I've been meaning to talk about this subject for the past few days, and the thread about making a girl be exclusive to you made me realize I needed to share my thoughts on this particular subject immediately.
First, let's get into what is your job and what is not your job.
Your job is to go after the women you want to be in your life. When you do this, you introduce her to your world, you communicate to her via actions that there is a place for her it in, and then the choice becomes to hers as to if she wants to be a part of it.
Don't waste your time on females who aren't giving you all indications that they are down.
To be in your world, you need 100% cooperation. That doesn't mean she has to be available when you want her to be, but she should be open to doing things with you that you want to share with her, and when plans are made to do that, if something comes up, then the onus is on her to make it right.
Part of your job is having a code and a set of rules that can't be broken, if they are, game is over, she's out of your would.
Your job is not to seek exclusivity from her.
Why?
Because you can't control her. She's going to do what she wants to do regardless. If she wants to see multiple guys for a variety of reasons, that's what she wants to do, you can't make her do otherwise.
She has to want you. If she wants you, then she will be exclusive to you, because she understands that if she's not, then she can't have you, and having you is of the utmost importance to her.
What you should be focusing on is your desire to be exclusive.
Gentlemen, your exclusivity is earned. It's not granted just because she expects it since you two on some level are having some type of relationship.
You are a desired man. Other women besides her would like to be a part of your world. They would like to have their minds stimulated by things that actually matter. They'd like to learn new things, have new experiences, touch your body, feel you cum inside of them, just bond with you.
If a woman wants you to only do these things with and for her, then it is her job to lock you down.
Through actions, she has to demonstrate without a doubt that you don't need another woman, that she's willing to take care of the things that matter to you, so that you don't have to hit the streets to find other options.
If she can't do it, then she's just not that bitch, either because she's just not good enough to be, or she just doesn't want to be.
Just remember you, the man, is her greatest accomplishment. She can have all the girlfriends in the world, but those bitches can't give her children.
Those bitches can't give her the lifestyle and family she's always wanted.
Those bitches won't carry her casket the day she's buried.
Hell, those bitches will throw her aside as soon as they find a man like that for themselves.
Modern society has taught these women that they are all-powerful, that they can be and do anything that we can, and they can if they really want to, but while these women are busting ass to get degrees, careers, money, etc. they want their greatest accomplishment to just be handed to them. Moreover, they want it to jump through a million hoops just so it can give itself to them.
Fuck that noise.
If she can earn all that bullshit, then she can earn you too.
Make her.
First, let's get into what is your job and what is not your job.
Your job is to go after the women you want to be in your life. When you do this, you introduce her to your world, you communicate to her via actions that there is a place for her it in, and then the choice becomes to hers as to if she wants to be a part of it.
Don't waste your time on females who aren't giving you all indications that they are down.
To be in your world, you need 100% cooperation. That doesn't mean she has to be available when you want her to be, but she should be open to doing things with you that you want to share with her, and when plans are made to do that, if something comes up, then the onus is on her to make it right.
Part of your job is having a code and a set of rules that can't be broken, if they are, game is over, she's out of your would.
Your job is not to seek exclusivity from her.
Why?
Because you can't control her. She's going to do what she wants to do regardless. If she wants to see multiple guys for a variety of reasons, that's what she wants to do, you can't make her do otherwise.
She has to want you. If she wants you, then she will be exclusive to you, because she understands that if she's not, then she can't have you, and having you is of the utmost importance to her.
What you should be focusing on is your desire to be exclusive.
Gentlemen, your exclusivity is earned. It's not granted just because she expects it since you two on some level are having some type of relationship.
You are a desired man. Other women besides her would like to be a part of your world. They would like to have their minds stimulated by things that actually matter. They'd like to learn new things, have new experiences, touch your body, feel you cum inside of them, just bond with you.
If a woman wants you to only do these things with and for her, then it is her job to lock you down.
Through actions, she has to demonstrate without a doubt that you don't need another woman, that she's willing to take care of the things that matter to you, so that you don't have to hit the streets to find other options.
If she can't do it, then she's just not that bitch, either because she's just not good enough to be, or she just doesn't want to be.
Just remember you, the man, is her greatest accomplishment. She can have all the girlfriends in the world, but those bitches can't give her children.
Those bitches can't give her the lifestyle and family she's always wanted.
Those bitches won't carry her casket the day she's buried.
Hell, those bitches will throw her aside as soon as they find a man like that for themselves.
Modern society has taught these women that they are all-powerful, that they can be and do anything that we can, and they can if they really want to, but while these women are busting ass to get degrees, careers, money, etc. they want their greatest accomplishment to just be handed to them. Moreover, they want it to jump through a million hoops just so it can give itself to them.
Fuck that noise.
If she can earn all that bullshit, then she can earn you too.
Make her.
