[Turnaround]

All the game advice I read seems to assume that a reasonable dialogue can be carried on between you and your target. But typically, the kinds of bars hot chicks go to blast music at an insane decibel level, to the point where screaming in each other's ears is necessary just to have a single word understood, and any semblance of nuanced conversation is totally infeasible.

How does one game in such an environment? In the past I've gone ultra simple and just opened with "wanna dance?" But as I get older and go to [slightly] classier places, there isn't even much dancing going on. I'm totally at a loss for how to approach and escalate when conversation is painfully labored and must be kept to a minimum.

[hervens]

Nightclubs are great because it allows you to build physical intimacy a lot faster than in other venues. What I'll do is Ill stay next to the bar facing outwards, and whenever a girl comes by to order a drink, Ill just say something like "Hey, you look like you having fun". All I'm looking for at this point is enough poi's from her part to know whether or not it's worth escalating.

If she seems interested, I'll ask her maybe like 3 or 4 more questions, such as "Do you come here often", and "What's your name" and finally, Ill throw in "Would you like to dance for a bit". What you want to do then, is do a frond grind with her, and try to go for the makeout asap.

And well, if you reached that point you'll probably figure out what to do next.

[silviophonic]

Yeah, this is a bit of an issue for me as well. I do go to clubs, but I work most of my 'magic' verbally, so if it's deafening and we're shouting at each other, a lot of my 'game' is lost in translation. It's not impossible though. I like to find clubs where there is multiple areas, so you can bounce the girl to a quieter spot. I think it's also about having a high energy vibe and learning more dance floor game, both of which I need to improve on a bit.

[Carlos100]

(07-06-2014 08:13 PM)silviophonic Wrote:  

Yeah, this is a bit of an issue for me as well. I do go to clubs, but I work most of my 'magic' verbally, so if it's deafening and we're shouting at each other, a lot of my 'game' is lost in translation. It's not impossible though. I like to find clubs where there is multiple areas, so you can bounce the girl to a quieter spot. I think it's also about having a high energy vibe and learning more dance floor game, both of which I need to improve on a bit.

Wear these earplugs. They will filter out much of the loud music, but allow human voice to pass through at almost normal volume. With the clear stems, people won't be able to see that you are wearing them in a dark bar or club, so you won't look like a geek. I have field tested these earplugs and they work as advertised.

[WestIndianArchie]

This isn't even newb board status.
You need to read some books on game.
Do a google search at the very least.

WIA

[XXL]

Go to http://www.howtoga.me and search for "loud clubs". Done

[zombyz]

nightclub bible - christian mcqueen