[The Father]

(06-05-2014 03:19 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

It's just an ego thing. I know how this feels and it's hypocritical of me to say this because I've been in your position......YOU DO NOT WANT HER.

Ok, so lets say you got her. Then what? You will get bored, you won't be able to bang other women and most importantly....you will be constantly checking on her making sure she doesn't fuck other guys because you know if she did with you, she can do it to you.

That will eat you alive, checking on her in addition to not being able to bang other bishes. It's happened to me a few times. I don't know what I exactly want, but I want her to leave him for me......it's an ego thing.

I think you are absolutely correct...if we were together, it's someone else's strange D she would crave...this is one horny chick!

[Cattle Rustler]

(06-05-2014 09:19 PM)The Father Wrote:  

(06-05-2014 03:19 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

It's just an ego thing. I know how this feels and it's hypocritical of me to say this because I've been in your position......YOU DO NOT WANT HER.

Ok, so lets say you got her. Then what? You will get bored, you won't be able to bang other women and most importantly....you will be constantly checking on her making sure she doesn't fuck other guys because you know if she did with you, she can do it to you.

That will eat you alive, checking on her in addition to not being able to bang other bishes. It's happened to me a few times. I don't know what I exactly want, but I want her to leave him for me......it's an ego thing.

I think you are absolutely correct...if we were together, it's someone else's strange D she would crave...this is one horny chick!

Her whole game is being a drama queen, she craves it.

She likes the excitement of cheating, it's an adrenaline rush for her. She likes cheating on him. Then she doesn't want to leave him which leaves you dangling.

She's just making your hamster spin bro.

[The Father]

(06-05-2014 09:23 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(06-05-2014 09:19 PM)The Father Wrote:  

(06-05-2014 03:19 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

It's just an ego thing. I know how this feels and it's hypocritical of me to say this because I've been in your position......YOU DO NOT WANT HER.

Ok, so lets say you got her. Then what? You will get bored, you won't be able to bang other women and most importantly....you will be constantly checking on her making sure she doesn't fuck other guys because you know if she did with you, she can do it to you.

That will eat you alive, checking on her in addition to not being able to bang other bishes. It's happened to me a few times. I don't know what I exactly want, but I want her to leave him for me......it's an ego thing.

I think you are absolutely correct...if we were together, it's someone else's strange D she would crave...this is one horny chick!

Her whole game is being a drama queen, she craves it.

She likes the excitement of cheating, it's an adrenaline rush for her. She likes cheating on him. Then she doesn't want to leave him which leaves you dangling.

She's just making your hamster spin bro.

Mission accomplished, I'm afraid :/

[The Father]

(06-05-2014 09:24 PM)The Father Wrote:  

(06-05-2014 09:23 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

She's just making your hamster spin bro.

Mission accomplished, I'm afraid :/

However, thanks to the brotherly advice I've received on this thread, the haze of oneitis is lifting, and I'm starting to see the situation for what it is: Just a cheating slut who needed a good f*cking, and I gave it to her. But just as I wouldn't marry the town slut, I shouldn't want any more than good sex with this girl.

On a related topic, I'm sure there were always cheating wives...but they seem bolder about it now. :/

[Cobra]

^^yes. In my situation, I re-framed and let her know that I can't risk her being caught but I also can't help physically wanting her. She then essentially turned herself into a fuck buddy. Case closed.. Or .. Well.. Open.

[Dulceácido]

Damn... This girl's a heartbreaker. She did the same thing to me...

[The Father]

Update four months later: EVERYTHING you guys said has come true. Especially Christian McQueen, Handsome Creepy Eel, Cattle Rustler, CrashBangWallop, and Noir.

Chick never left hubby, now they're going to counseling, she's doing the "im confused!" routine and seems to be backing off. I think she relieved her boredom with six months of good fucking, and now wants to go back to her nice surburban life.

How do I feel? Relieved, after taking in the comments above...I KNOW if she left him for me, she'd do the same to me in a few years...probably after we had a baby. Frightening!

Still, I'd like to tap that ass a few more times, and also test out my game. So i'll be employing "dread game", going radio silent for a while. Then see if I can slip into town and slip her the "d" one more time...

[Carlos100]

I learned the hard way when I was single that when dating married women it's especially important to maintain your abundance mentality. In my case, once I was able to communicate to them by my attitude that I considered myself a fling for them and not a boyfriend or future husband prospect, there was a lot less drama.

