Met a woman at a bar a couple of months ago. We hit it off well.
Side note: I didn't kiss her because I've been experimenting with not kissing in the bar and keeping her wanting more and using that to get her back to my place.
Anyway, she used work the next day as an excuse to not come to my place. After that, we tried making plans to meet a few times, but one of us always had to cancel. I stopped responding after a while. Anyway, she emails me the other other day with:
1. an explanation of why she has been so busy (legit)
2. that she met someone else before she met me and they are becoming serious
3. that she is moving abroad for work in a month
4. that she really liked me and wants to see me again before she leaves, but as a friend, and wants to keep in touch
She knows from our first meeting that I will be a great lover, and I suspect that is the source of her interest. Because it seems to me that if she and this guy are getting serious, that she'd want to spend much of her remaining time in town with him and her other friends, rather than spending time making new friends.
Or am I reading too much into this? Does she really just want to hang out as friends or is she hoping I seduce her? If the latter, why did she tell me she has a boyfriend?
Side note: I didn't kiss her because I've been experimenting with not kissing in the bar and keeping her wanting more and using that to get her back to my place.
Anyway, she used work the next day as an excuse to not come to my place. After that, we tried making plans to meet a few times, but one of us always had to cancel. I stopped responding after a while. Anyway, she emails me the other other day with:
1. an explanation of why she has been so busy (legit)
2. that she met someone else before she met me and they are becoming serious
3. that she is moving abroad for work in a month
4. that she really liked me and wants to see me again before she leaves, but as a friend, and wants to keep in touch
She knows from our first meeting that I will be a great lover, and I suspect that is the source of her interest. Because it seems to me that if she and this guy are getting serious, that she'd want to spend much of her remaining time in town with him and her other friends, rather than spending time making new friends.
Or am I reading too much into this? Does she really just want to hang out as friends or is she hoping I seduce her? If the latter, why did she tell me she has a boyfriend?
