[visceralbliss]

Obviously it's difficult to teach a girl to give you a BJ since you (hopefully) have no actual experience.

What are some surefire ways to teach her to do all of it to your liking without discouraging her or making her think you're really picky? How do you make it enjoyable for her besides it just being an opportunity to please you?

Watching porno comes to mind but it kinda kills the mood for us.

[tenderman100]

(03-14-2011 04:09 AM)visceralbliss Wrote:  

Obviously it's difficult to teach a girl to give you a BJ since you (hopefully) have no actual experience.

What are some surefire ways to teach her to do all of it to your liking without discouraging her or making her think you're really picky? How do you make it enjoyable for her besides it just being an opportunity to please you?

Watching porno comes to mind but it kinda kills the mood for us.

After many years and many BJs, I am convinced that it is an innate talent -- some are great at it, others not so good. One woman I had told me she gave the best BJs...and she was right. I don't even KNOW what she did -- she just took it in her mouth and the sensation was just beyond what I have ever experienced, like sticking your member in a warm electric wet cushion where the sensation was intense, total, and similar all over.

Others...well, don't now how to shield their teeth, can't get it down far...just not very good at it.

What you can do is guide her AS she is doing it -- "suck the shaft, put the head against the cheek, suck the head only, spit on it, pump with your hand while you suck" -- direction in the act is a way get her creative juices flowing (assuming she has any).

Don't EVER tell her she's bad at it...or critique performance afterwards -- unless you want to dump her right there.

[Gmac]

I've managed to hone the art of sexual criticism. Not sure how to really break it down, but the better you are at things (i.e. getting her off), the more receptive she'll typically be. Some girls are too crazy that I wouldn't really consider criticizing, but most are OK with learning what they are doing wrong.

[UgSlayer]

Girls are very sensitive about their sexual performance. Try having sex with a girl and not busting a nut. They get neurotic. One even let me take the condom off and bust inside of her while not on the pill. I know. Stupid, but I was a poor student and she was a few years older and working (no fear of being put in the provider zone), so we just went to get plan B the next day, which she paid for.

Anyway, point is, you have to be very gentle, as most girls don't take criticism well in things that aren't important to them. So be like "yeah that's so sexy, try xyz." I'll never be forceful or dominant when a girl goes down on me, only when I'm fucking her. I never command when I'm getting a BJ unless I'm straight fucking her face.

If you like to get your balls licked, lift up your shaft and she'll automatically know what to do. Guide her on how to do it, but throw in a lot of "yeah baby" and "let me see your eyes". Lift up her hair so you can see her face. Be gentle. Girls have told me that they feel like my personal porn star. You should make them feel like one, and they'll perform like one.

My sex game is way different than my receiving bj game, though. Almost total opposite.

[Tuthmosis]

(08-17-2011 01:06 PM)UgSlayer Wrote:  

If you like to get your balls licked, lift up your shaft and she'll automatically know what to do.

A fine piece of advice. I will try this out.

[Giovonny]

Just tell her what to do.

(08-17-2011 01:06 PM)UgSlayer Wrote:  

Guide her on how to do it, but throw in a lot of "yeah baby" and "let me see your eyes". Lift up her hair so you can see her face. Be gentle. Girls have told me that they feel like my personal porn star. You should make them feel like one, and they'll perform like one.

Ya, thats about what I do. And, I challenge her to get better.

They should want to please you.