[Iso]

Scenario: You meet a girl at the bar who you find attractive.


How do you show interest in her while at the same time being not needy? I've seen men have success by completely ignoring women. I've always seen men have success by showing 100% attention to women. When should you ignore vs showing a lot of interest?

[Iso]

Can this thread be moved to the Game section? Thanks

[Suits]

Lean back in your chair.

[Shimmy]

If you have to even think about this the best solution is to increase your options so you are genuine in showing less interest and not pretending

[h3ltrsk3ltr]

I had this dilemma at an upscale-ish bar once (where MDP and I later recorded a podcast) . I was having a drink and a girl came and sat one barstool away and waited for food she'd apparently ordered.

The food arrived fairly quickly but she ordered a glass of wine and I could pretty much feel some palpable interest coming from her. I sat there for a few minutes thinking I had to say something or be forever a bitch, but I couldn't think of anything except a quote from Bang that said something about leaning back when sitting at the bar.

So that's what I did.

A few seconds later I just made a random comment about her wine and we started talking.

I fucked her on and off for about a year. Hands down best titties I've ever busted on.

[Iso]

(10-14-2017 12:10 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Lean back in your chair.

Thanks for that suggestion. I tried it last night and it seemed to be more helpful. I didn't appear as needy.

[Suits]

(10-15-2017 11:11 AM)Iso Wrote:  

(10-14-2017 12:10 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Lean back in your chair.

Thanks for that suggestion. I tried it last night and it seemed to be more helpful. I didn't appear as needy.

Ya, my game is super tight.

Buy my e-book for more easy game hacks.

[debeguiled]

(10-15-2017 12:35 PM)Suits Wrote:  

(10-15-2017 11:11 AM)Iso Wrote:  

(10-14-2017 12:10 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Lean back in your chair.

Thanks for that suggestion. I tried it last night and it seemed to be more helpful. I didn't appear as needy.

Ya, my game is super tight.

Buy my e-book for more easy game hacks.

Never face her directly. Face away and look over your shoulder.

[worldwidetraveler]

When rollin solo, you don't want people at the bar to know you're alone. That looks desperate.

That is why you should improvise by bringing a "friend".

This is a picture of me on a night out looking for lovin.