[reco2100]

So I have a related situation that I want to ask the advice from the masters on here. I am fairly new to game but I have been making some progress. I am on the older side, I am 50 and in the past two years had some decent bangs much younger than myself. I have pretty good success once I get them out and one on one.

My situ is a little different. The one I am interested in is a new acquaintance and I have not fucked her yet. Met her during a company event where she works for a business partner that we do not see very often. I was traveling to their city, whick I frequent. Went to a group dinner and she sat next to me and we hit it off very well. Lots of eye contact, teasing touching. Even some from her. She showed definite IOI's with me asking me many personal questions. Commenting positively on my looks and then asking me what I thought was a strong IOI, "When I come to her town where do I hang out?" And then actually offering to help me find places to hang out. I was intrigued.

This chick is interesting. She is married, has kids about 35ish. Very good looking. Minimum 7.5, dresses and speaks and acts very conservative almost shy. Except for one thing. She has huge breasts most likely implants and she has them really on display. I mean bamn! Out there. lol To me this is a big sign of a chick that likes to play.

Anyway after the dinner her and her other coworkers and my coworker stood outside for the longest time talking and chatting and just saying what good time we had and thinking up group stuff to do together. But I want to get her out alone. And line up my logistics just right. I believe the key to this is to communicate to her that I am discrete and can keep a secret. And of course I have no intention of setting up anything permanent. Just want the sex and the fun. Without all that relationship bullshit. I already have a wife for that. lol Does that sound about right? Are these the keys to success here?

It has been a little long since the dinner, about 8 weeks. But my plan is to send her a quick email and tell her I am going to be in town next week. And is she up for showing me around a little. Nothing extra flirty or sexual. Just try to get her out. What do you guys think?

Am I on track or is there a better tactic? I am looking for advice and I do listen.

[RockHard]

(10-02-2014 08:29 PM)reco2100 Wrote:  

Anyway after the dinner her and her other coworkers and my coworker stood outside for the longest time talking and chatting and just saying what good time we had and thinking up group stuff to do together. But I want to get her out alone. And line up my logistics just right. I believe the key to this is to communicate to her that I am discrete and can keep a secret. And of course I have no intention of setting up anything permanent. Just want the sex and the fun. Without all that relationship bullshit. I already have a wife for that. lol Does that sound about right? Are these the keys to success here?

That's the way to play it. If she's on the hunt, she wants adventure, fun, and an escape. So you want to be that guy. Discretion is important, but logistics & spontaneity are key. It's going to "just happen" if it happens at all. I don't know about communicating discretion unless you can casually drop the "I can keep a secret" line on something totally unrelated (for example, if she says she hates her boss, you say "your secret's safe with me").

(10-02-2014 08:29 PM)reco2100 Wrote:  

It has been a little long since the dinner, about 8 weeks. But my plan is to send her a quick email and tell her I am going to be in town next week. And is she up for showing me around a little. Nothing extra flirty or sexual. Just try to get her out. What do you guys think?

Just tell her you're going to be in town, ask her about what spots she recommends. From there, if she doesn't volunteer, you can play dumb and say you need a driver, you're terrible with directions. Or you can try to leverage any work events you might have - does she know some of the same people?

Get a conversation going, but maintain plausible deniability. This is for her, not you. Save the flirting for face to face.

I was going to post a data sheet on all this mess, I'll have to finish it up. That said, your number one fear should be the vengeful spouse. You think she gets your heart pounding? Try taking a phone call from her husband. True story.

[The Father]

(10-02-2014 08:29 PM)reco2100 Wrote:  

She is married, has kids about 35ish.

Dude you need http://www.amazon.com/Eats-Shoots-Leaves...592402038.

See, i think you are saying "She is married, has kids AND IS about 35ish". But when i first read it, i read it literally... "she has kids about 35ish". And I'm thinking, Jesus Christ, just take Grandma's teeth out and let her blow you!

[reco2100]

(10-03-2014 05:46 PM)The Father Wrote:  

(10-02-2014 08:29 PM)reco2100 Wrote:  

She is married, has kids about 35ish.

Dude you need http://www.amazon.com/Eats-Shoots-Leaves...592402038.

See, i think you are saying "She is married, has kids AND IS about 35ish". But when i first read it, i read it literally... "she has kids about 35ish". And I'm thinking, Jesus Christ, just take Grandma's teeth out and let her blow you!

Haha if you are going to start correcting grammar on here. You are going to be real busy.