When I'm at bars talking to women I remain polite because I am afraid of provoking a negative response. As a result I keep the conversation bland and boring.
To get over this ridiculous fear, I want to purposefully say something to provoke a negative response just so I can show my emotional self that it's not so bad. I want to desensitize this fear.
My problem with this in the past is that I couldn't think of anything provocative to say when I'm talking to women so I just revert to my natural self which is friendly and polite.
The only think I can think of is to ask the women I'm talking to directly for sex, a threesome, an orgy or something like that. But that would be inappropriate for classy or laid back bars.
Can you guys think of something provocative I can say just to help me get over my fear of a negative reaction?
To get over this ridiculous fear, I want to purposefully say something to provoke a negative response just so I can show my emotional self that it's not so bad. I want to desensitize this fear.
My problem with this in the past is that I couldn't think of anything provocative to say when I'm talking to women so I just revert to my natural self which is friendly and polite.
The only think I can think of is to ask the women I'm talking to directly for sex, a threesome, an orgy or something like that. But that would be inappropriate for classy or laid back bars.
Can you guys think of something provocative I can say just to help me get over my fear of a negative reaction?