Hey guys, new to everything and wanted to share my stories of my first month trying game. Thanks to all the wonderful advice, my life has changed dramatically. I feel like the world is my playground every time I step outside and it feels fantastic. Here's where I'm at now; I approach many girls with confidence, my body looks great, and my game is sharpening. My intellectual curiosity has skyrocketed and I'm reading like crazy. The best part about it: Every night I have gone out this semester, at two weeks in, I have pulled a girl, even if it didn't result in a bang. I have so many numbers I can't keep track of any of it, but ending them in notches is something I need to work on. Thanks Roosh.
I'll post my stories here as a way to organize them and track my progress. Any feedback is greatly appreciated!
The Journey:
First, had to get rid of the girlfriend of 2.5 years, which was messy, as she lives across the street at school. I didn't have a ton of confidence but hit the gym, approached, got some numbers, had a few girls come over and got several make outs but resistance with anything further. Banged one girl from Tinder which got the confidence back up I suppose.
One experience changed me: There was a girl in my summer chemistry lab (HB 8, from Romania) who I had been "crushing on" (beta as fuck), and who I never had never spoken to. I thought she was too good for me, it wouldn't work out, so why try. Then, I discovered the manosphere.
I grew some balls, talked to her, and suggested we study. So then she says fuck studying and she just wanted to hang out.. I was new to the area so she wanted to go to a coffee shop where we had tea. I thought it was all for nothing because she showed zero signs of physical interest- zero eye contact, etc. Then I started rolling with my stories of gallivanting in Chicago the previous weekend and talked about some crazy times at Bonnaroo (she's a hippy type). All the sudden she was really interested, so I rolled with this momentum and said we should go back to her house.
While we were in the car on the way there, she pulls out a bowl and some weed and wants to smoke. I used to smoke but hardly ever do anymore so I have zero tolerance. Bottom line, I was stoned. We went into her basement and turned on some movie and my game was GONE. I was so awkward, even shattered a glass. Couldn't bring myself to go for more than an awkward make out. Anyone else have similar experience with weed? I was sure I had ruined the entire mission...
The following week after class we talked for a bit, I played it cool and didn't rush a second hang out but I did grab her arm before she got into her car to leave and kissed her. Summer classes end, she's busy, and hardly texting me back. It wasn't looking good, but the following week when we were both finally free she came to the apartment I had just moved into. We had a few drinks, put on a movie (Eyes Wide Shut), and I got the notch.
She actually goes to a different school 2 hours away so it was the perfect situation for me to score and move on as the fall semester starts. So she comes over Thursday night again because I told her I'd show her a good time before she left. We pre game at my apartment, I bang her twice, then we proceed to get pretty drunk and head to my favorite bar. We're getting drinks, and I see my ex girlfriend sit down a seat over from us so I grab her and we head to the dance floor. We had a really good time but we get back to my apartment and she just starts balling her eyes out.. I was beyond confused, because we were having a blast. So she's crying and I'm trying to figure out WTF was wrong and she says that a girl at the bar grabbed her arm and said, "he talks to a lot of girls". I mean this girl was so distraught over this that I didn't get laid that night. She always seemed a bit distant but she was claiming she had feelings for me and called me an asshole. Woke all my roommates up at like 3 am. I even had to beg her to just stay the night and not drive home (she was hammered). Banged her again in the morning and she left for school.
The whole ordeal with her was just bizarre but it feels good to get a couple summer notches under my belt before the fall semester. Still in the transition from LTR guy to player.. It'll be a long journey but I'm off to a decent start I suppose. Thanks for all the help and wisdom on these forums guys! Should be a great year.
I'll post my stories here as a way to organize them and track my progress. Any feedback is greatly appreciated!
The Journey:
First, had to get rid of the girlfriend of 2.5 years, which was messy, as she lives across the street at school. I didn't have a ton of confidence but hit the gym, approached, got some numbers, had a few girls come over and got several make outs but resistance with anything further. Banged one girl from Tinder which got the confidence back up I suppose.
One experience changed me: There was a girl in my summer chemistry lab (HB 8, from Romania) who I had been "crushing on" (beta as fuck), and who I never had never spoken to. I thought she was too good for me, it wouldn't work out, so why try. Then, I discovered the manosphere.
I grew some balls, talked to her, and suggested we study. So then she says fuck studying and she just wanted to hang out.. I was new to the area so she wanted to go to a coffee shop where we had tea. I thought it was all for nothing because she showed zero signs of physical interest- zero eye contact, etc. Then I started rolling with my stories of gallivanting in Chicago the previous weekend and talked about some crazy times at Bonnaroo (she's a hippy type). All the sudden she was really interested, so I rolled with this momentum and said we should go back to her house.
While we were in the car on the way there, she pulls out a bowl and some weed and wants to smoke. I used to smoke but hardly ever do anymore so I have zero tolerance. Bottom line, I was stoned. We went into her basement and turned on some movie and my game was GONE. I was so awkward, even shattered a glass. Couldn't bring myself to go for more than an awkward make out. Anyone else have similar experience with weed? I was sure I had ruined the entire mission...
The following week after class we talked for a bit, I played it cool and didn't rush a second hang out but I did grab her arm before she got into her car to leave and kissed her. Summer classes end, she's busy, and hardly texting me back. It wasn't looking good, but the following week when we were both finally free she came to the apartment I had just moved into. We had a few drinks, put on a movie (Eyes Wide Shut), and I got the notch.
She actually goes to a different school 2 hours away so it was the perfect situation for me to score and move on as the fall semester starts. So she comes over Thursday night again because I told her I'd show her a good time before she left. We pre game at my apartment, I bang her twice, then we proceed to get pretty drunk and head to my favorite bar. We're getting drinks, and I see my ex girlfriend sit down a seat over from us so I grab her and we head to the dance floor. We had a really good time but we get back to my apartment and she just starts balling her eyes out.. I was beyond confused, because we were having a blast. So she's crying and I'm trying to figure out WTF was wrong and she says that a girl at the bar grabbed her arm and said, "he talks to a lot of girls". I mean this girl was so distraught over this that I didn't get laid that night. She always seemed a bit distant but she was claiming she had feelings for me and called me an asshole. Woke all my roommates up at like 3 am. I even had to beg her to just stay the night and not drive home (she was hammered). Banged her again in the morning and she left for school.
The whole ordeal with her was just bizarre but it feels good to get a couple summer notches under my belt before the fall semester. Still in the transition from LTR guy to player.. It'll be a long journey but I'm off to a decent start I suppose. Thanks for all the help and wisdom on these forums guys! Should be a great year.