[oregonziggy]

Ok I go back to my home state a couple times a year. Well I have been meeting up with an old girlfriend from high school and we hook up for a night or two.

So we chat back and forth a little throughout the year.

Fluff crap about work and dating. So I am planning to make a trip back over the holidays. She is cool lets meet up.

So then she says one of the guys I am dating and I decided to be exclusive. He seems like a good guy, want to give it a try. Just date him.

I reply oh cool maybe we can still meet for a drink?
Assuming rightfully so, she is off the hook up market.

She replies "why you don't want to hook up?" I reply well from what you just told me, I assumed it was off the table"

She says this "you have special pussy privileges." adds "we will also need to get a hotel"

I wish I could say it surprised me.

[DarkTriad]

(09-06-2014 10:33 AM)oregonziggy Wrote:  

Ok I go back to my home state a couple times a year. Well I have been meeting up with an old girlfriend from high school and we hook up for a night or two.

So we chat back and forth a little throughout the year.

Fluff crap about work and dating. So I am planning to make a trip back over the holidays. She is cool lets meet up.

So then she says one of the guys I am dating and I decided to be exclusive. He seems like a good guy, want to give it a try. Just date him.

I reply oh cool maybe we can still meet for a drink?
Assuming rightfully so, she is off the hook up market.

She replies "why you don't want to hook up?" I reply well from what you just told me, I assumed it was off the table"

She says this "you have special pussy privileges." adds "we will also need to get a hotel"

I wish I could say it surprised me.

LOL, her idea of "exclusive" is to be exclusively banged by all her favorite bad boy ex-boyfriends...awesome.

[Dr. Howard]

I have to stop reading this forum or I'm going to be Ron Swansoning my computer one of these days

[Travesty]

Haha this is along the same line as my reaction to girls with guy "friends".

I would never date a girl with guy friends unless they were omegas. And I would especially never date a girl that is in contact with exes.

I'd lay that out before ever getting exclusive and dump her when she crosses the line.

If you aren't good enough to fulfill a girl's need for male attention why commit to her? It's insanity.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

Welcome to the Secret Society, where pussy is not given after 3 dates and promises of a Minivan with 1,5 kids.

http://www.bristollair.com/2008/inner-ga...t-society/

[Veloce]

Meh, not saying that women are trustworthy, but I'm not sure we need threads like these that from an outsiders perspective just makes us look like hurt, embittered men.

Yes we all have first hand experience with cheating sluts, and I'm not trying to make a case for NAWALT here, but to conclude that another reason to never trust any women again is because you're nailing a "committed" one doesn't sit well.

[Beyond Borders]

^ Yep, let's be realistic - there are committed men doing scandalous shit too. This isn't a gender issue; it's a people issue.

[AnonymousBosch]

^ Oh, fuck that. Why are about the approval of people who will only hear misogyny no matter how innocuous the statement is? (See Rationalisation 4 below.)

I'd argue that the majority of women are entirely predictable creatures and respond in the same manner if you put them in the exact same situation as another one, which is why I have four predictive rationalisations for female behaviour that I believe are ironclad:

1. I deserve everything I ever want.

2. What's the least amount of effort I can expend to get what I deserve?

3. It's only wrong when other people do it.

4. What's the least amount of effort I can expend to defuse criticism or punishment of my socially-transgressive choices?

This doesn't come from a place of bitterness, or being 'hurt' by women, but 43 years of repeated observations with every woman that I've known and her interactions with her peers, children and partners. As such, I don't expect a woman to not act like a woman, and they rarely disappoint.

The ones who aren't ALT? They're the ones who have emotionally-matured past a high school mindset, or have driven minds to work hard to achieve their goals, or built emotional resilience through hardship. They're the ones that surprise me. There were definitely more of them 20 years back.

[Captain Gh]

You're gettin some pussy and that's great, but keep in mind that you're getting it on HER terms. Never forget that fact.

