I got pm'ed by a guy, asking about escorts—here's my reply, if anyone else finds it useful:
What I meant was, hiring escorts is the easiest way to get rid of oneitis and fear/anxiety about approaching/bedding women.
Also, escorts are a great way to improve your sexual performance. You don't care what an escort thinks, so you can experiment.
I think that escorts are a convenience. That is, you don't have to invest any time in them, and after you're done they go away. (The Hollywood film producer Don Simpson famously said, "You don't pay a hooker to come have sex with you—you pay her to leave after sex.")
The convenience of prostitution allows you to a., devote more time to things that matter to you, and b., allows you to get better at the sex act without worrying about offending who you're with.
Just remember a few simple rules about escorts. One, never ever fall for a hooker; any sweet talk she throws your way is just so as to get repeat business—she does not give a shit about you except for your wallet. Two, never tell people—especially women—that you hire hookers; you'll get a bad rep very quickly. Three, never go to the same escort twice in a row—mix it up, precisely so that you don't fall for any one of them. Four, you get what you pay for, so if you're going to hire an escort, don't stint.
Finally, whenever some girl has your head in a twist, that is the time to go visit your friendly neighborhood escort. Roll her, and then your head will be unscrewed of the machinations of whatever honey you're trying to bang. Remember, women dangle sex in front of men to get them to do what they want. Ready access to escorts short-circuits women's strategy. If you're banging a ten—escort or not—then the 7 or 8 won't be such a big deal.
Just my 2¢. Go with God, son.
OneIdea
Quote:[name redacted] Wrote:
Hey,
I've been reading and saving some of your posts. Thanks for providing the forum with such insightful wisdom.
One question for you
I'm 23 and I've never banged an escort before. Its something at the back of my mind and I'm not sure if I should start or not.
Right now I'm at 19 notches with girls that I'm frankly not satisfied with although quality has gone up consistently over the years. I've gamed hot girls before but have fucked it up one way or another, before by getting too clingy, now by being too much of an asshole I think.
The only reason I would want to hire an escort would be to bang the hottest girl I can without putting in too much work.
What has your experience been with escorts?
When did you first bang out an escort?
Do you still use them?
What did you mean by "to get rid of Oneitis and fear of women."
What I meant was, hiring escorts is the easiest way to get rid of oneitis and fear/anxiety about approaching/bedding women.
Also, escorts are a great way to improve your sexual performance. You don't care what an escort thinks, so you can experiment.
I think that escorts are a convenience. That is, you don't have to invest any time in them, and after you're done they go away. (The Hollywood film producer Don Simpson famously said, "You don't pay a hooker to come have sex with you—you pay her to leave after sex.")
The convenience of prostitution allows you to a., devote more time to things that matter to you, and b., allows you to get better at the sex act without worrying about offending who you're with.
Just remember a few simple rules about escorts. One, never ever fall for a hooker; any sweet talk she throws your way is just so as to get repeat business—she does not give a shit about you except for your wallet. Two, never tell people—especially women—that you hire hookers; you'll get a bad rep very quickly. Three, never go to the same escort twice in a row—mix it up, precisely so that you don't fall for any one of them. Four, you get what you pay for, so if you're going to hire an escort, don't stint.
Finally, whenever some girl has your head in a twist, that is the time to go visit your friendly neighborhood escort. Roll her, and then your head will be unscrewed of the machinations of whatever honey you're trying to bang. Remember, women dangle sex in front of men to get them to do what they want. Ready access to escorts short-circuits women's strategy. If you're banging a ten—escort or not—then the 7 or 8 won't be such a big deal.
Just my 2¢. Go with God, son.
OneIdea
