... and it can probably help you as well.
Excuse me if something like this has been posted on the forum before, I haven't seen it yet, even if it has I think it's worth sharing again in the newbie forum.
When I first got into Game I had pretty bad AA (approach anxiety). I read Roosh's work and I was eager to get out and approach. So I did exactly that.
Time lapses and I have a nice number of approaches under my belt but my anxiety was still there especially when I approached girls that I thought to be really cute or ones that I considered hot. I had a pretty decent understanding of game and I know a lot of it is internal (if not most of it), it is psychological.
I knew that I had to demonstrate value and feel confident, superior to these cute and hot chicks, especially when approaching them. So I started to think and ponder of ways to believe this, a way to psyche myself up to actually exert this energy.
The technique that helped me and still does to this day while approaching is simple.
Let's say I spot a hot girl, a 9 in your book. I have targeted her and I'm already taking steps in her direction. As I'm walking towards her I start to look for flaws in her. It can be anything. Maybe she has arms too hairy for your taste, maybe you spot acne under her thick layer of make up, maybe her teeth are not the best. By the time I get to her at most she's maybe a 7.5. I magnify her flaws while I minimize the qualities about her that made me find her attractive in the first place. And this keeps going even after I open her. Maybe I find her voice annoying, maybe she's those obnoxiously loud types.
The point is to de-pedestalize her and bring her below your level to the point where you feel like she is lucky to even be talking to you because you have transformed your perception of her from a hot girl to that of some horrid beast you have molded by simply magnifying her flaws. This is the internal part at work and I assure you will feel and exert more confidence when approaching a girl when you use this technique.
Again this technique has helped me a lot and I'm sure it can benefit other guys as well especially those starting out in game and still contemplating their first, second or third approach. It was a technique that upped my game where now it's even hard for me to spot a hot girl because I'm so quick in finding flaws and de-pedestalizing them.
Hope this helps out. It's nothing new or revolutionary but it's a small trick that has helped me suppress my AA substantially, after all we all have flaws, but of course except for us here in the forum we are all perfect!![[Image: gay.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/gay.gif)
Happy gaming,
OMYG
Excuse me if something like this has been posted on the forum before, I haven't seen it yet, even if it has I think it's worth sharing again in the newbie forum.
When I first got into Game I had pretty bad AA (approach anxiety). I read Roosh's work and I was eager to get out and approach. So I did exactly that.
Time lapses and I have a nice number of approaches under my belt but my anxiety was still there especially when I approached girls that I thought to be really cute or ones that I considered hot. I had a pretty decent understanding of game and I know a lot of it is internal (if not most of it), it is psychological.
I knew that I had to demonstrate value and feel confident, superior to these cute and hot chicks, especially when approaching them. So I started to think and ponder of ways to believe this, a way to psyche myself up to actually exert this energy.
The technique that helped me and still does to this day while approaching is simple.
Let's say I spot a hot girl, a 9 in your book. I have targeted her and I'm already taking steps in her direction. As I'm walking towards her I start to look for flaws in her. It can be anything. Maybe she has arms too hairy for your taste, maybe you spot acne under her thick layer of make up, maybe her teeth are not the best. By the time I get to her at most she's maybe a 7.5. I magnify her flaws while I minimize the qualities about her that made me find her attractive in the first place. And this keeps going even after I open her. Maybe I find her voice annoying, maybe she's those obnoxiously loud types.
The point is to de-pedestalize her and bring her below your level to the point where you feel like she is lucky to even be talking to you because you have transformed your perception of her from a hot girl to that of some horrid beast you have molded by simply magnifying her flaws. This is the internal part at work and I assure you will feel and exert more confidence when approaching a girl when you use this technique.
Again this technique has helped me a lot and I'm sure it can benefit other guys as well especially those starting out in game and still contemplating their first, second or third approach. It was a technique that upped my game where now it's even hard for me to spot a hot girl because I'm so quick in finding flaws and de-pedestalizing them.
Hope this helps out. It's nothing new or revolutionary but it's a small trick that has helped me suppress my AA substantially, after all we all have flaws, but of course except for us here in the forum we are all perfect!
Happy gaming,
OMYG
