[Joga Bonito]

So last night, I spot this smoking hot Colombian chick visiting from Cartagena with an awesome fake ass like Kim K sitting by herself. Chicks like this are more rare than unicorns in my area which increases the novelty, so I eventually step to her and start rapping. Her body language and demeanor is good, but eventually shes hits me with, "Wow you have alot of questions". This threw me off my game and I ended up just weaseling out and excusing myself. Yes, I know:

• You're supposed to alternate questions and statements
• Expect to do most of the talking initially in the interaction
  

I'll chalk it up to the fact that I was rusty from not really gaming due to a bunch of other things going on. My question is, how can I verbally recover in the midst of the conversation from a chick saying that to me? Upon reflection I realize I could've tried dragging her to the dance floor, but I'm not particularly good with dance game unless shes twerking on me. Any other ideas?

[MidniteSpecial]

It's a shit test. You know how to handle them right?

Her "Wow you have a lot of questions."

Me "yeah I'm actually a news reporter for bbc, your answers are not the best I must say."

Or "thousands of questions. This is only the beginning, do you have a pen can you fill out this survey?"

[Que enspastic]

[Statsi]

What's this alternate between question and statements chat? Just have a natural ramble and you're good, keep it light. Set systems are robotic, follow chat threads if you really worry about silence.

Midnight's response sounds cool, fits agree and amplify. However to me this sounds like she wanted you to escalate, if you have already been getting on well and out of no where she implies you're talking to much it's time to move for a kiss, like immediately. I'd say 'alright then' put a hand under her chin and rest her jaw on the side of your index finger before moving in for the kiss. She might turn away, but she'll atleast be far more interested in the interaction again. Taking her hand and walking to either the dance floor for grinding, or to the bar for shots aren't bad plays either.

Basically the worst thing you could do is leaving the chick without reason. Force the rejection mate!

[Joga Bonito]

(12-15-2013 01:37 PM)Statsi Wrote:  

What's this alternate between question and statements chat? Just have a natural ramble and you're good, keep it light. Set systems are robotic, follow chat threads if you really worry about silence.

Midnight's response sounds cool, fits agree and amplify. However to me this sounds like she wanted you to escalate, if you have already been getting on well and out of no where she implies you're talking to much it's time to move for a kiss, like immediately. I'd say 'alright then' put a hand under her chin and rest her jaw on the side of your index finger before moving in for the kiss. She might turn away, but she'll atleast be far more interested in the interaction again. Taking her hand and walking to either the dance floor for grinding, or to the bar for shots aren't bad plays either.

Basically the worst thing you could do is leaving the chick without reason. Force the rejection mate!

Thanks Statsi you make good points. I didn't literally mean alternate questions and statements,I worded it poorly. I meant to say that the interaction should not feel like an interview. Typically if a chick is responsive, I don't have a hard time holding a natural convo. I'll work on not ejecting early though.

[Statsi]

Yeah don't beat yourself up dude, next girl. Forcing the rejection has dramatically improved things for me, stops time wasters, allows you to have nights of pure insanity too. Atleast you opened the baddest girl in the club.

[XXL]

her: "Wow you have alot of questions"

simple answers:

you: yeah / yes I do [and continue whatever you were talking before. easiest way to do it]
you: I'm curious about you [simple honesty, standing by your words]
you: i'm just getting started, there are more to come, better brace yourself, it will get worse and worse [take it further]

fancy answers:

you: are you silent type? ok let's see [shut up and stare in her eyes without blinking. amplifies the tension]
you: thanks people like my eloquence [misinterpretation]
you: that's what happens when I get shy and nervous, I'm so insecure right now, can you hug me? [laugh it off]
you: really? why do you think so? is it weird? how does it feel? are you uncomfortable? am I doing something wrong? [answer with more questions hahaha]
you: aha I'm like human version of myspace personality test, so far you're doing.. ok I guess [reframe]

[Flavius Aetius]

You did the right thing--you approached the super hot girl. Sometimes it just does not work out. Keep approaching.

She sounded like a cold fish, which required you to keep the conversation going. Focus on travel. All little hamsters like to travel--tell her about the last place you visited. Tell her a funny story. I have 4 tried and tested stories which always produce laughter so I tell them over and over again to different girls. All little hamsters want to be entertained.

Try to avoid the interview style--most men end up doing this because it is easy and by default keeps the little hamster talking.

