[orko]

I met a girl in a reunion 2 weeks ago, i liked her and we talked a little bit before she had to left the place and i didnt have the guts to ask her for her number in front of her friends. Still as this reunion was organized by a Couchsurfing group i was able to find her profile and sent her a message telling her who i was, joking a little bit about her height(she is small,i'm tall) and told her to give me her facebook. She answered back and she did give me it.
Now as big MOFO beta that i'm what the heck should i do?? Should i invite her right away to go for a drink? should i just start chatting with here over FB and test the minefield??
any clues , ideas are welcome!

thanks

[WestIndianArchie]

"Well all the time ya spend trying to get back what's been took from ya, more is going out the door. "

Newb question, and newb mindset.

Should be on newb board.

This is the big board, vet mindset.

Abundance mentality.

3.5 billion women and counting, we can all bang at least triple digits.

This is what you're thinking...

The bitch in you is saying, "yo, if I play it cool, feel her out, play my cards right, don't rush things, she'll reward me with an anal 3 some with her and her half thai/swedish cousin that I don't actually know about. So let me bide my time, and don't get bold until she gives me the signal"

You can't tell the future.
You can't predict how this broad is going to react when you ask her out.

She might have been high as hell when she gave you her #.
She could also be dying to give you some children.
She could be a closet freak who needs a Jabba the Hut for her Chained Up Princess Leia fantasy.

You don't know.

By pussyfooting around the pussy, you're wasting time.

Your time is the most valuable thing you have.

This particular chick is of no value to you at present.
At best she's an unscratched lottery ticket.

After you get her information, get her out as soon as possible.
If she balks, keep her in play but put her on the back burner, and spend your PRECIOUS time on banging other chicks.

How many hot chicks just turned 21 today?

WIA

[Travesty]

(12-23-2013 12:53 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

At best she's an unscratched lottery ticket.

Best analogy for newbies I have ever seen on how to treat any chick pre-bang. +1 For all the consistent and resonating newbie advice given WIA.

[AnonymousBosch]

(12-22-2013 04:10 PM)orko Wrote:  

Still as this reunion was organized by a Couchsurfing group i was able to find her profile and sent her a message telling her who i was, joking a little bit about her height(she is small,i'm tall) and told her to give me her facebook. She answered back and she did give me it.

Honestly, forget this girl. You blew the approach. Do it in person at the moment you decide you're attracted to her, and never over the computer. Forget Facebook. She's got a couple hundred other men on there waiting for her to post pictures they'll masturbate over, trying to get up the courage to ask her out for a drink. You'll never penetrate the signal-to-noise ratio.

Try again with a new girl. This time, be bold. If she says no, then you're one attempt closer to the girl who'll say yes.

[BadgerHut]

(12-23-2013 01:53 AM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

(12-22-2013 04:10 PM)orko Wrote:  

Still as this reunion was organized by a Couchsurfing group i was able to find her profile and sent her a message telling her who i was, joking a little bit about her height(she is small,i'm tall) and told her to give me her facebook. She answered back and she did give me it.

Honestly, forget this girl. You blew the approach. Do it in person at the moment you decide you're attracted to her, and never over the computer. Forget Facebook. She's got a couple hundred other men on there waiting for her to post pictures they'll masturbate over, trying to get up the courage to ask her out for a drink. You'll never penetrate the signal-to-noise ratio.

Try again with a new girl. This time, be bold. If she says no, then you're one attempt closer to the girl who'll say yes.

At this point, her value is as a learning experience, a cautionary tale to get the # in person. Sucks, but go approach 3 new girls tomorrow and you'll forget about her. I'm serious - go to the grocery store and whatnot and say hi to three new chicks. That's the next step forward to wash this one away as anything other than a lesson.

[orko]

(12-23-2013 12:53 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

"Well all the time ya spend trying to get back what's been took from ya, more is going out the door. "

Newb question, and newb mindset.

Should be on newb board.

This is the big board, vet mindset.

Abundance mentality.

3.5 billion women and counting, we can all bang at least triple digits.

This is what you're thinking...

The bitch in you is saying, "yo, if I play it cool, feel her out, play my cards right, don't rush things, she'll reward me with an anal 3 some with her and her half thai/swedish cousin that I don't actually know about. So let me bide my time, and don't get bold until she gives me the signal"

You can't tell the future.
You can't predict how this broad is going to react when you ask her out.

She might have been high as hell when she gave you her #.
She could also be dying to give you some children.
She could be a closet freak who needs a Jabba the Hut for her Chained Up Princess Leia fantasy.

You don't know.

By pussyfooting around the pussy, you're wasting time.

Your time is the most valuable thing you have.

This particular chick is of no value to you at present.
At best she's an unscratched lottery ticket.

After you get her information, get her out as soon as possible.
If she balks, keep her in play but put her on the back burner, and spend your PRECIOUS time on banging other chicks.

How many hot chicks just turned 21 today?

WIA

Thanks for your insight, +1 !!!!!

[soup]

(12-23-2013 12:53 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

"Well all the time ya spend trying to get back what's been took from ya, more is going out the door. "

Newb question, and newb mindset.

Should be on newb board.

This is the big board, vet mindset.

Abundance mentality.

3.5 billion women and counting, we can all bang at least triple digits.

This is what you're thinking...

The bitch in you is saying, "yo, if I play it cool, feel her out, play my cards right, don't rush things, she'll reward me with an anal 3 some with her and her half thai/swedish cousin that I don't actually know about. So let me bide my time, and don't get bold until she gives me the signal"

You can't tell the future.
You can't predict how this broad is going to react when you ask her out.

She might have been high as hell when she gave you her #.
She could also be dying to give you some children.
She could be a closet freak who needs a Jabba the Hut for her Chained Up Princess Leia fantasy.

You don't know.

By pussyfooting around the pussy, you're wasting time.

Your time is the most valuable thing you have.

This particular chick is of no value to you at present.
At best she's an unscratched lottery ticket.

After you get her information, get her out as soon as possible.
If she balks, keep her in play but put her on the back burner, and spend your PRECIOUS time on banging other chicks.

How many hot chicks just turned 21 today?

WIA

[rudebwoy]

WIA - wow my man, spot on as always!

[MrXY]

Here's how you handle getting the number of a girl in a group

Wait until her friends are distracted talking to other people, or if that doesn't happen get her in a conversation just with you.. Then take her by the upper arm and say, "Come here for a minute" lead her away to a more private area and number close immediately

and NewbieForum=========>

[delonge]

I dont think she should be forgotten though, ask her out and then next her if she says no.