[RexImperator]

Here's a weird thing that happened to me the other day... I was getting my haircut and trying to chat with a young 20's stylist. An older stylist came over to help her out and since we were having a discussion about whether it should be shorter or longer, I said something close to,"well, you're the professional, if you could do whatever you want with it, what would you do?"

She says, "I'm not just a barber." (Implying she wanted to do all kinds of other kinds of things to me.) I might not have the exact quote but the meaning was clear.

It happened so fast I wasn't prepared and didn't have a clever response. I basically ignored it but then she also made a little dirty joke about "choking" when putting the cape on me...

Is this just one of the things that happens to you after putting on a little size from weightlifting? I thought it was odd but funny. Not that it matters... I'm trying to learn this stuff so I can avoid the divorced moms...

[RURALGAMER]

Divorced moms have pussy too.

In my experience direct game never works. Too many thirsty MF's around here trying to sop up their piss. They tire of it.

[BCien]

I think older women tend to be more direct when they feel attracted since some of em just want to fuck and want no emotional connection, due to lets say being divorced,ridden the carousel already..

[Saweeep]

(06-07-2014 12:00 AM)RURALGAMER Wrote:  

Divorced moms have pussy too.

In my experience direct game never works. Too many thirsty MF's around here trying to sop up their piss. They tire of it.

Contrary to your experience, I'm sorry but this is not true.

Direct game is golden if your frame is tight, you are congruent and are not scared by rejection.

[RURALGAMER]

Ya I'll change things up a little I think.
I'll be honest I do struggle with being really direct because I don't want to come across thirsty. I think the level of IDGAF is affecting how direct I'll go.

Now with that said my regular piece is a girl that I'm super direct with so I guess you are right. I literally never talk to her unless It's a message "hey I'm coming over to fuck".

[jessup25]

Going direct is all about reading people. Your barber shop cougar was probably down for direct game. Try to get a reading on people, scout IOI's, and do what your guy says.

[From Vegas to Tokyo]

It's important to understand your audience. You want to have them interested, but not scare them away. If you're talking to some 18 year old college chick in the library on a tuesday morning going direct probably isn't going to work, for a number of reasons, the main ones being a) she might be shy, b) she probably isn't really looking for it or expecting it, and c) if she is really hot she probably has a whole slew of guys she's banging and isn't really interested in this random guy who she knows nothing about.

If, on the other hand, you're talking to some 30 year old milf chances are going direct will work better for you. Shows her that you're not one to waste time with games and that you are a man, you know what you want and you're going to take it, but also you don't really care about rejection and if it doesn't work out, you didn't waste any of your time and can move on and do something else.

Not every situation is going to be as clear cut as that. I find the best way of doing things is to begin indirect, but go direct very quickly and screen the girl.

As a basic rule, young girls have tonnes of time and energy, but no money. They will often require a little more warming up before they'll respond well to direct game. Being able to have a halfway decent lifestyle (some money) is also attractive to them, but don't try and buy them. Older girls have energy, but they now have money so they don't care as much about your lifestyle or bankroll, but don't have nearly as much time and as a result respond better to a direct, no-bullshit approach.

Banging older women can be quite rewarding and refreshing from time to time, and while they might not be quite as hot or as tight as the 21 year old club sluts, many times slightly older, professional women can be much lower maintenance and really only need to get fucked well to stay around.