[goodsensefool]

I have been dealing w/ a true cougar for 1st time and I am 25. I am pretty sure she is somewhere in her 30's possibly early 40's. We have not asked each others age yet(Suprisingly). I really could care less. We hung out about 5 times at bars/clubs. Met her at a toastmaster networking event and slid her my business card which kind of set the tone since she is into business & entrepreneurship currently. 2nd to last time we hung out in club and I went in for kiss on dancefloor in club & she accepted it and seemed ready for it. She was not even drunk. She barely drinks but is live and dancing on me like she does drink a lot when we went out lol. That same night I got her to come back to my spot after club. Told her I have something interesting we can watch. So we watched movie for like 10 mins then she got up and said she has to leave. Felt like I fumbled at goal line lol. I should have started escalating as soon as we walked in but I never really dealt w/ a cougar and I wanted to play it cool. We made out again when I walked her to her car. Next day I did not contact her to see if last night was a fluke but it was not because she text me next day first late at night "hey whats up" but she hardly initiates texts so I knew after that she really digs me for some reason.
She knows I am young. I have a baby face too which makes me look even younger. Also, one of her friends mentioned I looked real young before lol. She still wants to hang out and I feel like I am slightly undroppable on her roster right now. Last time we hung out week ago it was a quick meetup at a bar but she had to leave quickly to do something.
We are suppose to go to movies tomorrow night. She only has flaked on me maybe 1 or 2 times out of the times we agreed to hang out. Last flake on the day of meetup she text me she was going to be really busy dealing with her business. I want to get her back to her crib or my crib and escalate again asap lol. Is their any clever ways that any vets have used to get back to her place w/out her inviting you, cause the movie location is better logistics for her place?

P.S- I am same kid that is also dealing w/ churchy chick haha

[blkgatsby]

Invite her over to pre game with some drinks and try out your bartending skills (Well get some bartending skills hint...hint) and watch a movie at your place. Personally I've never had a theater movie date end well, and this is meetup #5. It's do or die if she isn't dangling the carrot over your head at this point.

[Flavius Aetius]

A movie is a really bad date idea. You both sit in front of a stupid screen for 2 hours. No contact or interaction to build upon. Choose a new date venue. Choose a romantic venue with alcohol available. You need to bang this girl ASAP to keep her attention. Don't get friendzoned!!!!!!!!!!!

I have an 18 month LTR with a mature woman 19yrs older than me. I took her to the Griffith observatory in LA for the 2nd date (first date was coffee off internet dating website). Got the the first kiss out of the way. Banged her the same night. Mature women are notoriously easier to get in the sack. Don't play the role of the inexperienced young guy.

ps. stop referring to her as a cougar. Makes you sound like the submissive in the relationship. Never allow that to happen. This woman is obviously interested in you. Get her either to your place or to her place and let the magic happen. You need better logistics. Plan a late night activity--and you drive her to and from the event (museum/activity, dinner, etc). If she does not give it up, bail and delete number. Older women rarely play games or waste time.

[Neo]

This may sound like really simply advice and it is.

Get her to your place again or go to hers, be aggressive and try to bang her. That's really all the 'game' you need at this point. You made a mistake when you got her to your place the first time and didn't close, now she's in limbo.

Even though you said you haven't dealt with a cougar, what you need to know is that these types of women are extremely easy to bang.