[GSF7]

Hey all - I'm new to the forum.

I've had my fair share of success with girls, but I'd say 75-90% of it comes from Social Circle. If I have a clear common point with a girl, I have no problem talking to them, and often banging them. This may be because of my looks or size, I'm not sure.

My problem is I lock up in a situation where I don't know many girls through other people. I'd like to become much better at daygame/nightgame approaching girls I don't know at all.

Has anyone made this transition, what skills are transferrable? Is it best to try and avoid social circle game? I wouldn't say I'm a noob to game, just the cold meeting of new girls.

[game_ethic]

Belongs in the newbie section. Check out Bang and Day Bang by Roosh, in that order, and go out and approach.

[Travesty]

I'm the opposite and feel constrained by social circle usually.

So as someone who naturally goes the way you want the number one thing in my opinion to start with is going out alone in the day or night time with the strict purpose of gaming girls.

I think you need to cut that safety net of having your crew around you with warm introductions to get good at starting cold. You need to kill the notion it is weird to be out alone going aftet strange pussy or you will always end up running back into warm embrace of social circle.

There are lots of debates about going out and having a good time vs. going out with the killer mindset. Yes I have less "fun" in the killer mindset, but I also think it is more intense and exciting and boy do I progress my Game faster when I practice this. Social circle is more about being laid back and spreading fun. Cold is more about noticing opportunities and attacking fult tilt when you get the chance.

[Saweeep]

(07-02-2014 01:05 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  

Belongs in the newbie section. Check out Bang and Day Bang by Roosh, in that order, and go out and approach.

Yup.

Consume the material and then practice.

There isn't a lot more advice to give right now other than just do it!

[jamaicabound]

Yeah when your younger proximity and social groups make sense and is how you meet people. Once you get a few years older circles start to dissapear and your on your own. Its a bit harder going outside your circle because there's a built in trust factor and commonality which makes things easier.

Props though for wanting to get outside your circle, outsode your comfort zone, and challenge yourslef. Youll probably have to either distance yourself a bit from the normal people you hangout with or go out solo or at the very least go outside of where you normally go. This will get you an early start on what your later 20s are gonna be like and also strenghthen your game both outside of as well as within your social circles.

[XXL]

(07-02-2014 12:13 PM)tpm767 Wrote:  

My problem is I lock up in a situation where I don't know many girls through other people. I'd like to become much better at daygame/nightgame approaching girls I don't know at all.

Has anyone made this transition, what skills are transferrable? Is it best to try and avoid social circle game? I wouldn't say I'm a noob to game, just the cold meeting of new girls.

I got good news for you. If you hook up fairly easily via social circles/friends of friends then you're on the very good way to be really good at game in general. Take advantage of your strengths. Turn cold approach into a social circle ASAP...

- approach girls in social manner [not sexual, don't hit on them] exactly like you do when you're introduced by mutual friends, play it cool/slow and buy yourself time, figure out relationships, be friendly with everyone and flirty with the one[s] you like.

- [if it's clubbing] hang out with them all and leave with them at the end of the night to an afterparty where you can chill with her and eventually end up alone with her

- [if you get invited out] join their house party and stay cool till the end of the party [most guys can;t do it] and orchestrate some 1on1 with the girl when people part ways.

- [if it's 1on1 interaction, no friends] when it's going well tell her you want to see her again and talk about potential date BEFORE proceeding to take her number, see how she reacts to that, if she's cool then go for it, if she's hesitant/evasive then she's not down really but you can always try your luck. You can go on a date or even better you can invite her to your friends hang out [again, social approach] where your friends can turn you into super cool cat so that for the whole 'date' she will be trapped in that bubble where you're the fucking shit. Then pull at the end of it. Very smooth and natural way.

I think you got lots of transferable skills or rather personality traits already that will be very useful to do that thing. I reckon you're very under the radar type of a guy who's social, talkative and just cool with everyone which makes you attractive guy to the people you hang out with [guys are usually either dumb, too desperate, too shy or too pushy].

So to summarize I'd strongly recommend you to play it social and penetrate from within . The only thing you really need to learn is how to catch random girls' attention, break the ice and inspire them to want you to stay and talk to them. It's quite different from getting introduced by friends. It requires some persistence and social intuition at the same time. But once you get to that checkpoint you can do your usual stuff and you're good.

It's your lucky day cause I got something perfect for you about these things.

Breaking the ice.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kMDeZHXHUWw & https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HfUI3ZIWpz0

Hooking attention.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dc04LX-1o0

From start to finish [or other way around, you will see haha]... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfFsnm7mk1c

[Travesty]

XXL's response is much better than mine, in fact I take back my advice and say use his.

Being good at banging good looking girls consistently through social circle is a really useful and I'd say somewhat rare skill to have. I think you can easily bang higher quality girls and quantity with this method easily if you can get in with hot girls' social circles from cold approaching them.

It has not been something I've tried as I enjoy the hunt for just a random strange pussy. That is next level game if you can always break into hot chick social circles and bang away.

[d3traktion]

(07-02-2014 12:13 PM)tpm767 Wrote:  

Hey all - I'm new to the forum.

I've had my fair share of success with girls, but I'd say 75-90% of it comes from Social Circle. If I have a clear common point with a girl, I have no problem talking to them, and often banging them. This may be because of my looks or size, I'm not sure.

My problem is I lock up in a situation where I don't know many girls through other people. I'd like to become much better at daygame/nightgame approaching girls I don't know at all.

Has anyone made this transition, what skills are transferrable? Is it best to try and avoid social circle game? I wouldn't say I'm a noob to game, just the cold meeting of new girls.

I just moved to a new city and had been thinking about this a lot (as I also get a majority of my bangs from my social circle). I always viewed it as a 'negative' of my game that I relied on my social circle.

XXL your post is golden! Definitely changed my opinion of it and I should use this to my advantage.

[mastauser]

Social circle is most important read Strength by Sonny and you'll understand what I mean

[SydneyD]

Basically the question you're asking is "how do I sleep with random women"

The answer is simple: Go out by yourself (no friends) and daygame then go out at night (this time you can bring a friend as long as he doesn't cockblock you) and approach more women'

Truth is, you're going to fail miserably but keep grinding coz game is a trial and error thing