I think we've all been in this situation. You're at an event, gaming a girl and you spot another strikingly attractive girl across the room. The girl you're with feels like a number close with a bang on the first date, so you want to wrap things up, congenially part ways and then hit up the next girl...all done smoothly so you can potentially date both girls without them too aware of what's going on.
I was at a pool party in Malibu last Saturday and found myself in this situation frequently. I'd be doing well with a girl, isolating, a bit of kino but just feeling that we're hitting it off and the bang would come when we're both in a private environment on a date. I grab the number with a simple, "Put your number in my phone, we'll grab a drink sometime." And then I'm wondering...what to do next. I want to bounce, but the girl I'm with is solo and has no where to go. Here's what I've done and I'd like to know what other experience players recommend
- Move around a bunch. I.e. Grab a drink at the bar, use the restroom, get a glass of water. Just move her around with you, even dive into a group and casually part ways with an excuse. Disappear and she most likely will too.
- It's ideal when they're already leaving the venue or have a group to latch on to.
- As you game another girl, do it subtly. I.e. chat up some guys for a bit, then hit up the girl who is in close proximity. It's a balance of gaming the new girl, not giving a shit what the other girl things, but being smooth about the whole operation. Still the frame is: I do what I want, no matter what.
- This is a big one: Realize that you CAN'T game all the girls that strike your fancy. There's only so much time and the girls will be at the party for only so long. Start from the top and work your way down while making time to hang with buddies, new friends and always take time to make good with the hosts.
So I pose the question:
- What do you guys like to do if you're at a bar chatting up a girl, go for the number close and feel the need to leave that girl, mix in with the crowd and game another?
- At a big house party or event like I described, what's a good game plan you guys have tried and tested to get the best results?
Thanks for any tips.
- Chef
I was at a pool party in Malibu last Saturday and found myself in this situation frequently. I'd be doing well with a girl, isolating, a bit of kino but just feeling that we're hitting it off and the bang would come when we're both in a private environment on a date. I grab the number with a simple, "Put your number in my phone, we'll grab a drink sometime." And then I'm wondering...what to do next. I want to bounce, but the girl I'm with is solo and has no where to go. Here's what I've done and I'd like to know what other experience players recommend
- Move around a bunch. I.e. Grab a drink at the bar, use the restroom, get a glass of water. Just move her around with you, even dive into a group and casually part ways with an excuse. Disappear and she most likely will too.
- It's ideal when they're already leaving the venue or have a group to latch on to.
- As you game another girl, do it subtly. I.e. chat up some guys for a bit, then hit up the girl who is in close proximity. It's a balance of gaming the new girl, not giving a shit what the other girl things, but being smooth about the whole operation. Still the frame is: I do what I want, no matter what.
- This is a big one: Realize that you CAN'T game all the girls that strike your fancy. There's only so much time and the girls will be at the party for only so long. Start from the top and work your way down while making time to hang with buddies, new friends and always take time to make good with the hosts.
So I pose the question:
- What do you guys like to do if you're at a bar chatting up a girl, go for the number close and feel the need to leave that girl, mix in with the crowd and game another?
- At a big house party or event like I described, what's a good game plan you guys have tried and tested to get the best results?
Thanks for any tips.
- Chef
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