Lately I've been getting better at dropping the whole nice guy thing and just focusing on not thinking of them as anything more than what they are: Human beings, just like everyone else. I'm also amazed at how much positive reaction something like a neg or cocky humor can get from a girl.
The one problem is I have trouble bridging the gap from friendly to sexual. In person it's easier to escalate things because you can be physical and build up Kino. But I have this girl's number and we were chatting last night, and although I started off being cocky and funny and building rapport by talking about common interests (Video games), the conversation just ended up being that - A conversation about video games. Even though I escalated it and said she should come over to play it still sounded fairly platonic.
Any advice? I've found that most girls are receptive to sexual/dirty talk, but there's still some part of my brain that tells me not to do it because I've just been taught all my life that girls are precious, demure things that don't like this kind of stuff.
The one problem is I have trouble bridging the gap from friendly to sexual. In person it's easier to escalate things because you can be physical and build up Kino. But I have this girl's number and we were chatting last night, and although I started off being cocky and funny and building rapport by talking about common interests (Video games), the conversation just ended up being that - A conversation about video games. Even though I escalated it and said she should come over to play it still sounded fairly platonic.
Any advice? I've found that most girls are receptive to sexual/dirty talk, but there's still some part of my brain that tells me not to do it because I've just been taught all my life that girls are precious, demure things that don't like this kind of stuff.