[L M McCoy]

I searched the forum but couldn't find anything. What are some kissing tips or what do you guys do when you go in for the kiss? As in right when your lips touch. I've always thought of kissing as gross and I don't know why; so naturally I suck at it.

[classicjimmy]

I'll preface this with the fact that you've got to practice. When I was young I used to notice a huge variability between different girls. One girl would kiss one way, another girl kissed another, I over thought it. Don't overthink it.

As soon as you go in for a kiss, close your eyes. That's rule number one. Tilt your head to one side, shut your eyes, and make the jump.

Once your lips are on her lips be nice and light with the lips first, and then, stealing a note from Roosh, make sure you're the one to break it off. Make sure she's the one who wants more. Tease her. After you've been making out for a while, you can get more heavy with the lips/tongue if you're going to push it. Gently interlocking lip kisses tend to work best all purpose. Like sex or game, you just gotta go out and make out with 100 girls before things start to click.

Also, don't worry about the kiss too much. If you've isolated her enough and you've got some good kino going, just fucking kiss her. I've never had a girl run off on me after I kissed her. Girls reward being bold, and whatever you do DO NOT ASK HER IF YOU CAN KISS HER. Caveman game works totally fine in most times when going in for the kiss.

[simondice]

Let her give you a bit of tongue first, and then massage hers with yours. Grab the back of her neck with one hand, and the other hand rest it on her thighs. Break it first after she starts getting into it. Look at her eyes for three seconds with a straight face and then smile, resume, this will give her a momentary moment of tension, followed by relief, she will get wet off of this. Let her warm up and start kissing her neck and ears.. you can take her from there

[whoishe]

Hmmm, interesting topic. I have an additional question - any tips for guys wearing a glasses? I've recently had to switch from contacts to glasses (doctors orders after having a very serious eye infection) and have a problem with adjustments. Taking them off seems not natural, but kissing wearing them also is a no-no. Probably sulution here is to know when to take them off before I will start kissing, but nothing feels natural at the moment.

[Dalaran1991]

Funny. In my beta days I was always kissed by girls. And they all like invading my mouth as soon as they get comfortable. Which is 2-3 seconds into the kiss. That's why I sucked at it at first. I thought all girls like groping. Don't do that.

Positioning is important. Try not to be opposite her. Try to sit next to her or steal a kiss when you are walking. I find that at first nudging her lower lips with yours will get girl comfortable, then slowly work your way up and in.

Certainly warm them up as other suggested.

[Onto]

(05-20-2014 08:29 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

I searched the forum but couldn't find anything. What are some kissing tips or what do you guys do when you go in for the kiss? As in right when your lips touch. I've always thought of kissing as gross and I don't know why; so naturally I suck at it.

This is the problem. I don't think any techniques or tips are going to make a difference.

I once got the most amazing bj from girl who knew she was good at it. Afterwards I told her how amazing it was and, she said, "You know what my secret is? I love giving head."

If you love doing something, you will be good at it. Kissing is probably the most intimate way to connect with someone. It's probably why hookers don't kiss. I'm not sure why you think kissing is gross, but gaining insight into it will free you from it.

[L M McCoy]

(05-21-2014 07:52 AM)Onto Wrote:  

(05-20-2014 08:29 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

I searched the forum but couldn't find anything. What are some kissing tips or what do you guys do when you go in for the kiss? As in right when your lips touch. I've always thought of kissing as gross and I don't know why; so naturally I suck at it.

This is the problem. I don't think any techniques or tips are going to make a difference.

I once got the most amazing bj from girl who knew she was good at it. Afterwards I told her how amazing it was and, she said, "You know what my secret is? I love giving head."

If you love doing something, you will be good at it. Kissing is probably the most intimate way to connect with someone. It's probably why hookers don't kiss. I'm not sure why you think kissing is gross, but gaining insight into it will free you from it.

that's good advice. I used to think kissing was gross and because it was too intimate for me. Now I'm okay with but I seriously need to put in some work in that area.

[Monty Brown]

Don't tongue kiss if you have been choking down cigs all night.

I think I've lost a couple bangs due to ash tray mouth. No gum

Don't kiss like this



Or this


Instead, just let your jaw kind of hang down like a mouth breather(But not too much, just a little) and meet in the middle where your top lip is above her top lip and your bottom lip is in the middle OR your bottom lip is below hers and your top lip is in the middle.



Then just kind of relax and take it slow. Be firm but not stiff
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Or you could do my favorite. Then just grab her hair and kiss aggressively. Escalate quickly. Shove her hand in your pants, grab her ass, body slam her onto your bed.



Move quick and beat that pussy up.

[Onto]

(05-21-2014 02:32 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

(05-21-2014 07:52 AM)Onto Wrote:  

(05-20-2014 08:29 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  

I searched the forum but couldn't find anything. What are some kissing tips or what do you guys do when you go in for the kiss? As in right when your lips touch. I've always thought of kissing as gross and I don't know why; so naturally I suck at it.

