[speakeasy]

I'm relatively new to Roosh's blog and have probably only read about 10% of all the stuff he has since the beginning. I think of what I read, today's was one of his most interesting post I've read.

It brings up interesting questions. Is this going to be inevitable result for anyone on the path of PUA? Will you eventually reach a point where you feel you had enough? I always thought that the quest for new ass was insatiable and that every guy would want to be like Hugh Hefner if he could and bang new women until he's a wrinkly old man. But maybe there is a limit.

I read The Game by Neil Strauss aka "Style" a couple years back and it seemed like he got to the point that Roosh was entering now. He started to look at the PUA community with a different eye and noticed that none of these knew anything about how to have an actual relationship. These guys seemed soulless with no higher purpose other than getting between some woman's legs. At that point, Style found the woman he was looking for and began a true relationship.

I think in addition to this stuff, you have to have some other purpose in life, or some other meaning. Some find it with religion, some find it with helping the 3rd world, some find it in volunteering, or having a family, or making some great contribution to the world, or fighting against some dictator or whatever. People can't base their whole life around endlessly chasing after a pink hole. We have to do something meaningful as well. To feel like we are contributing.

It'll be interesting to watch what this new revelation leads Roosh to do from here.

[twigman]

These are big questions for us all Speakeasy...

For me, this is about bigger things than the panty gates.

I think one big gain I am making is gaining a social ease in situations I previously found terrifying. I was paralytic talking to girls in my teens, and made some bad mistakes in my 20s, including a 6 month relationship with a girl who never even kissed me, but just kept me dangling on a string. I wish to be relaxed and comfortable in social situations, being able to have fun with banter and flirting, and to have a choice of partner; rather than just going with the 1st girl that picks you (which some of my married friends had happen to them).

The side benefits are various: the social value of being able to charm and attract people; to move beyond the approval seeking behaviour we have drummed into us; to think about what we want in a society which generally tells us to achieve. How many men would stop working insane hours if they knew they didn't need that to find a woman? I mean, alot of my peers have seen status as the way to happiness, including attracting partners. How terrible is that, to rely on money as a way to get you through life. Thats real despair.

[broken]

I think you took the wrong lesson from the Game.

As to the young god Roosh, he's bored.
He's been successful and now has to find something else to do.

No more, no less. When all of you reach success, you'll come to the same cross roads.

[mlucasone]

Nature and circumstance left Roosh unsucessful with women. He made the conscious decision to change fate and not only succeed, but master it to the point of boredom (self-efficacy). He is a god amongst men.

[Bravo22]

Once a dream is realized it is destroyed.