Background on me: I am 18 and from a city just outside London. Had moderate success with females in high school but no success what so ever in clubs/bars, just mere make-outs. My friend introduced me to this forum and red pill ideas about 4 months ago, ended up reading bang etc etc, and started trying to really apply it from november.
I know approach anxiety is one of the most common dilemmas for guys starting out game, and getting over it is obviously the genesis point to becoming a true player. But it seems as though no matter what I do, i just cant get over it, or atleast there have been no signs that im getting closer to getting over it.
I started going out with my friend and he literally made me approach girls every time, and obviously after actually approaching I realized it just isn't anywhere near as bad as i was making it out to be in my head. But my problem is I feel ive made no progress what so ever (i went out last night, didnt even make one approach). It hasnt gotten better with time, in fact a rejection can ruin my night and make me even less willing to approach, and i know im being a massive pussy and thats why its even more frustrating.
When my friends not there, i cant approach for shit. nothing has changed even with approaches under my belt. Did any of you guys experience anything similiar when you were starting out? Is the only option to just reluctantly keep going and hope the anxiety eventually wears off?
I know approach anxiety is one of the most common dilemmas for guys starting out game, and getting over it is obviously the genesis point to becoming a true player. But it seems as though no matter what I do, i just cant get over it, or atleast there have been no signs that im getting closer to getting over it.
I started going out with my friend and he literally made me approach girls every time, and obviously after actually approaching I realized it just isn't anywhere near as bad as i was making it out to be in my head. But my problem is I feel ive made no progress what so ever (i went out last night, didnt even make one approach). It hasnt gotten better with time, in fact a rejection can ruin my night and make me even less willing to approach, and i know im being a massive pussy and thats why its even more frustrating.
When my friends not there, i cant approach for shit. nothing has changed even with approaches under my belt. Did any of you guys experience anything similiar when you were starting out? Is the only option to just reluctantly keep going and hope the anxiety eventually wears off?