

And this situation could work in your favour as well. Jealousy and preselection and all that.

Just have an abundant mindset. What's to suggest you won't meet an even better girl that night than your current options?

[Basil Ransom]

Belongs in newbie forum.

[LemonDrink]

They should all do you as a birthday present.

[mbare]

I'd suggest inviting the girl or girls you haven't banged yet...see how it plays out. Add one of them to your regular rotation. There's nothing quite like new pussy.

[argy]

The best laid plans often go astray.

No matter how many times I've tried to plan a social night like this, it never seems to work out with the girl I've targeted. Logistics or something always gets in the way. Don't choose. Invite them all, and chances are you'll end up with a totally different girl anyway. Just have fun and don't stress.

Also, this belongs in the beginner forum. Getting back with your ex is just messy.

[Don]

(09-13-2014 11:23 AM)Nascimento Wrote:  

I'd say invite all of them and play things by ear. I wouldn't be outcome dependent in this situation.. In other words don't expect to get laid at the end of the night.

Enjoy the time with your good buddies and whatever girls around you.

At worst you'd have a fun story to retell in the future. There is a chance this situation with the girls could go to shit as in your chances with any of them but that would probably make for a good story. And as long as you don't make a big deal of it (or even bring any past history up) they won't either.

And this situation could work in your favour as well. Jealousy and preselection and all that.

Just have an abundant mindset. What's to suggest you won't meet an even better girl that night than your current options?

I agree. Invite them all, see what happens. Don't drink too much, just enough to loosen you up, and don't come in with big expectations, failing to do so will always make you either overgame or end up disappointed.

[germanico]

Invite them all. Play enough attention to each one of them so they dont feel ignored, but not so much that they feel preferred.

Go home and have another one waiting you there. Give her a birthday facial.

Or say "Hey, Cathy just texted me and Ill be meeting her later, want to come back with us?" and see which ones do. Ignore any protests/objections/excuses.

"Pete will be driving me home" - Thats ok, Ill drive you home afterwards.

"Whos Cathy?" - Dont worry about that. Go grab your purse.

"Im not like that" - I know. Go grab your purse.

Man, your game, your rules. Its your birthday, live it as you want it, not as if not to offend them. Women are plenty, theres only one of you.