I fucked a lot of single moms in the last couple years of my teens and throughout my 20s.
Now in my early 30s, I don't have much patience for them. Their kid is their number one priority, which can cause logistical problems - not a huge deal if you have a full schedule, but organizing a night can sometimes mean planning around them, which isn't something I like to do. Though of course they'll make the time if they dig you.
Just the whole idea of them having a lot more on their plate than you introduces a whole new dynamic, whether they try to stop it from doing so or not. Me, I like to be straight up and am not into leading some girl on that has kids, or any other girl, so I usually turn these kinds of broads down. I've even told them straight up that they just had more on their plate than I did and that I was just out to have fun, etc. I've been thanked for the honesty in the past, even if I'd banged already.
And the big deal killer for me these days is the stretch mark factor. It's a real turn off for me. I have a move now in bars here where some girl will start talking to me, and if I'm on the fence about her, I pat her stomach and say, "Have baby?"
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Obviously only good for low-class bar chicks and whores. By some miracle, it hasn't gotten me slapped yet, and at least it helps me screen.
That said, anywhere in Southeast Asia would be a goldmine for a guy who wants some easy-to-bang MILFs. A lot of really hot ones out here, and the local guys are really iffy about dating women with kids, so many of these girls are eager for a foreigner. The downside is that, given the culture, they are very much on the lookout for a breadwinner, whereas an American woman can do the independent single mom thing and actually pull it off well if she has a decent head on her shoulders.
To give a bit of credit where it's due, I've met a lot of really cool single moms. Yeah, some are dumb as fuck and were the worst decision makers growing up, but others really have a good head on their shoulders. And I don't mean a cool as in will do anything to please you and win you over cool - though you most certainly find that too - some of them just have a real collected, balanced frame to them and are very reasonable, straight-up, and no-bullshit women.
I suspect this is from facing some tough challenges at a young age and having to grow up quick. Or maybe because my brothers and I were raised by and around single moms so I understand them?
And they'll cook you breakfast and make sure you're taken care of before you excuse yourself - they're nurterers by necessity. I won't lie, when I was younger, there were even a couple of them I thought of staying with. I guess, once again, that came from being raised in such a household. An older one even lived with me for about a year when I was 19, 20, and I really bonded with her children.
Unfortunately, she hung them over my head when I dumped her and would even have them call me and leave messages when I wouldn't answer her calls..."BB why won't you talk to me?" So there's that...She was a psycho though.
As for the puddy, sometimes it's all smashed up and a big too big for ole BB jr, but I've come across plenty of MILFs who were tight and right.
And of course some of them do just want to be shown a good time and get fucked.
Breast-milk is something every player should try once, getting interrupted by a kid while having sex is almost as bad as getting a chihahua's nose in your ass while laying the root, and one 5 or 6-year old kid even turned to me and told me he was going to kill me when his mom left me with him while she ran outside for a bit.
TL;DR: Adventures in MILF-land. Never a dull moment.
Beyond All Seas
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
