Quote: (07-24-2011 06:18 PM)speakeasy Wrote:
Quote: (07-23-2011 11:21 AM)flashbang Wrote:
Does anyone have an idea for an optimized cs message for creating pre-selection? At the moment I'm using this kind of template:
Hey "her name",
Welcome to "Country or city!" How's life treating you in "Country or city" so far?
Best Wishes,
"your name"
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It's simple and to the point but maybe it lacks firepower. Just copy paste this because since most girls don't answer there's no point in wasting time with individualized messages. Some girls don't even log on while in the country anyway.
P.s. I sometimes write something wacky as the title just to get their attention. Hello "name" would hardly stand out from the other messages she probably receives.
Do you have any ideas on a basic template that could garner more responses?
Thanks,
Flash
Is there a reason you want to hit up random girls on CS for dates as opposed to just doing the same on a dating site where you already know the women are actually single and looking for dates? Quality and Quantity wise you'd have better options with the later if you insist on hitting girls up online.
Yes there are a couple of reasons. I live on a small "party" island where people come and go all the time. Unlike say some American city where people who make a profile are residents and may live there for many years, people who visit here are often just passing through or not sticking around for long. With a dating site it's hard to tell who's actually on the island. With cs you can see in real time who's nearby and contact them.
Also I've found that dating sites tend to not only attract riff raff and ogres, they also try to charge you just for sending a message or viewing a profile.
It's not that I insist on hitting up girls online. It's only a small fraction of my game, the bulk of which is daygame. I try to maximise my opportunities by diversifying my ways of approaching girls and online is one such way.
If you know of a good dating site available worldwide that doesn't charge users to use it, I'm all ears.