After 5 years in NYC I feel that night game is dead in the city that never sleeps. I have gone out in every neighborhood of Manhattan (won't speak for the other boroughs) and have gotten nowhere for as long as I can remember with cold night game approaches. This includes dive bars, dance clubs, lounges, etc.
I have a large circle of friends here from school, work etc. Some of my friends are self-professed players. I believed their stories about banging 4 girls in 1 weekend or getting BJs in the park. But what I didn't realize until now is that all these bangs are coming from internet game. NYC is overrun by internet game at this point. My friends barely have the balls to do a cold approach in a bar but can get tons of ass from OKC and the like. I have had a lot of success with it myself lately. But I still go out and approach at night.
I usually go out in jeans and a black v-neck, use the "you look like you are having the most fun of anybody here" opener, and try to get girls to move to another bar with me or to my place if I am feeling them. At the least, I go for a number. The opener draws girls in for a bit, but for as long as I can remember, I stall out a minute after the opener 90% of the time.
What I want to know from those on this forum with NYC experience is what is working for you.
What neighborhoods and bars give you the most success?
What clothes and style gives you the most success?
What openers and routines give you the most success?
How do you select the best targets?
I feel like most people will just say my game is weak. But I definitely put in the effort and feel like I have an above average ability to ramble. Looking forward to this input.
I have a large circle of friends here from school, work etc. Some of my friends are self-professed players. I believed their stories about banging 4 girls in 1 weekend or getting BJs in the park. But what I didn't realize until now is that all these bangs are coming from internet game. NYC is overrun by internet game at this point. My friends barely have the balls to do a cold approach in a bar but can get tons of ass from OKC and the like. I have had a lot of success with it myself lately. But I still go out and approach at night.
I usually go out in jeans and a black v-neck, use the "you look like you are having the most fun of anybody here" opener, and try to get girls to move to another bar with me or to my place if I am feeling them. At the least, I go for a number. The opener draws girls in for a bit, but for as long as I can remember, I stall out a minute after the opener 90% of the time.
What I want to know from those on this forum with NYC experience is what is working for you.
What neighborhoods and bars give you the most success?
What clothes and style gives you the most success?
What openers and routines give you the most success?
How do you select the best targets?
I feel like most people will just say my game is weak. But I definitely put in the effort and feel like I have an above average ability to ramble. Looking forward to this input.