Here's a bit of a background on myself:
I discovered RVF and the existence of the manosphere in January. Back then, I was a shy, soft-spoken kid. Now, I get compliments on my confidence and employers who have interviewed me back then and then again recently have said that they can tell I changed.
I've never been one to approach girls, and I am aware that I NEED to do this as soon as possible. As a comedian, I've always had better luck swaying a chick with my written words on Ok Cupid and Tinder, more recently, Tinder. And I say "better luck" because, quite frankly, I haven't tried cold approaches too often.
Logistically is where I'm flawed. I live at home in a packed house where it would be very difficult to sneak a girl in (I'm 21). The closest city is 30 minutes away, so many of the girls I match with on Tinder either live there or upstate (50 minutes- 1 hour away). I'm tired of traveling so far just to get dates that end up in me not getting laid. Essentially, I can't get a girl back to my place, and they don't invite me to theirs, often because they live with people/family too. I get make-outs every now and then. More recently, I have been doing worse than I did last month.
Like I said, I'm a comedian, so I often play the nice guy who cracks a ton of jokes. The jokes result in laughter, but sometimes I'm so uppity and (I hate to use this word) theatrical that it pisses me off. I want to be cool. I want to be able to sit back in a stress-free position and have the girl constantly intrigued to the point where she can't help but screw me.
What are some steps I can take to achieve my goals. Here is the...
TL;DR: I get dates with Tinder women, travel to their location due to logistics, and hook up every now and then. I'm overly enthusiastic and want to learn to play it cool.
I know i have to start doing cold approaches. But meanwhile, how can I line up my dates with a higher chance of getting laid than I have now? I'm constantly working to improve my self, health and lifestyle.
Thanks,
Renberg
I discovered RVF and the existence of the manosphere in January. Back then, I was a shy, soft-spoken kid. Now, I get compliments on my confidence and employers who have interviewed me back then and then again recently have said that they can tell I changed.
I've never been one to approach girls, and I am aware that I NEED to do this as soon as possible. As a comedian, I've always had better luck swaying a chick with my written words on Ok Cupid and Tinder, more recently, Tinder. And I say "better luck" because, quite frankly, I haven't tried cold approaches too often.
Logistically is where I'm flawed. I live at home in a packed house where it would be very difficult to sneak a girl in (I'm 21). The closest city is 30 minutes away, so many of the girls I match with on Tinder either live there or upstate (50 minutes- 1 hour away). I'm tired of traveling so far just to get dates that end up in me not getting laid. Essentially, I can't get a girl back to my place, and they don't invite me to theirs, often because they live with people/family too. I get make-outs every now and then. More recently, I have been doing worse than I did last month.
Like I said, I'm a comedian, so I often play the nice guy who cracks a ton of jokes. The jokes result in laughter, but sometimes I'm so uppity and (I hate to use this word) theatrical that it pisses me off. I want to be cool. I want to be able to sit back in a stress-free position and have the girl constantly intrigued to the point where she can't help but screw me.
What are some steps I can take to achieve my goals. Here is the...
TL;DR: I get dates with Tinder women, travel to their location due to logistics, and hook up every now and then. I'm overly enthusiastic and want to learn to play it cool.
I know i have to start doing cold approaches. But meanwhile, how can I line up my dates with a higher chance of getting laid than I have now? I'm constantly working to improve my self, health and lifestyle.
Thanks,
Renberg