Instead, the first few minutes, you should be selling her on why you have a high Sexual Market Value. The great places you have been, adventurous stories (bungee jumping, mountain climbing,etc), humor, what you do for a living,etc. While you are talking to her--try to get some alcohol in her to loosen her up.

[eradicator]

"Wow you have a lot of questions!"

"I am just trying to get to know you."

or

"Only for women I am genuinely interested in."

or

"I am a curious and inquisitive person by nature"

"OK then, it's your turn. Ask me anything."

or if you want to neg

"If I am talking too fast, I can slow down so you can catch up. Is. this. better?"

"I am surprised your English is good enough that you can understand everything I am saying. Where did you study English?" (not really a neg I guess, but it sort of is)

[ikkyu]

"dont worry you're doing alright so far/i grade on a curve"

"what makes you say that? is that a problem? does it bother you? why is that? maybe you could tell me about your childhood. how does it make you feel?"

[BadgerHut]

(12-15-2013 12:31 PM)MidniteSpecial Wrote:  

It's a shit test. You know how to handle them right?

Her "Wow you have a lot of questions."

Me "yeah I'm actually a news reporter for bbc, your answers are not the best I must say."

Or "thousands of questions. This is only the beginning, do you have a pen can you fill out this survey?"

"I'm really good on Jeopardy."

[Wahawahwah]

"Is it?

"Its called manners."

"I'm a mad scientist?"

"Wow. You catch on quick."

"Yeah I'm doing a survey. What's your address? How much money do you have?"

"Yeah, I find you weird-ish..."

Laugh. Go hit on other girls.

"Yes. How do you like ..... that chick over there? You think she's be down for a threesome"

"Fuck off?" Shit eating grin.

[Joga Bonito]

All great ideas fellas. Think I'm well equipped to handle a situation like this in the future.

[XXL]

Most importantly, when girls tease you like that don't view it as an attack. It's just them flirting with you. When you like someone you probably tease too. That's a sign of affection. If you view it this way you will be ready for anything. You will go "oh she's flirty.. .." and you will easily choose whatever response you want [not responding to it directly is also a response]. You might even want to get them more often since it's a good sign that you made some sort of emotional impact on the girl.

That's how I personally do it. I view it as just another little thing being said in the conversation. Nothing more. If it's something funny/interesting I can play along with it and take it further to make it more funny/absurd. Or I might completely brush it off by saying "probably" or "I guess" super casually and carry on what I was talking about like that little challenge didn't even occur.

My point is that's better to understand what's going on rather than having perfect answer to anything that might come up. So don't learn those answers by heart. Break them down to see what they imply. You'll be bulletproof then.

[ElJefe]

Do. Not. Take. Her. Seriously.

Ever.

No matter what, however, don't show any BUTTHURTNESS.

Responses like "I'm curious about you" are borderline bad, because you're justifying yourself to the bitch, which you should never do. It's bad for compliance. It will pass assumed it's said with a smile and a wink. Better would be "how else would I know if you're the girl of my dreams?". 1) Over the top romance like that works for me, because it assumes the sale and demonstrates romantic intent, and it's so cheesy that she won't help but get the irony/sarcasm. 2) you're not taking her seriously, which is the underlying rule for any and all interactions with women.

Remembering this simple fact can be difficult on the battlefield or when you're coming out of relationship and the sword is a bit rusty.

Just a few days ago I invited a girl to a bar, and she asked what kinda place it was, I avoided answering and then came she down on me hard:

"Why can't you just tell me what it is?"

I was miffed and put off by her lack of trust and compliance. I fucked up, and I didn't make it better with my response ("a bar"). I was out of the game for too long, so mistakes like this happen. In retrospect, "trust me" with a wink would've been ideal.

The girl has to learn COMPLIANCE and to follow orders. You must condition her by passing the shit tests, so she can trust you're going to man up and do your thing.

[iknowexactly]

(12-15-2013 01:37 PM)Statsi Wrote:  

What's this alternate between question and statements chat? Just have a natural ramble and you're good, keep it light. Set systems are robotic, follow chat threads if you really worry about silence.

..... this sounds like she wanted you to escalate,
...
Force the rejection mate!

Golden and incisive. +1

[daddysanchez]

"And u aint got the answers Sway!" I would have assumed she was hip to Kanye's antics on the sway morning show so maybe referencing that as a comeback would have been funny to her. And if she does u can easily flow right into another subject such as music or her thougghts on kim and kanye's relationship or sumn. Girls like talking about that type of stuff right? Just sumthn to keep the convo going