[Mr. Plow]

I have been re-reading Day Bang for stuff I missed the first time through(I missed a lot), and I noticed that Roosh said to look around at the type of guy your type of girl is usually with. Now in a year and half of doing day game, I have noticed a consistency that I have been ignoring.

Who they are with:
The ultra hotties are always with guys that look less dominant than they are. They are usually thinner, on the weak side. Look like they shop exclusively out of American Eagle and Gap. There is usually a hipster(cool kid) vibe, but not metro sexual. The hard gangster guys(the way they walk that is) virtually never get the ultra hotties.

Where they are at:
Not American Eagle and Gap. They are at our local mall, and Target, and yeah I have been all over. The only other time they come out is down town where there is a bunch of clubs/bars within a 2 mile stretch.

My question is..... How do I match this exactly? Do I really just put on all american eagle and gap clothes, then approach with a weak, but cool mentality? Or should I just ignore all that, wear some good clean fitting clothes and be relaxed and boring(the other suggestion the book makes)? Just a little confused. By the way....... Next week will be my first week using Day Bang method.

[Virtus]

http://cedonulli.com/circle-jerks-conten...ion-ratio/

[Mr. Plow]

(11-21-2013 08:26 PM)calihunter Wrote:  

http://cedonulli.com/circle-jerks-conten...ion-ratio/

I have made no claims, none that make me sound cool in the slightest. I have made no posts talking about how awesome I am, in fact I'd say most my posts are geared towards anti-feminist, lol. Your post makes no since. It does nothing.

[Virtus]

My bad wrong link copied pasted. Cant edit

[Virtus]

if youre not a thin tall model type its not gonna go well if you complete on their territory. Dress best for your "type" and if you can defy expectations thats a bonus. But its more what n how you do n say than whethere you think she likes skinny hipsters

[hnsight_roo]

posting links to the bloglet-o-doom are never a mistake. and they should be uneditable.

[mattybrews]

Its a good question. On the one hand, if you are noticing a trend in the appearance of the women you want to bang, and you sincerely want to bang those women, then go for broke, have at it man. Match and exceed that trend, pysche yourself up, decide you've got Game, and you just needed a little tweak to your style to crack these hoes open. Just be mentally sure that you're adopting this 'type' because you want to bang that 'type.' Could go a long way to building rock-solid Frame, and by definition it makes you more selective, assertive, confident.

On the other hand, you could be focusing on a subset of possible unavailable/unattainable women due to whatever X,Y,Z about your game. I don't know. And it could be costing you bangs, because you refuse to hit on redhead women, or short women, or women who don't fit your current ideal.

Decide what you REALLY REALLY want. It's ok to experiment with different things--that's how you'll really start to develop YOUR game, swagger, style, etc--but I find that purposeless experimentation either leaves you gaining nothing (except experience) or losing. Game is hard enough without constantly changing the variables and wondering wtf happened/went wrong.

Personally, I crave variety. To match this, I have been working on a number of 'vibes' for a long time and constantly refining them. (I have a little background in theatre, and it feels sometimes like switching costumes, so it really is kind of natural to me.) I consider myself a blank slate and hone my physical appearance as I like. I've got the Edgy Badboy 'vibe,' with motorcycle jacket (I do in fact ride), fucking sweet leather boots, messy shaggy hair, let the facial hair and the arm tattoos rock out. I've got the International Playboy look, with fitted white button-down, fitted black jacket, pocket square, decent shoes, hair slicked back like Robin Thicke. I've got the Grunge look, the Corporate look, the Surfer/Hippie look, the Schoolteacher look...but I enjoy being able to play different roles in different scenarios. Does this mean that, overall, any one single style will be less developed than say, someone who only exclusively shops at American Eagle? Sure does. But it also means that I can switch gears, create contrast or comfort as need be, and it means I am never uncomfortable in what I'm wearing.

It's a long way around the bush and it will take a bit more time to fully perfect, but it's who I am. I would be way too bored if I had to stick to one.

[XXL]

You don't match others vibe. You're in love with your vibe/style so much that girls get sucked in, eventually. It takes some charisma though.

[Vicious]

You can't start leading people right away in day game you'll scare girls off and/or look like a loon. This is what PUAs do in pick up vids where they are just steamrolling girls.

You have to show a human side first.
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[funkyzeit]

You really think they want another "copy pasted" Gap guy?

Show them your hobbies, your world, your social circle, your type of success. They crave novelty.

You should however learn the average Gap guy principles and routines so you can find weak points and AMOG them effectively in the beginning.