This is the problem. I don't think any techniques or tips are going to make a difference.

I once got the most amazing bj from girl who knew she was good at it. Afterwards I told her how amazing it was and, she said, "You know what my secret is? I love giving head."

If you love doing something, you will be good at it. Kissing is probably the most intimate way to connect with someone. It's probably why hookers don't kiss. I'm not sure why you think kissing is gross, but gaining insight into it will free you from it.

that's good advice. I used to think kissing was gross and because it was too intimate for me. Now I'm okay with but I seriously need to put in some work in that area.

Women love to be teased, and they love a man who show's he's in charge/control. Good kissing should do both, and you should find someone good to practice with. Experiment and be mindful of what she reacts too, but really just have fun with it and enjoy it for yourself.

You'll eventually get so good to the point where she won't be able to take it anymore and will be ripping your clothes off.

[Krusyos]

As a virgin who has never made out, when should you start feeling her up?

[simondice]

(05-21-2014 03:12 PM)Krusyos Wrote:  

As a virgin who has never made out, when should you start feeling her up?

First focus on getting the girl to be on date or secluded from a party, and attracted to you.

Let her give you a bit of tongue first, and then massage hers with yours. Grab the back of her neck with one hand, and the other hand rest it on her thighs. Break it first after she starts getting into it. Look at her eyes for three seconds with a straight face and then smile, resume, this will give her a momentary moment of tension, followed by relief, she will get wet off of this. Let her warm up and start kissing her neck and ears.. you can take her from there If you've been kissing her in a secluded area for more than 5 minutes, start.

Start rubbing her leg and go up with your hand till you touch tit. massage over them and just let her catch up, feel her out and if she's not opposing, keep escaling, taking off her shirt, and just keep kissing. If she refuses to let you escalate after touching tit, just smile and go back to kissing, try again until she's ready again. Unbutton her front botton of her pants. if she's wearing a skirt, raise her skirt and start touching her pussy. Go back to smelling her neck and kissing her.

It's push and pull, 2 steps forward 1 step back.

If she's talking bs like " i can't believe we're doing this" or "omg let's take it slow" Read her body language if she's saying no, but actively helping you take off her clothes, ignore it or agree and amplify " Oh yeah this is so bad" while simultanously taking her articles of clothing. If she says an outright stop you stop. Now, if you're doing push and pull and have enough attraction, it shouldn't be a problem.Let her give you a bit of tongue first, and then massage hers with yours. Grab the back of her neck with one hand, and the other hand rest it on her thighs. Break it first after she starts getting into it. Look at her eyes for three seconds with a straight face and then smile, resume, this will give her a momentary moment of tension, followed by relief, she will get wet off of this. Let her warm up and start kissing her neck and ears.. you can take her from there If you've been kissing her in a secluded area for more than 5 minutes, start. Start rubbing her leg and go up with your hand till you touch tit. massage over them and just let her catch up, feel her out and if she's not opposing, keep escaling, taking off her shirt, and just keep kissing. If she refuses to let you escalate after touching tit, just smile and go back to kissing, try again untill she's ready again.

[Krusyos]

(05-21-2014 04:48 PM)simondice Wrote:  

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Wow, thanks for the great, detailed advice.

[bassy]

Tip: Lead the kiss on your terms so you dominate. It's supposed to feel best if her upper lip is within both of yours for the majority of the kisses. Tease with your tongue, in and out before going for french kissing (and don't make that last too long). Light nibbling and biting can be good, and kiss her neck, clavicle, and nibble ear lobes.

One thing I've learnt over the past few months is that if I am alone with a girl (either I've invited her over, or she has me), she wants to make out at the very least. There have been times where I wasn't even bothered but after the movie or whatever she doesn't seem to want to leave, and starts giving you indicators of interest (e.g. she'll talk about whatever pops into her head, but you can tell her mind is on something else, or she'll flick her eyes towards your lips and stare into your eyes more).

It took me a while but you just have to go for it - just try and kiss her and see what happens. If you are alone together she likely wants it to.

Another funny example that suggests a rejection isn't the be all and end all is a hottie I met in a club recently (danish, 8). I went to gauge kiss interest (brushed her hair to the side, held her face) and she was like 'urrrr what are you doing??' and moved me away so I stop. 5 minutes later she kisses me and was like 'was that too forward?'. I just said no and took control, leading the rest of the kissing that occurred.

Moral: just try and go for it, if she responds great, if not and you have a good playful vibe you can play off a rejection as if it doesn't matter. Most girls will be more offended if you didn't even try (likely think they weren't desirable enough if they're insecure or think you're a pussy).

[Saweeep]

There's a massive amount of info via google about this. Unusually for a topic we discus here, it's pretty spot on on the whole.

Read and consume it all.

[OBJ Snakebite]

Books on how to kiss on Amazon