I'm mentioning this since you felt compelled to make a thread about it, which automatically lets us know that deep down you feel some discomfort about knowing that you could be the one being cheated on one day by some broad!

There's a really really small chink in your inner game armor, so work on it while you keep ramming this bitch up in the asshole! That way when she'll bounce you'll be singing bye bye bitch and another one!!

[662LetGo]

(09-06-2014 12:24 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Haha this is along the same line as my reaction to girls with guy "friends".

I would never date a girl with guy friends unless they were omegas. And I would especially never date a girl that is in contact with exes.

I'd lay that out before ever getting exclusive and dump her when she crosses the line.

If you aren't good enough to fulfill a girl's need for male attention why commit to her? It's insanity.

Excellent post & I feel the same way BUT:

One man can't give a woman all the attention she CRAVES just like one woman can't give a man all the sex that he CRAVES -- quite the dilemma for both genders..

That's why I haven't been in an exclusive relationship in 8 years & probably never will again.. No matter what you do for/give to a female, it's never enough.. They're insatiable & they always "choose the serpent." (H/T to Ace)

[oregonziggy]

She is only a hook up like twice a year. If she lived in my city, I doubt I would give her a second look.

My point was more at how easy she justifies cheating.

Why commit ever? I did that and no way ever again. I know women too well LOL

[runsonmagic]

(09-06-2014 01:53 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

Welcome to the Secret Society, where pussy is not given after 3 dates and promises of a Minivan with 1,5 kids.

http://www.bristollair.com/2008/inner-ga...t-society/

That post was light-years ahead of it's time. Owen Cook's "Secret Society" was basically the feminine imperative by a different name.

[HawkWrites]

She was verbally throwing herself at you, lol.

The hamster is a powerful entity!

[Vitriol]

(09-06-2014 04:08 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

I'd argue that the majority of women are entirely predictable creatures and respond in the same manner if you put them in the exact same situation as another one, which is why I have four predictive rationalisations for female behaviour that I believe are ironclad:

1. I deserve everything I ever want.

2. What's the least amount of effort I can expend to get what I deserve?

3. It's only wrong when other people do it.

4. What's the least amount of effort I can expend to defuse criticism or punishment of my socially-transgressive choices?

This doesn't come from a place of bitterness, or being 'hurt' by women, but 43 years of repeated observations with every woman that I've known and her interactions with her peers, children and partners. As such, I don't expect a woman to not act like a woman, and they rarely disappoint.

This is a very important point and it gets to the heart of why relationships are becoming a horrible investment for men in the smartphone / social media era.

We know that it's very easy for girls to get dick on demand with these technologies, and it's fairly common for women to do things like what was described in the original post. Why would you want to be the sucker who is committed to the girl and paying for her shit when other guys are hitting that pussy on the side with little or no investment?

So we need to ask ourselves why we would ever get serious with a girl when they're prone to get some easy dick outside of their main relationship and rationalize a reason why it's okay? I'm sure I'm not the only person on here who has overheard female co-workers talk about how they would never cheat on their current boyfriend, they talk about some hookup with a different guy a few weeks or months later while they're still in the same relationship. This isn't an emotional issue or a bitterness issue, but merely describing a serious pitfall that any man will inevitably have to deal with in today's world.

[ddjembe mutombo]

(09-06-2014 12:24 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  

Haha this is along the same line as my reaction to girls with guy "friends".

I would never date a girl with guy friends unless they were omegas. And I would especially never date a girl that is in contact with exes.

I'd lay that out before ever getting exclusive and dump her when she crosses the line.

If you aren't good enough to fulfill a girl's need for male attention why commit to her? It's insanity.

Truth.

I cut all my exes out of my life this year. It was just easy pussy on the other end of the line. However, it is regrettable pussy. You hang out and hook up, and they think you want to get back together. If I fail at getting pussy on night, I shouldn't have a consolidation prize. Complete failure is an important part of getting good at the craft of game.

Good note on the guy friends. You can always tell which ones have banged a girl just by watching how they interact. The sausage providers are always aloof to the girl's presence.