[S-H]

Hi Roosh,

I would like to thank for your awesome book first. I bought your book about one
month ago, it may change my life even if I just finish about 1/3. Actually, I
might ask you questions after finishing all of it but I cannot help to ask them
now. I shall listed them below:

1.As you may already notice, English is not my mother language. Since you mainly
emphasize the way of approach by talking in your book, I was wondering if the
language would be an obstacle of my game? Certainly, communication with others
for me is O.K., but I cannot speak like a native. I keep improving my speaking,
of course, but I cannot wait to try my first approach after finishing your book.
I just found you had the experience of approaching in South America. I guess you
faced similar situation, didn't you? Could I turn this disadvantage to
advantage? Would you please give me some advices?

2.Even if I don't finish your book yet, I jumped to the Appendix and finished it
first. It listed so many possible situations for us as a guideline. But for me,
it seems not enough......First let me describe my regular life for your
reference, please. I have to wake up early to work (~7am) on weekdays by subway
in general, and walk home after 7~8pm. Therefore, the chance I can meet girls is
(1) on the subway to work and (2) when I walk home on the street. But as you
can imagine, for (1), everyone is in a rush to work and it is almost impossible
to have a nice conversation with them; for (2), I can use your "street or car
approach" scenario but the problem is "almost all the hot girls are running
(doing exercise)" at that time, how shall I approach to a girl who is running?
Could you please give me some advices for both cases?

3.You always emphasize " do not buy her a drink, do not do XXX for her....etc.".
But I was wondering if I can really ask a girl out for a dinner, shall I still
split the bill? Or do you think invite her come over my place and I cook for her
is a good idea? (I am not a really good cooker, but not bad. My place is a small
studio...kinda lame...will it be a problem?)

4.Will you go out with several girls simutaneously? I mean, certainly I am going
to approach girls as many as I can but if I am so lucky that getting more than
one positive responds, shall I go for both of them simutaneously?

I am sorry for asking so many questions at once, but somtimes it is really
confused. I cannot wait to finish your book and play the game!!

Happy Holidays,

SH

[oldnemesis]

What country are you now? How long do you live there? Where are you originally from? Which language is your native?

[S-H]

(12-31-2010 05:37 AM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

What country are you now? How long do you live there? Where are you originally from? Which language is your native?

Hi oldnemesis,

Thanks for replying. I have been in US for about 2 months. I am from a small town in China for a short-term exchange interm program, and surely the native language is Mandarin.